Pinky Ghelani celebrates her 10 year Anniversary today and this is how she chose to celebrate her husband…so Sweet!

10 years it is ever since Pinky Ghelani walked down the aisle to the love of her life and said goodbye to singlehood.

She has been lucky, finding just the right person in her husband Raj Sehmi and has been patient enough to wade through the tides of marriage. She has few lessons as to what it takes which she decided share as she celebrates this important day.

First thing first, you have to find someone who is driven and keen on uplifting you; someone who is honest to you and to themselves and somebody who you definitely trust and who is willing to share responsibilities with you.

And at this juncture I’m just copying what she wrote so let me leave her message here and hope you pick up a thing or two:

Marry someone who is driven. Someone who optimistically supports and uplifts you. Marry someone who is honest. Honest with you, with others and with themselves. Don’t marry someone you don’t trust. Find someone who willingly shares responsibility, someone who doesn’t expect you to adhere to silly gender roles. Find someone you cherish togetherness with and someone who understands the importance of alone time. Someone who values your opinion. Someone with a willingness to learn. A person with an open mind. Ignorance is never attractive. Find someone who makes it easy to feel grateful, for everything. Keep in mind that marriage is not always beautiful – it can get ugly and murky. It requires strength. It requires loving both ways when neither is behaving lovable. Find someone who serves you and someone you want to serve, without reward.
I did.
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