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Rayvanny proves simps are stupid

Posted on September 20, 2022 by Ozymandias

Rayvanny has broken up with Paula Kajala. It’s almost as if we didn’t see this coming. Actually, its almost as if no one had warned him that she was not the type of woman you’d turn into a housewife.

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But simps are going to simp and at the heart of it, that simply means being stupid. Check out the definition below and I kid you not, the kamusi version has his photo next to the term:

Rayvanny started his relationship by trying to pedestalize Paula by using the little boy tactic of comparing her to his ex, Fahyvanny and then insulting the mother of his child. And this is something anyone with two brain cells required to rub together to spark a thought can see this was a bad move.

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And even when she introduced hell to his life through her mother and the other simp from Tanzanian entertainment, Harmonize, he still clung to her.

You got the sense he felt she was better than him (despite his many accolades and accomplishments) and was eager to seek her validation and approval. And it blew my mind just how low a superstar like Rayvanny’s self-esteem is. He would look at this young beauty -she is undoubtedly hot- and he felt her simply being was worth more than his accolades.

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And we watched as he bought her gifts, cars and even started paying for her education. The problem is, you can take a woman to school but you can’t broaden her intelligence. And Paula decided to forgive Harmonize for sexually harassing her and she mended the fences with her mother which left one casualty, Rayvanny.

So now he is left having to run back to beg his ex, the mother of his bay, Fahyvanny to take him back. He’s really lucky she can’t do any better than him so now they seem to be trying to work out their issues.

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And his parting shot when reflecting on his relationship with Paula? Well, all Rayvanny could say was,

Don’t allow love to confuse you, don’t liken love to food, I made peace with my heart and ended my relationship with Paula.

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So what lessons should we take from his lack of intelligence? Well, the first is that you must always make your partner earn your commitment. That doesn’t mean that you play childish games but rather that as a 30-year-old established man, you shouldn’t be the one chasing commitment.

You’ve done the work so why are you still begging and dancing for validation? Rayvanny should also have given more thought to what is important, creating a stable home for his child or trying to make a wife of a 18 year old party girl.

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Harmonize and Kajala’s love story is a disaster in waiting

Posted on June 27, 2022 by Ozymandias

Harmonize and Kajala are back together again but I am going to go on record to say things are going to be utterly horrible and that’s even before they finally call it quits. The reason I am making this bold assertion is the fact that they have so many demons they are yet to deal with that will doubtless haunt them.

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Where to begin? Well, for starters, there is the fact that Frida Kajala was married before to a Bongo producer called Majani. That union was hit hard by problems and issues that they did not address on an individual level. How do I know this? Well, take a look at their daughter and the issues she’s had to deal with.

No really, for Harmonize, as a man, he needs to understand that the greatest predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour so if I were in his camp, I would be advising him to actually go and have a sitdown with is wife’s ex-hubby, the man whose child she chose to bear and raise. He has a lot of insight for him.

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But who are we kidding, there is no way Bwana Konde Gang is going to do that because he has his own chaff to deal with. You see, he was caught up in quite the scandal just a few months ago while he was dating Kajala the first time around and he tried sleeping with her daughter. Remember that?

Harmonize’s girlfriend with daughter, Paula Kajala with her mum

No, Harmonize wasn’t trying to go after her friends or sister, he had his eyes set on her daughter and he was not shy about how he went about it either. Whereas most people would be calm and coy about it, making it almost like a dance, mandem first tried to railroad Paula’s then-boyfriend and current fiance, Rayvanny. He got him arrested over an accusation of statutory rape (even though she was actually 18 which is not only the age of majority in Tanzania but also the age of consent.

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Then it eventually wafted out (like a bad smell) that Harmonize had even been sending Paula pictures of his trunk (gerrit? Given we call him Tembo?) in all it’s saluting glory. Yup, Mr Mans was busy sending nudes to Frida’s daughter but she seems to have conveniently forgotten all that and is now willing to become his wife.

I mean, I don’t know about you but this one fact completely muddies that waters to the point it is now just outright sewage in a bog in the middle of nowhere. So what would you do if you were in Frida’s shoes? I for one would not even entertain talking to Harmonize ever again but then again, I am a self respecting young Kenyan man so who am I to speak for what might just be the norm for Tanzanian women?

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Still, this is already a bad precedent tey are starting off on. And one bad note is often followed by another util the entire orchestra is simply a musical disaster. And that is what I foresee for this couple. They are happy right now as they hysterically bond and share sweet nothings in front of the media’s cameras. But when everything is said and done, marriage is about more than just simply living your life for the gallery. You have to go home to this person and deal with them and their family and I am not entirely sure Harmonize will be able to behave himself around either Frida Kajala’s daughter or even her neices.

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What Paula Kajala’s father revealed about her shows the danger of single motherhood

Posted on April 21, 2021May 5, 2023 by Ozymandias

Paula Kajala is the daughter of Frida Kajala, Harmonize’s ex whom he tried to (or did he actually manage to) sleep with and she is also the same girl who was involved in a scandal with Rayvanny.

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The thing about this girl that makes her the focus of my piece today is that she is the poster child of what happens to the child of a single mother when she doesn’t receive the direction a father provides whether in a stable house or through a co-parenting situation.

You see, Paula Kajala has a father who is a producer in Tanzania by the name of P-Funk Majani who is estranged from her. This man recently gave an interview in which he revealed that she had told him she doesn’t want a relationship with him and he has no choice but to oblige her.

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He, however, was very clear that the stuff she is getting herself involved in will not only ruin her but will bring a curse. He also proves that hindsight is 20/20 as he claims he regrets siring a child by Frida Kajala, a woman whom he feels has no business being a mother.

Whether or not you agree with his decision not to get involved with his daughter’s life, the fact that she lacks discipline is a very real result of this man, Majani, not getting involved in the disciplining of Paula Kajala. And at this rate, she will soon go through the pains of being a single mother.

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At the end of the day, whatever you might think is an issue with the situation, you have to agree that Frida Kajala is a terrible example to her daughter. How can we excuse the fact that she exposed her daughter to her fiance in the form of Harmonize? While she is not responsible for his bad behaviour, the tenets of motherhood, cast in iron, are that she needs to protect her daughter from the worst life has to offer including unscrupulous men. She failed at this task.

We have to realize that our feelings are worthless in this argument because science has documented and spoken to the situation and shows us that Paula Kajala would be better off with her father in her life. And according to a Safe Harbour study,

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90% of welfare recipients are single mothers
70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies, teenage drug abusers are from single mother households
63% of national suicides are done by individuals who grew up in single-mother homes
90% or runaway children are from single-mother households are from single mother households
85% of children with behavioural disorders are from single-mother households
80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger grew up in single-mother homes
85% of imprisoned youth grew up in single-mother homes

Feel free to look more into the statistics of why having both parents is important for children here.

Source: https://www.fatherhood.org/father-absence-statistic

if her father were involved in her life, predatory men would have been kept at bay. His job would have been to keep the hyenas off his daughter. She wouldn’t be the butt of jokes at this very moment. She wouldn’t be the footnote of the musical releases Harmonize is working on even as he shares the eggplant emoji.

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The truth is, Frida Kajala has failed in her role as a mother but we expected no less from a single mother who herself is out to do anything for her time in the spotlight. And we need to actually take the time to take in this situation and learn from it as men. You do not want your daughter exposed to the type of nonsense Paula Kajala is. That doubtless makes P-Funk Majani feel like a failure. It hurts him enough to actually decide to cut off all his ties to his daughter.

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Why Harmonize is really getting involved in Rayvanny’s woes

Posted on February 18, 2021 by Ozymandias

Harmonize is currently dating a much older lady called Kajala and the couple seems happy with each other. However, Harmonize has decided that them dating for a few months is worth him getting involved in Kajala’s family drama and woes.

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This means that he has embedded himself deeply into the crazy drama that has engulfed Kajala’s daughter, Paulah, Rayvanny and Hamisa Mobetto. You see, word went round that Rayvanny might (its all still allegations at this point) had carnal knowledge of the eighteen-year-old girl, Paulah Kajala. I should at this point note that Paulah is still in high school.

Paulah Kajala with her mother — Paulah Kajala with her mum

The age of majority and consent in Tanzania is 18 years of age but it is muddy water because she is still in high school. Somehow, Hamisa Mobetto has gotten dragged into the affair and Harmonize has decided to embroil herself into the mix as he claims he’s “showing support” to his girl, Kajala and also due to his moral convictions.

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I would, however, like to point out that I am of the opinion Harmonize isn’t being genuine about why he is involved. I mean sure, he probably does want to show support to his girlfriend but after only 3 months of dating he’s getting mixed in a messy situation? I call bullshit and believe it’s all for two reasons: clout and to stick it to Diamond Platnumz.

Rayvanny with Paulah Kajala — Rayvanny and Paulah Kajala

You see, Harmonize hasn’t really let go of the fact that his departure from WCB was an acrimonious affair. He was forced to buy out his own contract. Ever since that happened, he has been taking shots at Diamond Platnumz, sometimes directly, sometimes subliminally.

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In this matter, Rayvanny has opened himself up for some seriously hellish experiences. He got involved with a girl who though not a minor, is still in high school. This is a terrible time for him and his associates at WCB records. Harmonize has chosen this as a golden moment to not only virtue signal but stick it to his old comrades. And boy is he twisting the knife.

Paulah Kajala at her court appearance — Kajala and daughter appear in court

Harmonize is not doing this nonsense for the sake of morality, he is simply doing this rubbish to hurt Rayvanny and get back at Diamond but more importantly, Sallam SK. And at the same time, he gets clout from being positioned as the champion of Tanzanian virtue.

Given the fact that Pombe Magufuli has been a virtue-signalling politician, Harmonize is hoping to get in his good graces. he wants to be the only artist who is morally upstanding enough to be CCM’s (Magufuli’s political party) go-to artist for their events.

At the end of the day, this betrayal will come back to haunt Harmonize. This is the one time his support needn’t have been public. Why? Because the case isn’t exactly clear-cut. And there is no foreseeable advantage if we are looking at this from a pragmatic, tactical viewpoint.

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