The Top 10 Songs Chosen by Terminally Ill Patients on Their Deathbed

A new study by Marie Curie, a leading end-of-life care charity, has revealed the most popular songs chosen by terminally ill individuals to accompany them in their final moments. The research, conducted by polling bereaved relatives, offers a poignant glimpse into the music that provides comfort and solace during life’s most challenging times.

Topping the list is Frank Sinatra’s timeless classic, “My Way,” a song that has resonated with generations and continues to offer a sense of empowerment and acceptance. Other beloved tracks include Whitney Houston’s heart-wrenching ballad, “I Will Always Love You,” and Tina Turner’s energetic anthem, “(Simply) The Best.”

The study also highlighted the enduring popularity of older songs, with Judy Garland’s “Over the Rainbow” and Queen’s “These Are the Days of Our Lives” making the top ten. Other notable mentions include Dolly Parton’s “Jolene” and Cyndi Lauper’s upbeat “Girls Just Want to Have Fun.”

Marie Curie emphasized the vital role music plays in end-of-life care, with 84% of respondents agreeing that music helped to relax and calm their loved ones. Beyond providing comfort, music can also create shared experiences, evoke positive memories, and distract from physical symptoms.

Dr. Tracey McConnell, a music therapy expert and honorary Marie Curie senior research fellow, explained that music can help individuals express their feelings and find solace during difficult times. “Terminal illness, pain, and the fear of dying can result in feelings of powerlessness and isolation,” she said. “Music can help people feel better, whatever their health or emotional situation.”

In addition to the most popular songs, Marie Curie also published a separate report on people’s priorities for their final months, weeks, and days. The vast majority of respondents (83%) stated that quality of life was more important than length of life when seriously ill.

Key priorities included being free of pain, maintaining dignity and self-respect, and being surrounded by loved ones. Unfortunately, Marie Curie’s research revealed that these basic needs are often not met, highlighting the urgent need for improved palliative and end-of-life care.