Things Not to do when you Get cheated on

A number of you have been cheated on and then always dont know what to do. Here are some tips

DO not act like it never happened.

When you try to act like it never happened just because its too painful, it hurts even more.

If you do this, you might end up resenting your partner which may lead to self harm, or hurting the other person out of revenge.

Do not blame yourself.

Someone cheating on you is not your fault. You’re not responsible for it, you didn’t “deserve” it, and if your partner crossed lines instead of communicating their needs (or breaking off the relationship), that’s on them, not you

Sorry, I aint sorry

Don’t bring up the incident to “win” unrelated arguments

“Well, at least I am not the one who cheated like you” is one very common statement even years after cheating has happened. That’s not to say that if you’re hurting about the infidelity, you shouldn’t bring it up, but acting petty when you know better doesn’t help anyone.

Dont try to get even (revenge)

Breaking their, TV or car or even sleeping with someone else to revenge should never be an option.

this is especially for people who still love each other and may want to salvage the relationship. This only causes more hurt and pain for the bot of you.

I hope you find these helpful and comforting.