Tag: Nelly Oaks

Akothee is in a new relationship and she seems happy. She finally admitted to being taken after weeks of denying being in any sort of relationship with a man. Granted, we’d all gotten the man in question wrong but we did know he was a mzungu.

Akothee Introduces Her New Mzungu Boyfriend (Screenshot)

What was also additionally surprising is the fact that she is not with a geriatric man. Instead, she is with a young white man and the pair seem to be head over heels for each other with them currently being on holiday in Mombasa.

I am sure there is a gang of young Nairobi girls who would want to grill Akothee on how and where she finds these wazungu because this is her third mzungu man that we know of. Sure she dated Kenyan men previously but one of these men was her first husband -the man who found an innocent, young Akothee before she became Madam Boss.

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The second is the man who is doubtlessly punching the air as he sees her move on with her new man especially given how he damn near risked it all for his lady love (his family were upset he was dating a much older woman) and that man is Nelly Oaks.

And as I started thinking about Akothee and Nelly Oaks, I realised I had some questions about her new relationship that are going to touch on his person and they are:

Akothee Introduces Her New Mzungu Bae (Photo)

#1. Was Nelly Oaks a cover for your penchant for wazungu?

When you think about it, it seems like Nelly Oaks was just a smoke screen to distract from the fact she wants wazungu. I say this because he was at best, a commercial break and at worst, he was just a seat warmer while Akothee searched high and low for her next mzungu baby mama.

#2. Is she going to try and baby trap this mzungu?

While she was with Nelly Oaks, she had been intimating that she wanted some children before it was too late. However, she never really seemed committed to having them by Nelly Oaks. Perhaps she really does take swirling seriously but whatever. The question now is whether or not she is going to try and trap the man by getting pregnant is something only she can answer… Well, even if she doesn’t time will tell.

#3. Is this relationship just a fling or will we see her finally settling down?

I mean, she is a single mother of 5. That is no small brood. So does this mzungu know what is on the cards for him? Because Akothee needs to understand that he might just be looking for fun and while there is nothing wrong with that, we, as her digital in-laws have questions for him.

Then again, Akothee is a grown woman who knows how to filter for good men. So we probably needn’t worry too much about this relationship.

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It is rather hilarious to see just how poorly Akothee is treating her former partner Nelly Oaks. I mean, it would be concerning just how mean she has become if it weren’t so damn funny. Or perhaps I just happen to have a dark sense of humour? Who knows.

Ouch! Akothee reveals she was mentally & emotionally disconnected from Nelly Oaks while still dating

But bear with me. You see, while they were together, we were constantly inundated by stories, videos and photos of their “love, something that was always odd for me was the fact that he never really had a say in the narrative. He never really got to tell us about the relationship. Instead, he seemed to be waiting and following her lead.

Nelly Oaks was an accessory. Akothee was the author of their love story and this is always a recipe for disaster. Why? Because if you love a woman more than she loves you, you allow common sense to fall away from you and then eventually disgust her with the simp in you.

Nimechoka Na Mapenzi- Akothee Confirms Break-Up With Nelly Oaks, Says She’s Not Ready For Any Commitment

Why else do you think that between the two of them, it always seemed like he was the one who had to keep sacrificing? What a close friend told me of mine is that his father, hell, his family weren’t enthused by the relationship. Here was a woman way older than him who came with the baggage of 5 children their son claimed to love. Would they get to see grandchildren, nephews and nieces? His father was particularly miffed by all the BS. Meanwhile, what did Madam Boss have to sacrifice?

Akothee boasts about being the president of single mothers because of her litter of 5. She is set. Would she be willing to give Nelly Oaks a family of his own? Even before we cross that bridge, would she be willing to allow him to discipline her kids? And to what degree? We both know the answer to both questions so again I ask, what was she willing to sacrifice? She had all the benefits. She was the woman who had failed at love on multiple occasions, she was the woman who was dating a younger man and she got to control the relationship.

Akothee is proof enough why men should steer clear of single mothers

And now that she has revealed that she dumped him, she is still kicking him while he is down. A quick glance at his social media shows that he has chosen to refrain from discussing their relationship and its rather obvious demise. He has kept it classy. Perhaps that’s because he is scared of her. No self-respecting man would dream of being in his shoes. I can’t even imagine what family dinners and meetups are like; everyone must be reminding him that their father was not a fan of his relationship and he has to sit there and take it. When he decides to distract himself, he goes online to see yet another insult sent his way by Akothee with her rather dismissive takes on their relationship.

Simping is hard. But men like Nelly Oaks are incorrigible. So he is probably deep in Akothee’s WhatsApp begging her to take him back even if it means she uses him as her footstool.

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The actual title I wanted to go with was “Akothee is proof enough why men should steer clear of single mothers who want to be a Madam Boss” but I thought it too long yet it really sums up the entirety of what I want to say perfectly.

Nimechoka Na Mapenzi- Akothee Confirms Break-Up With Nelly Oaks, Says She’s Not Ready For Any Commitment

You see, when the simp, the buffoon, Nelly Oaks decided to date Akothee, I said things would soon go awry. Especially after I found out from a mentor and close friend of mine that he had already lost so much in his effort to try and make her happy and she hadn’t sacrificed anything… I am referring to the fact that his father was offended by the relationship which he might have thought of as predatory given the vast difference in age and experience.

As if to add salt on injury, she really had little to offer him in the sense of legacy. She doesn’t seem to want anymore children so he was sacrificing that aspect of himself too. And then she dumped him in such a dismissive way saying amechoka na mapenzi.

“Ofweneke is mine” Akothee confesses

And this brings us back to asking what exactly single mothers have to offer their partners. You see, Akothee is not merely a single mother but she is the “President of Single Mothers”. That is the title she gave herself. And though we have to commend her for really taking care of herself and looking great not just at her age but for the fact that she has sired 5 children, she is still single mother with deep ties to some of the fathers of her children.

Yet, when we discuss single mothers, women on social media want to act as if Nelly Oaks’ experience is not the average but rather an outlier case. So let us delve into this particular case of one man who dated a high profile single mother.

I Don’t Entertain Insecurity- Akothee Commands Nelly Oaks To Publicly Declare Her As His Wife

For starters, Akothee is a very wealthy woman, having invested the money from her white baby daddies wisely. As a result, she flaunts her wealth on social media. That created the impression among many that he was merely a social climber. That did damage to how everyone viewed him.

Then to top it off, he actually invested effort and time into trying to get to know her children. He actually spent time with them to the point they bonded. So not only has he lost her, he has lost the children whom he had grown to love.

‘I See Divorce Everywhere’- Akothee On Why She Will Be Keeping Her Love Life Off Social Media

Add to this the fact that she had invited him to live in her house. Yup, Nelly Oaks had taken up residence at Akothee’s mansion. Now he has to move out and start adjusting to being a bachelor once more.

Also, I doubt he was ever allowed to discipline her children. Really though, I highly doubt Madam Sibuor (Madam Lioness) would allow her children to be disciplined by her young lover. So whenever they started acting up, he had to repeatedly say, “I’ll tell mum!” like an impotent after figure.

Akothee finally admits Nelly Oaks is just a toyboy as she shares romantic text from mzungu sweetheart  

And still, someone will purse her lips to foolishly yell about how messed up it is men are steadily waking up to the fact that it is such a bad idea to date or even marry a single mother? Make it make sense. Do you want to know what makes all this worse? The fact that I can actually imagine Nelly Oaks begging Akopthee behind the scenes to take him back and make him a happy simp.

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