Many people don’t understand what I was going through then- Shaffie comes clean on embarrassing Nax-Vegas incident

Kiss FM radio host Shaffie Weru has opened up on an ugly incident that left him embarrassed during the Easter holiday in 2012.

Opening up for a second time since then, Shaffie said he was going through a lot during that time.

During the Easter weekend during the NaxVegas a drunk Shaffie was frog-matched away from the venue by bounces for causing a raucous.

Rumours stated that he was hitting on a chick who was accompanied by his boyfriend, and the boyfriend felt ‘insulted’ and so some confrontation began, and the bouncers came in and dragged him out of the venue.

Shaffie disclosed that he was at a bad place emotionally at the time of that event and would get himself super drunk to forget his issues with baby mama Joan.

“Many people don’t understand what I was going through then. But I know what I was going through then. At that time nilikuwa na beef mbaya sana na mama Nia 2 to 3 years in our relationship. There were rumours that she was cheating, I know people look at me and think I can’t get played, I get played. I was living with her and I have given my all. I had just split from Debbie Asila and had gotten myself in this situation. The grass is not always greener on the other side, it was semi-arid. Things were not going right, we were not feeling each other, and there was a lot of pressure. She was way younger than me, she did what she did and I did what I did,” Shaffie said on the Chipukeezy Show.

He added that he turned to drinking to easy the pain.

“I threw myself into partying because out there, there was acceptance, I was hiding my grief and everything. I was going through a lot and I fell into alcohol and other stuff it was crazy bro,” Shaffie explained.

 

Nairobi Diaries director Janet Mwaluda’s hubby laid to rest

Nairobi Diaries director Janet Mwaluda lost her fiance Ian Mukuria on Tuesday after he succumbed to his illness at the Nairobi Hospital.

Ian was laid to  rest yesterday at the Lang’ata Cemetery in a small ceremony attended by family and friends. Ian, who served as the Vice Chair of the USIU-Africa Alumni Association died after a few days in the hospital.

RIP

His burial was attended by celebs such as Shaffie Weru, Brian Muiruri among others. USIU-Africa Alumni Association first broke the news saying:

“Dear fellow USIU-Africa Alumni, It is with deep sorrow that we wish to inform you that last evening at 9.45pm, we lost our Vice Chair, Ian Mukuria, who has been critically ill at Nairobi Hospital since Friday last week.

As the USIU-Africa Alumni Executive Committee, we wish to convey our deepest condolences to his fiancée Janet Mwaluda, all family, friends and colleagues.

As a team, we thank God for his life, his contribution, hard work, camaraderie, his warmth & generosity while serving on the Alumni Executive Committee.

Please remember his family in this time of loss. May the Lord God rest his soul in eternal peace.”

 

Shaffie: Getting a kid at 23 scared me, I wasn’t prepared for fatherhood 

Radio presenter Shaffie Weru has opened up about getting a baby at a rather young age. In an interview with Parents Magazine, Weru, who had his firstborn with singer Debbie Asila when only 23 years, had to speed up the maturity process when his daughter was born.

“I was 23, scared, confused and overwhelmed. I wanted to retreat. All that changed however when I held Milan. The partying had to stop, especially the first year. Not that I was sleeping, to begin with. Now I was just not sleeping, but because of different circumstances,” He told Parents Magazine.

Wasn’t easy

The father of three went on do add that Asila, after giving birth, suffered from post-partum depression for close to a month.

“Debbie also suffered from post-partum depression for about a month. She was depressed, didn’t want to eat or go out. I didn’t know what was going on and didn’t understand what she was going through. It helped that our moms were there,” he said. “When Nia came along, I was ready, in every sense of the word,”  he said.

Here is how young girls get pimped to old wazees according to radio presenter Shaffie

Cases of jobless girls living an expensive lifestyle has left many with questions where they get their money from but according to Kiss FM radio presenter Shaffie Weru, young boys are the ones connecting these girls to sponsors who then fund their lifestyle.

“Last weekend, the hashtag #IfikieWazazi shocked many, but the truth is, this trend was started by the pornographers – Instagram Photographers. They are known for taking advantage of children on Instagram in guise of making them famous or models.

“We have young photographers who have opened pages online that focus on pimping young girls and boys to sponsors. Most of them never tell the naive kids that they are being pimped out, they take the photos in the name of art and at a chance of being discovered as a model.” said Shaffie on his weekly column on the Star Newspaper.

Commission for every lady

Shaffie also said that young boys go on to get a commission of between Ksh 2000 and Ksh 1000 for every girl they bring. They tell them they are taking them for photo shoots but lead them to sponsors and brothels.

 “To reward the unsuspecting teenagers, the spotters can offer the girls airtime and some little cash to turn up for the shoots. Impressed, the victims fall for the trap. The spotters are usually paid on commissions like 2k (Sh2,000) per girl or 1K (Sh1,000), or more depending on how hot the girl is or how impressive her physical features are,” said Shaffie 

Shaffie Weru: I won’t leave my kids anything when I die

While most people work hard so that their kids can have a bright future which will seem them hustle less, Kiss FM radio presenter Shaffie Weru’s kids might not be that lucky.

Shaffie, in an interview shared that he’s working hard to live the life and is not looking at leaving his kids anything when he dies.

Equipped them with necessary tools to be rich

The host shared that he has given his kids all the right opportunities that will make them independent in future and so should not  be focusing on his property.

For my kids, I give them shelter, take them to great schools and if they think  nitadedi niwaachie doo, watashangaa. Doo watafute yao. That’s my motto, he said. 

Adding:

“Sometimes I go broke very badly but when I have money I spend it. Coz you never know what to expect tomorrow and I don’t want to be that guy that left money stashed in the mattress or in the bank.” He said.