Vivianne Opens Up About Family Struggles and Takes a Defiant Stand
The mother of one shared her emotional journey on Instagram, revealing the resistance she faced from her mother upon attempting to reconnect with her family after time abroad.
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Reflecting on her strained relationships, Vivianne spoke candidly about the trauma and challenges she endured, particularly during her divorce.
“When I went through the divorce, my sister called me mentally sick,” she disclosed, emphasizing the pain of being judged by her closest relatives. She also recounted an incident with her aunt, who she said “came to harass me in my own house,” leaving her feeling unsupported and isolated during a vulnerable time.
Vivianne’s return home was met with further rejection. “When I attempted to come back home from the West, my mum asked, ‘Why should I?’” she shared, highlighting the sense of alienation she felt from her family.
The artist traced her struggles back to childhood, acknowledging deep-rooted trauma within her family dynamic. “I realised the trauma I have started from my upbringing,” she explained, pointing to generational patterns of dysfunction.
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She described the emotional detachment among the women in her maternal family, saying, “The women on my mum’s side are numb and cold; my sister leading the pack.”
Despite the pain, Vivianne remains determined to break free from these toxic cycles. She vowed to stand up for herself and her children, refusing to be silenced or intimidated.
“I want them to know they can never silence or break me. I will speak up for myself and my children,” she declared.
Her post ended with a powerful message of defiance: “Suppression, fear, harassment, self-centeredness ends here and now. Siwaogopi.”
