Vera to Kenyan women: Stop pushing your men to change

Socialite Vera Sidika was on Instagram this weekend to share that a man will never change for a woman unless he wants to.

According to Vera, men should not be pushed because at the end of the day, they’ll decide what they want to do.

She further to women that men they are trying to mould will never change because to them, they are not the lovers they desire.

“I’ve seen men leave 5-10 years relationships, turn around and get married to a woman he’s known for 6 months,” she said.

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Vera also believes that men only change when they like you a reason why women should stop pushing them.

“And does all the things his ex always begged him to do. Word of advice. Stop preaching to these men, they hear you.

“He’s not going to ever be the man you want him to be because you’re not the woman he wants to be with, people change for who they want, period,” she wrote on her InstaStory.