Tanasha finally comes clean on why she walked out on Diamond without notice (Video)

We can only admit that the world is always quick to judge when someone´s life goes haywire or something doesn´t end up working for them.

One can explain that we are only human. Fine! But it is neither the right way to go. The victims end up getting hurt in the process and the critics end up feeling sorry for their actions, once the truth comes out.

Anyway, celebrities have more often that not been judged for the choices they make in life. What we fail to understand is that life never came with a manual to it.

Kenyan songbird, Tanasha Donna became the punching bag after her relationship with Diamond was marred with controversies, left, right and center which saw her pack her bags and leave in February.

Kenyan musician, Tanasha Donna

To many, this was bound to happen. Some felt she was the reason why it never worked. Others pinned the blame on the Tanzanian crooner and his family. While others were just not sure where to stand.

Also read: Wema Sepetu stirs heated debate after questioning Diamond´s intentions for Tanasha Donna (Screenshot)

Red light

During her recent interview with Kenya´s Baraka FM, the mother of one clarified that she already had second thoughts about their relationship since long ago.

A mission that was already decided upon after things between them started seeming misty, all she needed was a date to officially call it quits.

Enough is enough, I decided to leave. You know!? So it´s not something I woke up one day and said ¨you know what,  I´m leaving¨.

Co-parents, Tanasha Donna and Diamond Platnumz

She called out people for judging her too quick without trying to get the facts right or even understanding why she had to walk away abruptly.

Well, it turns out, for the sake of her mental health and that of her son, she needed to face the situation head-on and care less about what people had to say.

No! There was a build up of many things and people never see the build up of things that caused me to walk away, they only notice when everything explodes.

Mama Naseeb also known as Tanasha Donna

Just to take you a while back when the Kenyan girl had her interview with True Love´s Mandi, the 24-year old revealed that she already started seeing the red light six months before she officially broke up with her baby daddy.

That already tells you that she had held on for too long to waste any more time.

“I did what was best for me and my son” Tanasha Donna on walking out of a toxic relationship

Tanasha Donna has talked of housewife duties she was forced to take up at Mama Dangote’s house and the tribulations she faced but despite it all, she is still standing strong.

The young mother of one, fell in love with Diamond Platnumz and it looked like a never ending romance but before she knew it, the relationship was going downhill.

However, Ms Oketch stands firm on her two feet and picks up the broken pieces because that is what a strong woman does.

Tanasha Donna

During her recent interview with True Love magazine’s CEO, when asked how she was doing following the breakup, the damsel said:

I’m doing good. I see myself as a strong woman. It’s what every woman goes through. You may have certain expectations when you get into a relationship or business and things don’t turn out exactly the way you want them to. So that’s when you decide, ‘is it worth fighting for?’ That becomes a decision you make and at the end of the day, we do what is best for us.

Her lifestyle, career choices and dreams were poked at, not once, not twice, but she was not going to give up her ‘being’ and beliefs just to please her in-laws.

City girl, Tanasha Donna

‘Lead personal lives but still compliment each other at the end of the day’ Tanasha believes in this.

When you get comfortable in a relationship, its isn’t a healthy thing because every individual should have own personal lives, their own careers, dreams, going on, but still be compatible together. Still compliment one another.

Gone are the days when women spent more time taking care of the homes than out in the office. Today, things have changed.

For her, being ‘a perfect wife, submissive..’ just to mention a few is a good description of a toxic relationship in the current day and age.

In this era, women know their value but there are still some women who still think ‘I have to do what my man wants, need to be the perfect wife, submissive…’. If you really look at it from a logical perspective, that can end up being really toxic.

Singer, Tanasha Donna

Just 24 and a mother to a 6-months old baby, Tanasha had to place her son’s interests before hers, therefore saw it best to walk out of Diamond’s life.

I knew I had a son and I wanted him to grow up in a loving environment.

Celebrity, Tanasha Donna

This is not the first time a female celebrity has come open about leading past toxic relationships that they gained the courage to walk out of.

Saumu Mbuvi, Chantelle Petit, Vera Sidika, Nicah the Queen, Natalie Tewa and Ruth Matete are good examples.

“I was judged a lot because I was not the typical cultural Tanzanian woman” Tanasha Donna opens up

The age when a woman was expected to be a housewife while the man wore a suit to work everyday, has been overtaken by time and events.

And for those still forcing wives into that culture, it is considered retrogressive of you.

Tanasha Donna found herself in a new setting – different customs and practices, different beliefs and traditions – the day she locked hands with Tanzanian singer, Diamond Platnumz.

Tanasha Donna and Diamond Platnumz

Hailing from neighbor country, Kenya and bred in Italy, before flying in to Belgium for her University Degree, Tanasha is not the basic African girl.

However, life got tough on her in Tanzania with a mother-in-law, Sandra Dangote who expected her to wake up and cook.

Unfortunately, that is just not how the model had been raised.

I was giving my all. Sometimes I would be judged a lot because I am not your typical cultural Tanzanian woman. I don’t stay at home, wake up and cook. I love cooking but if I can hire a chef why not? I faced a lot of obstacles. A lot of people did not want us together including people from the team and family.

(from left) Tanasha Donna, Diamond Platnumz, Mama Dangote and Esma Khan

Career

The young Kenyan entrepreneur who is not new in the music industry, was considered a competition to her lover, Diamond Platnumz.

Tanasha Donna and Diamond Platnumz

Having been a video vixen before and had a couple of music releases, Tanasha Donna’s career was edged towards the art industry in the last couple of years.

However, this did not sit well with Diamond’s mother. Thus, making it difficult for the bongo artist to make up his mind on whose side he would stand on.

I think the fact that I was doing music was a hindrance. The question he would get was ‘mwanamke anafanya music si mtashindana?’ (with a woman also doing music, won’t she be your competition?) ‘I think he was caught in a tug of war. People who had helped him on his way up and had been with him for ten years were telling him one thing on one side and I was the woman who loved him on the other.

Tanasha Donna (left), Diamond Platnumz and Mama Dangote (right)

Well, we all know who he eventually picked – his family, leaving Tanasha out to dry.

Either way, our Kenyan darling holds no grudges because probably, the love was just not as strong.

I will not blame him for choosing to listen to them. Unfortunately, love was not as strong as I thought. But I won’t use that as an excuse. I don’t blame anyone specifically. It is life. People are brought up differently.

Kenyan girl, Tanasha Donna

She had fought for ‘their love’ all the while but it got to a point she realized, she could no longer do it alone.

I could fight all those people but I realized I couldn’t fight alone.

Why Tanasha plans to work on her relationship with ‘co-wives’ Zari and Hamisa Mobetto

Diamond Platnumz ex, Tanasha Donna seeks to repair her relationship with the crooner’s other baby mamas: Zari Hassan and Hamisa Mobetto.

Not for her own good by any chance, but for the good of her son, Naseeb Junior whom she believes needs to grow up knowing he has siblings but from other mothers.

During her recent exclusive interview with True Love magazine’s boss, Carole Mandi, Tanasha explained how important it would be for the 4 children to bond.

In the case of the other siblings, I do eventually want him to grow up knowing his brothers and sister.

Diamond’s baby mamas:(from left) Zari Hassan, Hamisa Mobetto and Tanasha Donna

Having Naseeb Junior meet his other three siblings simply means the three women need to repair their relationship and get over the past.

However, the meet up might take time – until Tanasha is ready to come forward for some bonding.

So yeah, I see myself getting in touch with their mothers, eventually. When I’m ready and have them grow up together.

Reason why the model feels the children need to grow up knowing each other is just to take care of future events.

Because they may grow up hating us mothers for keeping them away from each other.

Diamond’s baby mamas:(from right) Zari Hassan, Hamisa Mobetto and Tanasha Donna

The mother of one clarified that all these plans are nothing but for the good of her son.

I’m here thinking about my son. No one else and what is strictly good for him.

Breakup

In light to her ugly split with the Bongo Flava artist, Chibu, Tanasha confessed her authentic love for the singer despite disbelief among masses.

I was genuinely in love. I was genuinely willing to give my all and go the extra mile. Even in business relationships. Everything I had in mind I was thinking of my family.

Tanasha and Diamond
Ex-lovers, Tanasha and Diamond

However, she declined to share more in regard to the same.

That is something I would like to keep private for now because that is something in the works.

“It’s never easy to deal with a break-up and I’m not ready to go public just as yet” Tanasha Donna admits

It marks a month since Kenyan-Tanzanian couple, Tanasha and Diamond part ways.

The duo split in unclear circumstances and all that has kept doing the rounds is speculations, criticisms and ‘supposed’ counter-attacks between the two parties and their next of kin.

However, despite a month since, Tanasha is not ready to speak about her alleged breakup or anything to do with the Tanzanian star.

Ex-couple, Tanasha Donna and Diamond

The Kenyan musician engaged fans in a Live Instagram video over the weekend, among with other African celebrities.

Breakup?

Unfortunately, the commercial model could tell from the numbers – a record 8k followers, that many wanted to know more about her breakup and what actually transpired between the pair.

I know a lot of you guys wanna know about what went down in my relationship and my personal life. I think that’s why most people are here.

Well, she was just not there to talk about anything relationship-related.

Tanasha Donna

For her, her past relationship means something ‘very personal’ and she feels it is not time yet to speak about it.

This is not something I’m ready to come out with in public just as yet. It’s something very personal and everybody has their own timing of coming out with their own stories. So I’m not here to talk about what happened in my previous relationship.

Instead, her main aim of having the InstaLive session, was to encourage people as well as talk about her upcoming projects while engaging other celebrities.

Sijakuja kuongea kuhusu what went down, I’m here to uplift people. I am here to talk about my upcoming projects and also to get on Live with different celebrities and entertain people.

Kenyan musician, Tanasha Donna

Aftermath

Further speaking in regard to her untimely split with Mondi, Tanasha said it is not easy for her and that is why she is trying to stay off of it.

However, when the right time comes, she promised to welcome the world into her life in order to understand what really went down.

It’s never easy to deal with a break-up but am focusing on what matters most, but I’m grateful all is well. But will talk about it, when the right time comes because everyone has her way of handling things. When I’m ready I will talk about it.

Tanasha Donna

Additionally disclosing that as we wait, a snippet of her story will be captured in an upcoming magazine issue where she features as the cover girl.

And in the next few weeks, I will tell a bit of my story in a magazine that I’m on the cover because I see everybody wants to know what happened.

Trolls

However, she got it rough from fans who called her out for wasting their time because there was ‘nothing important’ she was going to speak about.