Tag: Nyota Ndogo

Nyota Ndogo is living up to the stereotype about coastal women being all about umbea and just being about as mouthy as a squirrel chewing on nuts because she is always yackering and yammering about something.

‘Wanakuita Babu Lakini Hujazaa Na Nyanya Zao’ Nyota Ndogo Tells Haters As She Re-Unites With Her Mzungu Hubby

Her topic of interest these days is her marriage which she at one point had jeopardised with an ill-advised bullshit stunt that was about her being pregnant even though her husband had been away on business for three months and had undergone a vasectomy.

Yup, Nyota Ndogo decided to activate big brain time. And she was constantly meowling about the damage her supposed April fool’s prank had wrought and she kept whining on social media for all to see.

Nyota Ndogo’s Mzungu Bae Finally Responds, Just When She Was Almost Giving Up (Screenshot)

Fortunately for her, her love story had a happy ending as after months of whining and begging for forgiveness, her husband finally relented and admitted he had missed her and he wanted to reconcile and make things work.

Nyota Ndogo is over the moon but it seems some of her followers do not understand why she would want to salvage a relationship with an elderly man -the same who financed her to build apartments and even her own home.

Nyota Ndogo destroyed her own marriage so we shouldn’t pity her

The same man who took on her children and embraced his stepfather role to the point he has come to own full responsibility over them. Why, oh why would a woman want to reconcile with such a ma so desperately I wonder…

Anyway, Nyota Ndogo ‘s fans have been referring to the mzungu man as “babu” but from my understanding, it is a respectfully endearing way to refer to an elderly man in Swahili but she is having none of it.

‘Mna Ushenzi Sana!’ Nyota Ndogo Attacks Bloggers For Claiming She’s Just After Her Mzungu’s Money

Yet, he is indeed elderly. So why all the bruhaha? She knows her man is older than her and that as a mzungu, he ages like milk so he appears older than he probably is. Yet she is busy complaining about the name her fans have given him.

That leaves me to wonder whether she is merely complaining because she loves to complain and that is all she knows to do.

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Nyota Ndogo is clearly unaware of the wise old Swahili proverb that goes, “Mtoto akiulilia wembe mpe” and it basically speaks to how to give people the wisdom of hindsight after allowing them to undertake a stupid act.

”I Think Nimeanza Kuzoea Maumivu” Nyota Ndogo Ready To Move On?

And she indeed decided to make a fool of herself by playing a prank on her husband and claiming to have conceived a child -and he had been away long enough for him to know he wasn’t the father of that child. Hell, she herself admitted he had actually had a vasectomy done.

So why is Nyota Ndogo now crying and bellyaching about being the wronged party in this fiasco she created? Why is she now doing rubbish up and down the kenya’s coastal line declaring she now wants to fight for her husband and their marriage?

Mapenzi! Nyota Ndogo Packs Her Bags, Leaves The Country In Quest Of Her Hubby

This is the type of stuff that makes you wonder why certain people are the way they are. in her husband, she had found a man who was willing to invest in their family and he did indeed give her money to build apartments. In her man she had found a man willing to take her and her children by another man in and help raise them.

Why did she think joking about cuckoldry was a nice way to spark their relationships back to life? That is a question only Nyota Ndogo can answer but from the way her mzungu is speaking (or not), then we can only surmise that he probably has his doubts about her and a specific man.

Nyota Ndogo proves women handle being dumped worse than men

That is why when she pulled her April Fool’s joke, he went all the way left. And he has essentially checked out of their marriage and rather than reach out to her man to fix their relationship privately, we are being treated to a woman making her bedroom affairs our concern.

Only a fool would feel some type of way about this lady. Only a fool would sympathize with this singer because she cried for that proverbial wembe. She is the child that wanted to play with a razor blade and now that she is cut, I am of the opinion Nyota Ndogo doesn’t deserve anyone’s sympathy.

So let us keep watching this train wreck unfold and simply learn lessons from it and then keep moving.

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Nyota Ndogo has been cryng and bellyaching about her man. You see, she was left by her mzungu husband and she has taken it so badly that she seems unable to move on and is simply pining for the man to come back to her.

Ukiachwa Achika! Fans Tell Nyota Ndogo After Several Failed Attempts Of Begging Hubby To Come Back

What is interesting is that her fans and I are of the same opinion on the matter that she should stop whining about the man and simply move on with life because as the old Kiswahili maxim goes, “Ukiwachwa achika“.

The comments on Nyota Ndogo’s account read as follows:

”Please Come Back To Me” Nyota Ndogo Pleads Her Mzungu Hubby, Weeks After Strange Break-Up

”nikiachwa naachika,because I know the relationships and marriages are like calls from God and not everyone is for it!I normalise soft life”

”This man clearly alikua anatafuta sababu ya kuku wacha, prank tu haiwezi fanya akasirike mpaka leo if he truly loved you, move on my dear, dnt give urself hypertension for nothing, u got kids to raise”

And to me this exemplifies how poorly women deal with rejection and being dumped. There is a very foolish notion that men do not handle rejection well but the simple truth is that men have to deal with rejection all the time. It is men who usually have to hit on women and get turned down. Any man with mentors and a father will learn to deal with that rejection gracefully.

Women, on the other hand, do not get to practice that muscle. Why would they when they are the ones getting hit on? Nyota Ndogo was approached by her mzungu husband and not the other way around. The same goes for a divorce as statistics show that women initiate 80 per cent of all divorce proceedings.

We have borne no kids despite several trips to the hospital – Nyota Ndogo opens up

The reason I have highlighted that fact is to say that women rarely have to deal with the end of their relationships as they are the ones doing the dumping. So they never learn how to move on from getting dumped and we can see that in how Nyota Ndogo keeps bellyaching about her man.

””Plzz come back to me. mimi hata sio pesa nalilia love. Nilikua na act don’t care couse nakula nalala vizuri najilipia bills zangu mwenyewe but one thing nakosa from you ni love. Kumbe pesa sio kila kitu muimu kupata mtu unaempenda na wewe kwako nimefika mwisho yani kama hurudi ntajifia single”

Fans excited as singer, Nyota Ndogo finally reveals their wide age gap

You also need to have some context here. She had lied that she was pregnant on April Fools and that seems to have crossed the line in as far as he was concerned. So she had pushed for this outcome and now she is busy making it our business by coming online to cry and make it our problem. Can you imagine if we were discussing a male celebrity like, say, Chipukeezy? He would never live this down had he dragged things out this long with Kibanja.

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