Tag: Pierra Makena

Pierra Makena is a rather interesting and hilarious individual. She has decided to set her sights on other female DJs who are arguably younger and hotter who are borrowing a leaf from her book but pushing the envelope and claiming them to be ratchet.

Pierra Makena on female DJ’s selling nudity and not experience

Perhaps she’s right but at the same time, the pot is calling the kettle black. What do I mean? You see, for a long time, Kenya’s most renown female DJ banked on her sexual appeal to draw big crowds and get a lot of gigs and deals.

I was never at any of her parties because I was pretty young but from what I recall, few of the older-heads I am around seem to rate her performances. However, she had a trump card her male peers didn’t and she wasn’t shy to use it: she was sexy and knew she was desirable to men so all her photo ops and event posters featured her in skimpy, sexy outfits as did her performances. Pierra Makena wasn’t shy about using her assets but do you know who was? The female members of her audience.

Pierra Makena Finally Told The Truth About Being A Single Mum

And this was always a gripe they levelled against the DJ. They never fully appreciated the fact that she was simply taking advantage of what she had. She was playing to win and taking no prisoners. However, the females in the clubs she was spinning at found her antics egregious and trashy.

So it is hilarious to see that now that she cannot abide by her female competitors and peers doing the same thing she did. They are simply using their god-granted sexual appeal and using it to get ahead even if it means blurring the lines between stripteasing and DJing.

DJ Pierra Makena In Frenzy Of Rage After Being Thrown Out Of Her Own Event

At the end of the day, what Pierra Makena fails to understand is that the upcoming generations push boundaries. It is sought of whatever generation did to their predecessors. Think of it like a collective thinking process that says, “Oh, look, she got away with this? Well in order for me to stand out, I have to outdo her. I need to be more shocking”. What’s even more peculiar is the fact that there is no conscious effort to do this, it is almost entirely instinctive.

So what is an ageing female DJ to do when she can no longer pull the same level of attention nor court her previous notoriety now that she is a mother and has lost her youth and beauty? Well, I don’t have the answer to that particular question. But what I do know she shouldn’t be doing is pointing and wagging her finger at the younger female DJs escalating her antics.

Pierra Makena April Fools engagement gag reveals where her heart lies

Maybe Pierra Makena should be focused on transitioning to the next level of her career; mentorship. Start an all-female DJ academy and make the played out appeal to feminism. Get them corporates to bolster their CSR performance by offering scholarships to young girls looking to become DJs who will get enrolled to the DJ Pierra School of Disc Jockeys or whatever name she’ll christen it. Instead, we are being treated to a woman in her 40s complaining that she cannot keep up with sexier 20-year old DJs beating her at her own game.

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Pierra Makena recently spoke about being a single mother in a rather candid interview and spoiler alert: it’s hard! I mean, who would have thought that all the psychologists, sociologists and other behavioural scientists who have put many hours into studying the phenomena that is; single parent-led households vis a vis what’s best for the children would all be right?

“I went through h*ll” Pierra Makena opens up on struggles as a single first time mum

But make no mistake about it, this is not entirely on Pierra Makena, she did not create the child on her own but it does bear mentioning that she did, however, choose the man with whom she had her child, Ricca Pokot.

And there is a lot of responsibility on the shoulders of women when it comes to whom they choose to have a child because this is a very monumental question. And the truth is, that though there are a lot of single mother celebs who willingly perpetuate the myth that being both mother and father is possible and glamorous, it is one of the hardest jobs ever.

Pierra Makena’s alleged baby daddy finally revealed!(Photo)

Pierra Makena shared how going in, she did not know what to expect. She shared too how watching her baby daddy move on with his life was tough. What she did not mention was whether or not he is involved in their daughter’s life in a meaningful way. I think the medium is the message on that one.

But we need to encourage her to continue doing her best but also to keep speaking the truth on just what single motherhood entails. We do not need her to sugarcoat the reality and then help popularise a damaging social phenomenon. I also think it goes without saying that she needs to introduce some responsible men into her child’s life so young Ricca Pokot grows up knowing what a responsible man looks like.

Pierra Makena April Fools engagement gag reveals where her heart lies

The bigger issue that we are not addressing is that single mothers raise single mothers and that is something DJ Pierra Makena needs to arrest for the sake of not only her daughter but for any grandchildren she might get in future.

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Pierra Makena has decided to try and make fools of us by announcing her engagement on the day of fools. Thing is though, it was pretty easy to see right through the ruse because she has not spoken about having a special someone.

Already? DJ Pierra Makena hints on baby number 2

So to spring this out of the blue was an obvious gag. But what is not so obvious to many is the fact that it shows exactly where her head is at when it comes to her life and her view on relationships.

Pierra Makena wants a guy. She wants someone she can grow old with and also wants someone who would be there for her through life’s ups and downs. The funny thing about all this, however, is that if you simply read her words, you would think single motherhood is all she applies herself to and is the only calling of her life.

Pierra Makena is being disingenuous about single motherhood

But nature is not a respecter of political correctness. And as human beings, the vast majority of us (especially women) were designed to pair-bond and hopefully do so for life. This is actually begun with civilisation. But we won’t get too far deep into social science.

You see, whether or not her conscious mind has had the opportunity to process what her subconscious is pushing but Pierra Makena knows that at her advanced stage, she is probably not what a lot of men in their prime want. Add to that the fact that she has a child from another man and you begin to see that the hurdle of finding love is stacked so high against her -that is ofcourse, unless she accepts to be a second wife.

Photos: How DJ Pierra Makena celebrated her 38th birthday

And yet, she sits and dreams big for her future and whenever she does, I guarantee you the biggest nightmare for her is what happens when her daughter is grown and has left the nest. That terrifies her and we could stand here and debate this but the fact that falling marriage rates are coinciding with falling happiness index for women and an increase in antidepressant drugs being prescribed for women and you can simply go argue with your toilet bowl.

 

Be sure to check out those sources before spewing ignorant feminist views. But back to the matter at hand:

Pierra Makena is also aware that her audience which is also considerably made up of other single mothers other than thirsty men, would be happy to find out she is engaged as it would give them hope for their own lives. So their hope is the best thing to spoof on. Also, why wouldn’t she go for this? She gets to find out how many of her friends are really going to be happy for her if she fulfills this one thing she clearly cares a lot for versus those who would not be too happy…

“Never ever force a man to be in his child’s life” Pierra Makena takes pride in being a single mum

Whatever the case may be, she has now told the world she is desperate to find a husband.

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Pierra Makena has allowed us to have a conversation about a very sensitive subject matter that we have extensive data about but very few people are willing to have an honest conversation about and that is single parenthood.

Annitah Raey is right about single mothers and child support

We are not here to judge Pierra Makena’s choice of mate nor are we here to bludgeon men for not sticking around because, at the end of the day, that is not all that important for today’s subject.

We are instead going to focus on what Pierra Makena said single motherhood and just why such misleading statements are a huge problem for today’s society that will eventually come home to roost.

“Never ever force a man to be in his child’s life” Pierra Makena takes pride in being a single mum

Taking to her social media account, Pierra Makena, attempting to keep a stiff upper lip and showing her “warrior self” decided to [ut on a brave face and say that being a single mother isn’t too hard a job; at least not half as hard as she thought it would be. Her message read:

Im soo proud of my years as a single parent than i have ever been in my life.

I thought Raising my child without the father will be disastrous only to realise we just panic and think we can’t do without a man’s help…yet we are capable and strong.
I have become more hardworking…independent and super hero!!

If a man does not want to be in his childs life…never ever force him……assume his position and raise the child for him.

STAY POSITIVE..GOD HAS YOUR BACK.

The reason for my post you ask…? Coz people have been asking how i make it as a single mum and always happy and killing it… yes its coz i dont believe a man holds the key to my success and happiness. Shit happened we move on……CHEERS TO ALL PARENTS RAISING THEIR CHILDREN …KUDOS!

HAPPY 4TH MY LOVE.

Thirst trap! Pierra Makena parades ‘baby fat’ free body, 4 years after welcoming first child(Photo)

While it is commendable for Pierra Makena to keep a positive outlook, we need to understand the full context. And for that, the most important factor is that she has no option of having her daughter’s father involved in her life. That is at least the gist of things as she has put it forth. This is not the case for a lot of women. And even if it is, a father is actually monumental for the successful raising of children, male or female.

Unfortunately, Kenyans and indeed Africans do not really perform researches into social or other phenomena within our societies so information is often scant (that is why most politicians and presidents make stupid decisions and policies. But across the landmass and pond and over to America, a lot of research has been done on the matter of single-parent households that Pierra Makena would do well to educate herself on.

“Anxiety, sleepless nights..” DJ Pierra Makena describes how it feels to be away from her daughter

We are going to use the Safe harbour report and in it, we find the following information:

90% of welfare recipients are single mothers
70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies, teenage drug abusers are from single mother households
63% of national suicides are done by individuals who grew up in single-mother homes
90% or runaway children are from single-mother households are from single mother households
85% of children with behavioural disorders are from single-mother households
80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger grew up in single-mother homes
85% of imprisoned youth grew up in single-mother homes

Let that sink in.
When you really look into it, the only “privilege” that should concern any sensible and logical person is giving their children a two-parent nuclear household and when that is impossible, facilitate a great relationship between the child and its father. Give your child every possible privilege it will need to succeed in a world constantly going off-kilter and on its decline.

Feel free to look more into the statistics of why having both parents is important for children here.

Also, now we can refocus on the fact that women need to go back to choosing their partners well. And for the love of God do not bear children for men after knowing them exclusively during the honeymoon phase of the relationship. The responsibility to choose whom you will have children with rests entirely on women.

 

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