Saumu Mbuvi has decided to settle down into being a mother to her two daughters and this is something we need to applaud because it seems she finally woke up to the realization that if she were to continue chasing after men as she had done previously she would have had an entire brood of children each with their own individual further.
It is also something refreshing because the other celebrity single mothers we have in Kenya are heavily fixated on getting men to replace their baby daddies and a great example of this would be Corazon Kwamboka and her co-baby mama, Maureen Waititu.
Saumu Mbuvi on Radio Jambo
Saumu Mbuvi really is going to start winning now that she has decided to focus on her daughter’s because the truth of the matter is for every single mother out there they end up raising single mothers or deadbeat dads. However, now that she has begun to focus on what’s right she can raise her children to the best of our abilities get the rest of her family involved and maybe after they’re out of the house and in university she can begin to look for a man and a relationship.
She is not like her contemporaries who are busy fighting to remain relevant on social media by showing off their bodies in seductive poses. She’s not like our contemporaries who have been busy posting about fake non-existent relationships.
Saumu Mbuvi attacking Aeedah Bambi?
She has clearly learnt from her mistake; insofar as her choice of men is concerned. And she has now decided she is not going to introduce any amount of instability into her children’s lives simply in the name or looking for a man. Say what you will but even the single motherhood is a problem she is attempting to do it right.
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When you listen to your favourite celebrities, women such as Carol Sonnie, Maureen Waititu, Akothee, tiffany Muikamba and the rest of them, you’d be led to believe that single motherhood is not only heroic but is also easy.
And when Father’s Day comes around a lot of celebrities celebrate their single mothers who raise them by taking on both the role of mother and father. The same happens on Mother’s Day, Women’s Day, hell even on Men’s Day. And we are led to believe that there is no nobler calling than that of being a single mother.
Carol Sonnie baby bump
But all of that is a trap. All of that is a lack of accountability and the resultant delusion meant to make single mothers feel good about their circumstances and also lower other women into the trap single motherhood. This is not to absolve the useless bums who get themselves caught up in situations where they either get baby trapped or are so reckless they have created multiple single mothers.
There is clear evidence that single mothers get to choose the Men They procreated with and they are selecting the worst possible man to become fathers. They are selecting the “bad boys”: the irresponsible and immature men to procreate with.
And for us to counter this speed of single motherhood we need to return back to the days when a woman would refuse to carry a child for any man who did not marry her. Marry before you carry.
And there are a lot of good reasons why we need to put a stop to the increasing numbers of single mothers. The statistics of single mother led households tell a rather damning tale. One that we should be very terrified of especially when we have situations of single mothers raising sons. When it comes to single mothers raising daughters we largely have to fear the fact that single mothers raise single mothers. Women who even though they might get married and up ruining their families by walking away when things get tough.
Of course that’s not to say that a woman should stay when her husband is abusive. And the fact that I have to clarify this in such autistic detail tells you that I am aware that feminists are waiting to twist my words to meet their ends.
But why is single motherhood the bane of any civilization’s existence? Why are my family against single motherhood? Let’s look at the statistics which will prove to you beyond the shadow of a doubt why we need to completely destroy single motherhood and return to nuclear families or even polygamous families before it gets too late.
90% of welfare recipients are single mothers
70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies, and teenage drug abusers are from single-mother households
63% of national suicides are done by individuals who grew up in single-mother homes
90% or runaway children are from single-mother households are from single mother households
85% of children with behavioural disorders are from single-mother households 80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger grew up in single-mother homes
85% of imprisoned youth grew up in single-mother homes
10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances,
14 times more likely to commit rape,
20 times more likely to end up in prison,
32 times more likely to run away from home.
And again because I know the feminist witch coven is waiting to swoop in and misinterpret what I am trying to communicate, I need to clarify with autistic detail that I am not saying all the children born of and raised by single mothers are destined to become criminals vagabonds and wastrels. What I am however saying and what science is backing up is the fact that it is a herculean task to raise children who become successful balance adults as a single-mother. For the sake of our society, we need to return back to our traditional values before it’s too late.
Mammito was recently interviewed and she said she has no intention of carrying before she’s married and I have to applaud her for that. Of course this nugget of wisdom was lost with all the other hogwash about how old she really is but that is because we usually focus on fluff.
You see, she is no fool. She is aware of just how terrible single motherhood is. And perhaps she learnt this by watching members of her family go through it or perhaps it has been from watching the struggles of her friends or her celebrity peers.
Brown skin girl Mammito looking like a goddess
Lets actually dive into why I think Mammito is smarter than a lot of her peers by choosing not to have children before she’s married. Let’s start by looking at what science teaches us:
The statistics she has clearly acquainted herself with about single mother households that are very damning claim that the main issue is the children raised in such households come out with every imaginable disadvantage.
Mammito serving body goals
Harbour report about the children of single mother households:
90% of welfare recipients are single mothers
70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies, teenage drug abusers are from single-mother households
63% of national suicides are done by individuals who grew up in single-mother homes
90% or runaway children are from single-mother households are from single mother households
85% of children with behavioural disorders are from single-mother households 80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger grew up in single-mother homes
85% of imprisoned youth grew up in single-mother homes
Comedienne Mammito marks 28th birthday on style
And we can take a look at some of the celebrity single mothers who have all spoken out to cry about their situation being tough. Mammito has been watching, taking notes and learning.
We have Saumu Mbuvi, a single mother of two by as many men who exemplifies how difficult raising these children and then moving on with your own life would be tough even when money isn’t an issue. That’s why she was crying about not finding love.
Comedienne Mammito
The most recent example Mammito can look to is Carol Sonnie. There is a reason she keeps complaining about having to raise her daughter without Mulamwah’s input.
Ultimately, marriage is the best bet anyone can have for raising healthy, balanced children with real advantages at making it in life. And I am glad to see Mammito break the mould.
Saumu Mbuvi is over the moon with the news that her former partner and the father of her second daughter, Anwar Loitiptip has been ousted as the Lamu senator. Actually, it was very funny seeing her thinly veiled jab at him as she congratulated his opponent on their victory.
You see, theirs has been a shared history filled with betrayal and spite. She loved her man but he clearly was only involved with her because of who her father was. As soon as being her man was no longer beneficial for him, he pulled away and ran off with her best friend.
Saumu exposes Senator Anwar
Saumu Mbuvi was crushed. I mean, they did not exactly have a healthy relationship but she was clearly hoping to make it work. However, hell hath no fury… So she revealed to all and sundry that he was an abusive partner.
And we all got to see just how toxic the entire relationship was. He was not even ashamed of the fact he was being outed as an abuser. He doubled down and used her mental instability (alleged) to insult her.
Aeedah Bambi with Anwar Loitiptip
Let that sink in. A man battered Saumu Mbuvi and when he had to defend his actions, he said it was due to her mental illness. Sigh… And his new wife, her former best friend chimed in to insult her.
So you can imagine how long she has nursed her grudge. She has been waiting to watch him fall for quite some time and it was with glee, yes, glee, that she greeted the news that he was ousted as Lamu’s senator.
Saumu with Senator Loitiptip before breakup
Who can blame her if she threw a party over this very news? Who would blame her if she went to church and tithed a bit extra because as far as she is concerned, God fought her battles for her. Now I am pretty sure Saumu Mbuvi has a running bet on just how long Bwana Anwar’s marriage will last.
And we all know the outlook is grim given the stories we have been hearing of the fact Aeedah Bambi is being battered black and blue -something that apparently played out publicly.
Saumu Mbuvi revealed to her fans that she has given up on finding true love and now prefers to go for money. Sigh… I guess we are waiting on a third baby now whose father too will ditch her and fulfill her doomsday prophesies about herself. Or perhaps third time’s the charm.
You see, women like her are really hilarious to behold in the dating game because of how they truly mess up things for themselves and then start complaining about how there are no more good men left outchea.
Saumu Mbuvi never learnt how to select for good men. How could she? I mean, her father is Mike Sonko who incase you live with your head buried either high up in your own or his posterior, is a dreadful father figure. So if he is the template for the men she allows to chase after her and to impregnate her, how else could the game be viewed other than rigged against her?
What do I mean? Well, he is a flashy politician who is more flash than substance but because of how uneducated and ignorant the Kenyan electorate is, preferring entertainment over sustainable development, he is the man to beat in any election he chooses to engage in.
Saumu with Senator Loitiptip before breakup
Why else do you think all the men she has been with, all the men whose children she chose to bear have been of the same grain? They have either been flashy businessmen or charismatic politicians. They have all lacked the substance to choose to wait and carefully select who would be the mother of their children. And ultimately, they have left her scarred and traumatised.
Infact, her immediate ex, Senator Anwar Loitiptip has been accused of not only cheating on her but also beating her black and blue. Those are the kind of men Saumu Mbuvi finds attractive and exciting. That is not because Kenya doesn’t have good men but because these are the men she selects for.
Saumu Mbuvi attacking Aeedah Bambi?
And she does this by having a rather horrible laundry list of what she wants from a man. Her entire selection process is messed up. She is now saying she wants to focus on money. Ok. Good luck with landing a great guy if that is your focus. And I say this because it hasn’t changed what she was previously selected for.
I would strongly advise her to first start with going for therapy or counselling. She needs to get help for all the traumas she has endured throughout her life. She needs to get help for all the horrible mate-selection checklists she enforces.
Saumu announces wedding date
After this, Saumu Mbuvi needs to hit the gym. Yes, it’s about her losing weight but about her also getting her confidence and self-esteem high. Nothing clears your mind like a great run. Nothing gives you introspection like spending time working out. In turn, the men she gets with won’t treat her like they are doing her a favour.
And she needs her aunties to teach her what relationships are about and therefore what qualities in a man matter when it comes to relationships. But until this is done, she will always select for scumbags and when she ages out of the dating pool, she will start ranting about how all men are trash as if she did not actively work for the outcome she received.
Aeedah Bambi and Anwar Loitiptip are still together and people do not understand why she chose to stick by a man who is said to have gotten violent with her two an alarming degree.
What was worse is that her man is said not to care about whether or not they are in public, delivering the beats even when they had attended Bahati’s album launch and his wife, Diana Marua happened to witness the incident that became the alk of the town which was allegedly spurred by what Bwana Senator perceived to be his wife flirting with some guy in attendance.
Aeedah with Senator Loitiptip
The internet was set aflame by feminists and other online in-laws who wanted to weigh in on the matter despite the fact that she has elected to remain where she is. That’s right, despite the fact that we all know that Aeedah Bambi is beaten black and blue by her husband, she still insists on standing by his side.
And this is something that confounds a lot of minds who cannot fathom being in that situation But in truth, Aeedah really has no choice. You see, even before she made her relationship public, she was warned by Saumu Mbuvi, the woman who was dating Anwar Loitiptip before her whom she took the senator from.
Saumu Mbuvi attacking Aeedah Bambi?
She was partly to blame for some of the beatings her former best friend received. She was the reason bwana Senator felt at peace with battering Mike Sonko’s daughter because he knew he already was checked out of the relationship. And to make this situation all the more insidious, Saumu would run to her bestie for advice without realizing she was the “other woman” causing friction in her relationship. Who can she currently turn to who will empathize with her? She started off as the other woman who was warned that this would happen. Who can she go to when she needs refuge? None of her friends trust her with their men and the inverse is true because she knows she can lose the Lamu Senator at the drop of a hat.
And from there we also have to accept the fact that Aeedah Bambi is not a self-made woman. She is entirely dependent on Anwar to provide her with the type of lifestyle she has become accustomed to. The cars she drives? She can’t get them for herself -not yet anyway. So she has to stomach the abuse she receives. If she wants to continue to rub shoulders with the political elite, she has to remain by her husband’s side. And that is a reality Aeedah is clearly aware of and she has made the decision to stick around whether or not you agree with it.
Anwar Loitiptip is accused of assaulting Aeedah Bambi
Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi situation is a tricky one because of the manner in which their relationship started. And the worst thing about it is that there is nothing anyone can do until one of the parties involved decides to actually speak up about the reality of the situation given all the allegations swirling around.
You see, the first red flag was when disgraced former Nairobi Governor, Mike Sonko’s daughter Saumu Mbuvi first accused him of being quick to anger.
He came out to defend himself -not from the allegations but rather his motivation. Apparently, he was indeed the type to run a fade with Saumu Mbuvi because she is bipolar. She is crazy and the only way he knew to handle her outbursts was by flexing his wrist and smacking her around.
Then came the stories about how Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi had started their relationship by running around behind Saumu Mbuvi’s back and carrying on in an affair. That must have peeved Hera off to high heaven!
Anwar Loitiptip is accused of assaulting Aeedah Bambi
Remember too, when word went round about how at a certain album launch by singer Bahati, Anwar Loitiptip had turned his rage on his now-wife, Aeedah Bambi? Yup, so with all the rumours being circulated about the nature of their conflict resolution methods, how can one not start believing the rumours?
And to make matters worse, when internet in-laws and busybodies tried to rally around Aeedah Bambi, she claimed the rumours were being peddled by jobless individuals. So all her fans and the vile feminists were stuck. No one knows how to help her.
Anwar shows off injured shoulder
And perhaps this is the type of situation that they thrive in as a couple… Because even before the dust had settled, Anwar Loitiptip, the sitting Lamu Senator, was accused and charged for allegedly shooting a woman. The woman has since come out to claim she was simply trying to protect Aeedah Bambi from her husband’s wrath.
But how do we as a society come in to help? How can any of the vile feminists swoop into the rescue of whichever party needs rescuing?
Lady shot by Anwar speaks
Theirs is a tricky situation. Nothin we can do but watch the circus act unfold. I am firmly in the camp “Not my monkey, not my circus” because this situation is so tricky, the first step would be a simple one. That’s how tricky it is.
Situations that require simple first steps are often the hardest to clear up -because often it indicates ego is involved. And that makes this a dicey topic.
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Saumu Mbuvi doesn’t seem to have grasped the concept of moving on entirely. That is why she is constantly hitting out at Aeedah Bambi, her former friend turned love-rival who has ended up with her ex, Bwana Senator.
You see, Saumu Mbuvi is only some clown time. She is doing some circus nonsense as she keeps engaging the lady who betrayed her and we have to wonder at which point she will be ready for a healthy co-parenting agreement with Anwar Loitiptip.
Saumu Mbuvi on Radio Jambo speaking about her relationship
Saumu Mbuvi and Bwana Senator had an explosive falling out and after the fact, she came out to accuse him of being violent and abusive. Mr Anwar admitted that he had to slap her on one occasion when she was attempting to attack him and it was caused by her bipolar disorder.
Her behaviour validates the idea that she is the problem in all her past relationships with her two baby daddies. I say this because she seems to relish playing in the mud with Aeedah Bambi. And the most recent occasion of this was when the latter celebrated her new husband’s birthday:
Saumu Mbuvi with dad, Mike Sonko (holding his granddaughter) and Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip
“Some are busy chasing for fame, others money living life with no purpose and direction soon as you realize your time is up; it’ll be too late for you….so choose wisely hii dunia tunapita tu.”
And all that was simply because she is bitter and envious of the life she sees her treacherous friend living with her ex. And she set herself up for her ex to come off as the more balanced and mature out of the two when Aeedah responded:
The fact that you don’t like someone does not mean they will suffer or not succeed!!! Alaye God is not from your village.
Aeedah Bambi with Anwar Loitiptip
You have to wonder what she has exposed her partners to behind closed doors. But I think we can all think about what was going on. And the last time we spoke about Saumu, I was of the opinion that she needed therapy.
Aeedah Bambi, the traitorous friend
And the main reason why she needs to accept that she was dumped is that she needs to accept that she is only going to have a co-parenting agreement with Anwar Loitiptip. To make matters worse, her constant back and forth trading of insults puts off every other man who thinks about wooing her.
Why would any man want to get involved with a woman so clearly hang up on her ex that she is busy insulting his new partner? That is a high-risk dalliance that could easily make a fool out of your brother so would you advise him to pursue mtoto wa Mike Sonko?
Seeing as the weekend came with news of Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi are now married, Saumu Mbuvi’s friends need to check up on her because only sweet jesus can help heal that one.
You see, it was not more than two years ago that Saumu Mbuvi and her then man, Anwar Loitiptip had welcomed their baby together and were talking about settling down and him making an honest woman out of her by marrying her.
Saumu Mbuvi with dad, Mike Sonko (holding his granddaughter) and Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip
The pair would often not miss an opportunity to let us know that they were in love with each other and they were loving the attention their fairy tale relationship had garnered for them -until we found out that Anwar had dumped her and was now with her friend, Aeedah Bambi.
The scandal first spilt over to social media where Saumu Mbuvi who is disgraced former Nairobi governor Mike Sonko’s daughter revealed that their explosive relationship had a lot of violence and it was all due to infidelity on their part.
Anwar Loitiptip on his part did something daft after this. He actually confirmed that he had indeed assaulted her but he accused her of being bipolar to justify his actions. that said a lot about the glittery relationship they portrayed on social media.
Whatever the past had witnessed, Anwar is now a happily married man and this goes a long way to prove that any smart woman should never carry before she marries. It really isn’t a revolutionary concept but yet in today’s world, we seem to celebrate it less and less. Do not carry before you marry.
You see, Saumu Mbuvi seems to have decided that the best strategy for keeping a man is by first bearing a child for them. That is why she is a single mother of two children by two different men and not so much as an engagement ring to show for it.
Aeedah Bambi, for all her faults, managed to get to the finish line with Anwar Loitiptip because she, unlike her former friend, learnt from her lesson. The two ladies are single mothers but Bambi learnt that she should not bear children for any man who has not committed to her.
Perhaps Aeedah Bambi has something Anwr values that he did not get from Saumu Mbuvi. Perhaps it is peace of mind. Maybe it is cooperation or maybe it is not having a powerful father figure looming over the relationship.
Whatever the case may be, I need to reiterate the moral of the story, do not carry before you marry. Make sure your partner has committed to you before you give him offspring.
Saumu Mbuvi recently had an interview with Radio Jambo’s Jappani Massawe and the main topic of conversation was her failed relationship with Anwar Loitiptip. This should be remembered to be the second time her relationship with a baby-daddy has gone belly up.
I listened keenly in on the interview and was surprised to hear her make a weighty admission in a rather flippant manner. Saumu Mbuvi admitted she doesn’t know how to remain single. In other words, she is a serial monogamist who is playing that game terribly.
Saumu Mbuvi celebrated single motherhood on her IG account
You see, a while back, I declared I am of the opinion she really needs therapy and I was surprised to find out how right I was by the words from her own mouth. And while this was surprising -to you, to me it spoke of deep-seated problems.
You see, an admission such as that speaks volumes about her relationship with her father, former Nairobi Governor Mike Mbuvi. Why do I say this? Because as with every other girl in the world, women tend to mould their relationships around their relationship with the first man they know, their father.
Saumu Mbuvi should seek therapy
So for Saumu Mbuvi, this need to constantly be around men and in a relationship with them spells out a past of need for validation. She seems like a girl who was starved of male attention: her father’s attention. So Saumu Mbuvi replaces that with a constant stream of men and relationships whom she hopes will fill that void.
And this issue has never been addressed. Adn this issue will always rear its ugly head. And this is why I am of the opinion that without working on herself, without actually going to a therapist who helps her learn introspection, she will doubtless end up a serial baby mama.
Saumu Mbuvi with dad, Mike Sonko (holding his granddaughter) and Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip
The idea of do not carry before you marry seems to be foreign to young Saumu Mbuvi simply because for men, sex comes before validation. And then when that happens, the issues she has ignored in those men aswell as her own issues become a real hurdle for them when they try to establish a relationship.
If Saumu Mbuvii were to actually begin to work on herself, she would be able to deal with her drive towards relationships. A drive that has seen her become the baby mama of two men who have declared they want nothing to do with her.
Mike Sonko holding his granddaughter from daughter, Saumu Mbuvi and Anwar Loitiptip
And while there is nothing wrong with having multiple children by multiple men is a problem -said no one other than feminists praying to false gods, Saumu Mbuvi would do well to address her issues if not for her then for her children as statistics are not on her side as a single mother attempting to raise balanced children.
Saumu Mbuvi is a hurt woman and as you know, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. It was revealed that the father of her second child, the man whom she had taken to referring to as her hubby, is no longer with her.
It didn’t end there, as a matter of fact, it turned out that Bwana Anwar Loitiptip had left her for one of her friends, a female called Aeedah Bambi who she claims was able to get her hubby because she was sending him “pornographic material”.
Saumu Mbuvi and former lover, Senator Anwar when they welcomed their newborn baby
This was the point at which I started laughing. I was talking about this mess with my colleagues and I couldn’t help but burst out laughing. The idea that a man can be “torn away” from his partner by pornographic content is ludicrous and needs to be laughed at.
Listen Saumu Mbuvi, it is clear you haven’t been taught how to attract nor keep a man. Why? Because for starters, your argument about pornographic content is a myth. Millions of men have subscribed to Only Fans accounts but they do not leave their girlfriends and wives (on the rare occasion such men have significant others). Also, it goes against our evolved experiences with men and polygyny.
Saumu Mbuvi is now a single mother of two
The main issue here is that Saumu Mbuvi is seemingly blaming the fact that Aeedah Bambi was sexually available to Anwar for his decision to leave her. Make no mistake about it, sex is an important factor in relationships but it isn’t the only factor. As a mentor of mine likes telling me, sex opens the door but the woman’s behaviour is what keeps her in the room.
Saumu Mbuvi needs to understand that no man in his sane mind would leave a fit, feminine, cooperative and submissive woman for another woman who only has sex to offer. Even his father will slap him. His own friends will call him out for doing such dumb bullshit. Look at Jalang’o and how he was torn apart when the internets thought he was stepping out on his wife for a second time.
Saumu Mbuvi with her friends at her formerly owned club, Wakanda
Anwar Loitiptip is not the most eloquent man nor the smartest in the way he articulates problems. I would go as far as to say that he, like alot of Kenyan politicians simply ride the coattails of whatever political party is dominant in support base within his constituency because when he talked about what issues he faced while dating Saumu Mbuvi, he said she is bi-polar.
While that wasn’t the brightest way to put it, he had actually told Saumu why he left her: he had no peace. no man ever wants to come home from the war he fought that day, only for his woman to create another battle at home. Especially not a high networth man who has alot of options.
Saumu Mbuvi celebrated single motherhood on her IG account
No man wants to come home to a cantankerous woman and even the Bible talks about this. Saumu Mbuvi is, however, the victim of society’s failure to teach men and women how to pair bond. Think about it, we go to school to study academics that will allow us to pursue different careers. We go to Sunday school to learn about the Bible and religion. But who teaches boys and girls about how to have successful families?
Saumu Mbuvi is a single mother of two, children from two different men who both elected to leave her and whom she accused of being abusive -with proof of the fact in form of photographs of the aftermath. What we are however not informed is that there was a third man with whom she had invested in a nightclub called Wakanda whom she also came out to accuse of trying to scam her.
While no excuse can be made for the fact that these men beat up Saumu Mbuvi (unless of course, it was an act of self-defence), we should also not allow Saumu Mbuvi to escape accountability for the fact that it was she who chose these men as her partners and even committed to producing children for the: Ben Gatu and Anwar Loitiptip being the men.
Saumu Mbuvi celebrates single motherhood
But what is worse is that she recently took to her social media accounts to perpetuate a rather toxic ideology: that of the single mothers. you see, this is an ideology that is not worthy of being spread but has been done so by either women who are drinking from the fountains of feminism or from the bitterness that comes from the realization they had chosen their partners poorly.
But away from this, in tuth, Saumu Mbuvi is overlooking a truth that every sensible individual and indeed, scientific research has shown: children are best raised in a stable two parent home. And this fact bears heavier on the shoulders of women than that of men for the simple reason of Briffault’s Law.
Saumu Mbuvi with dad, Mike Sonko (holding his granddaughter) and Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip in happier days
This is a law that states “the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.” Today we would say “relationship” rather than “association.” What that means is that Saumu Mbuvi bears the responsibility of ensuring her offspring get such a stable family.
Now, if you’re going to use your emotions to think, this will seem like bullshit. However, you need to understand that a family cannot form unless a woman, in this case Saumu Mbuvi decides to pair bond and mate with a man -men. In this case Ben gatu and Anwar Loitiptip. Had she not agreed to their dalliance, we would be discussing the matter of rape instead.
Mike Sonko holding his grandchild along with Saumu Mbuvi and her former lover, Senator Anwar
Another reason why Saumu Mbuvi is actually perpetuating a dangerous myth is that, if we take her words at face value, then the men she was dealing with aren’t the best men. They are violent men. This introduces hybristophilia. This would mean she is attracted to the worst type of men. Violent men.
But by and large, the worst thing about Saumu Mbuvi celebrating the fact that she has, in essence, agreed to choose the single mother’s path is the fact that her offspring now face an uphill battle and according to a Safe Harbour report about the children of single mother households:
Saumu Mbuvi’s ex Anwar Loitiptip
90% of welfare recipients are single mothers
70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies, teenage drug abusers are from single mother households
63% of national suicides are done by individuals who grew up in single-mother homes
90% or runaway children are from single-mother households are from single mother households
85% of children with behavioural disorders are from single-mother households 80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger grew up in single-mother homes
85% of imprisoned youth grew up in single-mother homes
Why would anyone want to listen to Saumu Mbuvi celebrating single motherhood? Still, all is not lost. Afterall, two of my mentors are the product of single-mother households.
Saumu Mbuvi is having another tough break up with second baby daddy, Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip.
Word on the streets is that Mr Anwar already moved on with a slay queen identified as Aeedah Bambi; and problem is Saumu remains bitter as she wasn’t ready to end the relationship – that is judging from her social media posts.
Sonko’s wife with her daughters
According to reports, Ms Saumu and former husband had been facing several issues for months; but like most couples, the two chose to sweep this under the rag – to portray ‘the perfect couple on social media’ when reality is – they couldn’t stand each other.
However thanks to Edgar Obare, we finally got to hear both sides of the exes; and truth is, Saumu living in denial is not a shade that goes so well with her image.
Mummy to the rescue
Of course break ups come with a lot of pain, suffering, self hate and bitterness; but Saumu’s step mum is not willing to let her daughter suffer alone.
Just like any other mum Mrs Sonko also known as Primrose shared a comforting message to comfort her daughter through this trying time. Although she is not Saumu’s biological mum – Primrose has always stood with her girls (Sonko’s daughters) and treats them like her own.
To comfort Saumu, Primrose went on to caption one of her photos with Ms Mbuvi quoting Isiah 43:2 which says;
Saumu Mbuvi is currently the gossip of the town after her relationship with Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip became the central focus of everyone on social media. This follows the revelation that he is now dating a slay queen who was her friend.
From that point, it was revealed that their relationship was a dud and it ended but bot before she got a baby by the man and now he seems to want nothing to do with either him or their love-child. Actually, Saumu Mbuvi’s situation has gotten crazy as she went on to accuse him of being physically abusive and he claimed she was bi-polar.
Saumu Mbuvi has revealed why she broke up with Anwar Loitiptip
The situation is so messy, it has played out on Tea Master Edgar Obare’s timeline and while we love seeing the drama, we need to understand that Saumu Mbuvi needs help. You see, out of three relationships that we knew about, two have ended up with her getting pregnant and all three, that is one hundred per cent have ended up with her claiming the men took advantage of her.
Saumu Mbuvi is the greater common denominator but she is not taking accountability for her decision to date these men. And all three men were apparently scams. One is Ben Gatu, the father of her first father who was violent. The second, she ended up investing with at a Bar called Wakanda and the third is Loitiptip.
Saumu Mbuvi with her ex Ben gatu
While there is rarely ever any justification for a man to get violent with a woman outside of self-defence, the fact that all her men have shared this common trait or the fact that the only one she did not accuse of being violent she ended up accusing him of being a scammer says a lot about her.
I would argue that this all stems from some deep-rooted and seated daddy issues. She is chasing after her father’s love through the men and more importantly, the type of men that she has gotten with. Saumu Mbuvi is reeling from not dealing with her daddy issues and unfortunately, this will end up affecting her children adversely.
Saumu Mbuvi’s ex Anwar Loitiptip
It is time for her to look for a solution within herself and the only way alot of people can do this is through therapy. Let me reiterate that, Saumu needs therapy and the quicker she gets it the better. I do not know whether her bi-polarism is actually clinically diagnosed or not but what I do know is if it is, she should be on meds to deal with it. I do not, however, believe she has been diagnosed because she doesn’t show signs of being in therapy.
And this brings us to the real definition of self-love. The same way a car needs maintenance, the same way you need to take care of a laptop or you need to service a Swiss watch is the same way we need to take care of ourselves. Whether that is by hitting the gym, getting appropriate healthcare or getting your mental health checked. Saumu needs to embrace this.
Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip has narrated a grueling ordeal he went through at Kasarani while on a date with fiance, daughter of Nairobi Governor Mike Sonko, Saumu Mbuvi.
According to the Senator who spoke from Aga Khan where he was at ICU, several men assaulted Saumu while in the confines of the club and threatened to rape her.
The Senator also said that they also threatened to kill him during the attack.
“We had gotten to the car park and into the car before my fiancee [Saumu] asked to go to the washroom. When she got there, two men followed her and locked the door. They tore her blouse and wanted to rape her. She raised the alarm,” he said.
“They come out apologizing saying ‘oh we did not want to do anything’. I wanted it to be physical but Saumu calmed me down saying, we may make headlines in the media over fighting.”
Crude weapons
Anwar said that after Saumu came out, more men carrying crude weapons joined and started beating him up outside the club.
“After that, there was a bulky man with a rungu and a metal bar who was joined with like six others. Immediately the hit me several times in the head. From there, I don’t remember anything till I woke up in the hospital.” said Anwar.
Adding:
“The only thing I remember was what they told me. They said, ‘we will not leave you alive. You will know who we are’. To say the truth I don’t know what their intention was because they only hit my head.”
