Five Healthy Tips to Flourish your Relationship this New Year

Invest in a healthy relationship and be better for it.

Love can be regarded as one of the greatest possessions of man and healthy relationships are tool with which love is expressed. Certainly, nothing feels better than being loved right. Whether it is the love that comes from family or that which exists between friends, love, when done right can make a day feel like a minute.

When love goes south, it is often one of the most dangerous things on earth as nothing hurts more than a heart that bleeds from loving wrongly.

It however take two imperfect hearts that are willing to make love perfect. Even though there are no manuals for relationships, these are healthy tips to flourish your love life.

Don’t Nag!

If it takes two people to be in a e not relationship, one must always be ready to take a hard pill for the other. No one is perfect, you are not perfect, don’t expect your partner to be perfect either. It could be difficult at times to quietly talk things through when ye hurt of pained but it is obviously the right thing to do. Don’t nag, no one loves to be nagged at. be patient, be ‘reasonable’, understand your partner and settle amicably. Nagging always succeeds at one thing; Migraine! Sure no one loves it.

Be Open, Don’t Keep Secrets.

This kills a relationship faster. Your partner shouldn’t have to find things out on their own.It could feel difficult to talk about somethings to your partner as it is always easy to assume that he/she won’t understand but trust me, if you don’t ask, the answer is always no. Talk about the most deepest of secrets to each other and together you would live above the most difficult times.

Don’t be Nosy

As much as it is okay to share secrets, it is often very bad and disastrous to be nosy in relationships. This one comes with trust.If your partner is keeping it from you, trust that he/she has good reasons. It often hurt so much to find things out without being told. Not only does this affect you, it affects your partner too and may raise the first red flag of the relationship. Don’t go through your partner’s phone without permission, with time, trust will be earned, love cemented and the phone will be as good as yours, just be calm and build your relationship. Instead of being an FBI agent, be a lover and earn that trust, if there is trust, there would be no secrets.

Play!!!

Yes! You read right, play! there is no better bonding times in relationships than playtime. Play like kids, do naughty things together. These are the memories you carry along when you are not together. Imagine thinking about the fun times you had with your lover and not being able to stop smiling in pubic. That is how strong those times can be. bring back the fun times, don’t be too uptight, be friends, play and be happy.

Enjoy, not Endure

A relationship is to be enjoyed by both parties. Make every moment of your love life count. No matter where you are, far or near, make sure you are enjoying your relationship. The moment you feel you are beginning to endure a relationship, think again. Retrace your steps, go back to the drawing board and make sure you enjoy yourself. This doesn’t mean there are no bad times, in love, those bad times are born out of utmost affection for the erring partner not out of a sense of endurance. Don’t forget that the goal of every relationship is to journey to forever, how long can your endurance-bank last?

Remember, there is no manual to a happy relationship but a spontaneous life with an imperfect partner makes everything perfect.