Zari needs to stop dating and focus on raising her children

Zari Hassan needs to take a step away from the dating market and focus more on raising her children because she is a mother to two toddlers who cannot afford to keep seeing their mother with a revolving door of men.

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She recently took to social media to announce that her and her most recent boyfriend, Dark Stallion or whatever it was that she called him, had gone their separate ways as she did not find him mentally stimulating.

Ofcourse Zari would shift the blame of her umpteenth relationship failure on the men because we have yet to see her take any accountability for the fact that she has dated many men but has been unable to lock a single one down.

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Well, that isn’t exactly accurate and fair to her. She did manage to lock down the late Ivan Ssemwanga but that relationship or rather marriage ended when she got a taste of fame and then later started blaming him for the end of that marriage because he was “abusive”.

Then came Diamond Platnumz and they hadn’t been together 3-months by the time she was announcing that she had baby trapped the leading African superstar… And when she got a second child after attempting to strong-arm Mondi into a marriage, Zari again blamed him when that relationship died.

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There was King Bae and all his 10 incarnations as she tried to make her ex, Diamond jealous and none of them stayed with her. But we need to look beyond her and see why this revolving door of men is a problem.

Zari is a single mother of 5 children. One of her children, Tiffah, is a daughter. She is sitting down and watching her mother’s bedroom get as much foot traffic as a bus station. And if you think this will not damage her, you’re probably a dense feminist or Nick Ndeda.

Basically, her mother is teaching her that she is a piece of meat. That when she gets older, she should conduct herself like a butchery. That is why even as a toddler, she is constantly paraded in immodest garb and heavy makeup.

And then her sons are being taught that men are simply meant to use and dump women. They have no format of what a healthy relationship looks like. All they have ever known is to have their mother love-bomb men then get dumped once these men tire of her -afterall, she is a single mother of 5.

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Zari should wait until ALL her children are out of the house before she starts dating again because what she is chasing is unattainable for her -she is trying to lockdown a high value man for a monogamous marriage when she has nothing to offer such a man.

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