Pastor James Ng’ang’a, founder of Neno Evangelism, recently discussed a difficult period in his church’s history when he lost a substantial number of congregants after introducing his new wife.
Ng’ang’a, known for his strong and sometimes controversial leadership, revealed that more than 400 women, including several prominent members of his congregation, left upon learning that he had remarried. He and his new wife tied the knot on June 30, 2012.
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After the passing of his first wife, Pastor Ng’ang’a had been a widower for a time, leading many to wonder about his future, especially concerning his personal life. As an influential figure with considerable wealth and spiritual authority, he had garnered attention from many women in his church, who hoped to become his next partner.
When Pastor Ng’ang’a finally remarried, he introduced his new wife during a church service, anticipating joy and blessings from his congregation. However, the response was unexpected.
In an undated Facebook video, he disclosed that approximately 700 women left the church following his marriage announcement, including female ushers and other long-standing members.
“When I wanted to marry my wife, this church faced a major issue,” he explained. “The church was overwhelmed. Many women approached me, as those with anointing and wealth attract attention. When I unveiled my wife, believe it or not, 700 women stood up and walked away.”
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For many of these women, the revelation that Ng’ang’a had chosen another partner was too much to accept, leading to their swift exit from the church. Some reportedly felt betrayed and questioned why he hadn’t chosen them.
Despite the significant loss, Ng’ang’a remained resolute in his decision, admitting it was a challenging time but affirming his love for his wife. He noted that the congregation’s reaction underscored the expectations many had of him, particularly the assumption he would marry one of the women from his church.
“I lost 400 people… I stood and told them to leave; she was mine, not God’s,” he stated.
Ng’ang’a also faced backlash from some who criticized his new wife for being too young, further fueling controversy around their relationship. Nonetheless, he stood by his choice, expressing his commitment to his wife.
“They knew my first wife was deceased and had hoped I would choose them,” he remarked. “Even ushers left, wondering why I didn’t pick them.”
The mass departure of over 400 congregants was a significant setback for any ministry, and Neno Evangelism experienced a noticeable decline in attendance afterward. However, Pastor Ng’ang’a continued to lead with determination, and the church has since remained active and attracted new members.