Reasons behind the significant rise in male prostitution in Nairobi

In a surprising development, Nairobi has witnessed a significant rise in the number of male sex workers. This shift challenges traditional views on male intimacy and has ignited widespread discussions.

Recent research conducted by the National AIDS and Control Programme, the Key Population Consortium of Kenya, Partners for Health and Development in Africa, the Global Health Program at the University of California San Francisco, and the Institute for Global Public Health at the University of Manitoba, Canada, reveals that the number of male sex workers has surged by 76% over the past decade, while the increase among female sex workers stands at 26%.

Men engage in male-to-male sex work (MSM) for several reasons:

  1. Economic Necessity: Many men face financial difficulties and find traditional employment insufficient to meet their needs. Sex work provides a quick and often more lucrative source of income compared to conventional jobs.
  2. Flexibility: The nature of sex work offers flexible hours, allowing individuals to balance other responsibilities like family or education, while still earning more than they might in typical employment.
  3. Exploration of Identity and Social Stigma: Engaging in sex work provides men with a platform to explore their sexuality in a safer environment, driven by both financial incentives and personal exploration.
  4. Challenging Societal Norms: Participation in sex work can also be seen as a way to resist and challenge traditional norms and expectations around masculinity and sexuality, offering a space to redefine gender roles and sexual behavior.

President’s Daughter Comes Out as Lesbian with a Strong Message to Her Father

Brenda Biya, the daughter of Cameroon’s president, has publicly come out as a lesbian, expressing hope that her revelation will contribute to changing the law banning same-sex relations in her country.

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In an interview with Le Parisien, Brenda Biya, 27, shared her desire to inspire others in similar situations. Last week, she posted an image of herself kissing another woman on Instagram, which elicited mixed reactions in Cameroon.

“I’m crazy about you & I want the world to know,” she declared in the Instagram post, featuring a photo of her embracing Brazilian model Layyons Valença.

During the interview with Le Parisien, she disclosed that she had not informed her family before making the post public. “Coming out is an opportunity to send a strong message,” she stated, adding that the anti-gay law in Cameroon, which predates her father’s presidency, is “unfair and I hope that my story will change it”.

Paul Biya, 91, has been Cameroon’s president since 1982 and is one of Africa’s longest-serving leaders. Brenda Biya mentioned that she has been in a relationship with the Brazilian model for eight months and had already taken her to Cameroon three times without revealing their relationship to her family.

Brenda, a musician living abroad, has received numerous messages of support, as well as negative reactions, since announcing her relationship. She expressed happiness in revealing her status and aimed to offer hope and “send love” to those suffering “because of who they are [and] help them feel less alone”.

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Her brother was the first to contact her, expressing anger that she had posted the image without warning the family. Her parents, President Paul Biya and First Lady Chantal Biya, later called, requesting that she delete the post. “Since then, it’s been silence,” she said.

Brenda recounted having her first crush on a girl at 16 but found it difficult to express her love due to the legal and social environment in Cameroon. Same-sex relations are illegal in Cameroon and punishable by up to five years in prison.

There has been no official comment from the president or the first lady. A government source told French broadcaster RFI that the matter concerned the “private life of an adult residing outside the country and does not in any way concern Cameroon or the head of state”.

Rights groups that have criticized Cameroon’s laws against same-sex relations have praised Brenda Biya’s revelation as a courageous move. However, questions have arisen about whether coming out is a privilege reserved for a select few in the country.

“Anti-LGBT laws in Cameroon disproportionately target the poor. Wealth and connections create a shield for some, while others face severe consequences,” LGBT activist Bandy Kiki posted on Facebook.

On Tuesday, a group supporting the current laws filed a complaint against Brenda Biya with the public prosecutor. Philippe Nsoue from the DDHP Movement stated they were seeking justice, saying that although Brenda Biya is the president’s daughter, “no one is above the law”.

“Whenever a Cameroonian citizen or foreigner commits acts that go against the [LGBT] situation in our country, we must seek judicial recourse,” he said.

Update: DNA findings reveal personal interactions between activist Chiloba and Odhiambo

Various items, including blood samples and swabs, collected from the body of slain LGBTQ activist Edwin Kiprotich, known as Chiloba, were presented at the High Court in Eldoret.

These samples, which also encompass materials from Jacktone Odhiambo, the primary suspect in Chiloba’s murder, were exhibited during the hearing presided over by Justice Reuben Nyakundi.

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Polycarp Luta Kweyu, the Principal Chemist at the government chemist in Kisumu, testified about the samples. He received the initial batch on January 11, 2023, consisting of anal swabs, fingernail clippings, clothes, including underwear and socks, as well as bed sheets from the crime scene.

Subsequently, on January 19 of the same year, Luta received an additional 27 items from the DCI in Eldoret, including those collected from Odhiambo.

Luta’s task was to establish the genetic relationship between the two sets of materials. His findings revealed positive tests for spermatozoa on stains from the cannula swab, boxer shorts, and red trousers. The male DNA profile extracted from these stains indicated a mixture of Chiloba and Odhiambo.

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Furthermore, Luta disclosed that the male DNA profiles from the bed cover matched seminal fluids attributed to Jacktone Odhiambo.

During cross-examination by Odhiambo’s lawyer, Mathai Maina, Luta clarified that Odhiambo was not presented at the government chemist during sample collection. However, the samples received were reportedly obtained from Moi Referral Hospital in Eldoret.

Due to the condition of some items and for convenience, Justice Nyakundi decided to relocate the hearing outside the courtroom for the display of the items.

After a brief break to acquire masks, the items, tightly packed and sealed in waterproof envelopes, were exhibited.

Odhiambo has pleaded not guilty to the murder of Chiloba, whose body was found in a metallic box dumped on the outskirts of Eldoret. Allegedly, the murder took place at Noble Breeze apartment, where Chiloba resided with the suspect.

The hearing continues.

Kelvin Kinuthia discusses gender, spirituality, and future aspirations for children in actual terms

“Nikitaka kuhave kids it’s very easy,” TikToker Kelvin Kinuthia revealed during a Q&A session with fans on his YouTube channel. Here’s a summary of what he shared:

When questioned about his gender identity, Kinuthia encouraged people to stick to the gender they know him as, without delving further. “Si I think this is normal so hata hakuna mtu anfaa kumiuliza mimi ni gender gani… Wewe ile gender unajua I am, just stick to that. Usiende kwa ingine,” he said.

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He expressed comfort in his choices, even when dressing in female attire while retaining his male name, Kinuthia. “Huwa sifeel weird because si ni mimi nimeamua na kichwa yangu mzuri nitavaa wig, nitavaa dress na nitoke nje? Why should I feel weird?” he stated.

Kinuthia emphasized that names are not confined by gender and that he sees no issue in expressing oneself authentically. “Kitu watu hawahaelewi ni that even a girl can also be called Kinuthia. Could be a sir name ama jina yake ya tatu. Kuna watu wanaitwa na jina ya their fathers. Mi sionangi kiwa big deal because it’s a name of a person,” he explained.

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While Kinuthia expressed openness to the idea of having children, he stressed the importance of timing. He humorously suggested that fans would know he’s ready for kids when they see him acquiring multiple cars and building his own house. “Mbona mmeuliza hiyo swali? Si nikitaka tu kuhave kids its very easy. Yes I would really like to have my own kids in the future, when am ready. Mkiona nimenunua a collection of three cars and nimejenga nyumb ayangu mjue sasa am ready…But it’s maybe one or two. Lakini msiniulize aje,” he said.

In a surprising revelation, Kinuthia disclosed that he considers himself a very prayerful person. Despite not actively participating in organized religion, he believes in God and cherishes his faith. Kinuthia attributed his blessings to his prayerful nature, underscoring the significance of spirituality in his life. “I think am the most prayerful person. Na hata pia things that God has done for me should tell you that am one of the most prayerful people I know. Najijua kivyangu. I might not go to church or do things for church but for me, I know I believe in God and I acknowledge Jesus higher,” he expressed.

Kenya’s Catholic Bishops Seek Clarification On Same-Sex Blessings By The Pope

The Kenya Conference of Catholic Bishops (KCCB) has acknowledged concerns among the faithful regarding a recent statement from the Vatican on blessings for same-sex couples. Recognizing the sensitive nature of the topic in Kenya, Archbishop Martin Kivuva Musonde, Chairman of the KCCB, released a statement seeking to clarify the Church’s position.

Addressing the anxieties and confusion generated by the Vatican document, Archbishop Musonde emphasized that it does not equate to an endorsement of same-sex marriage or a change in the Church’s understanding of marriage as a sacrament between a man and a woman.

He explained the concept of “simple blessings” introduced in the document, clarifying that they are distinct from liturgical blessings and can extend to various aspects of life, including relationships. The Archbishop drew a parallel to the blessings parents bestow on their children, highlighting the Church’s inherent desire to offer love and support to all individuals, regardless of their personal circumstances.

The KCCB statement further emphasizes the importance of open hearts and inclusivity, echoing Pope Francis’s call for a Church where everyone feels welcome. However, it also underscores the need for ongoing dialogue and discernment within the Church community to navigate this complex issue with respect and understanding.

Supreme Court Ruling on LGBTQ Associations Raises Concerns

The Supreme Court of Kenya’s ruling on lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) associations has been met with mixed reactions.

The ruling, which dismissed a petition filed by Homa Bay Town MP Peter Kaluma seeking to overturn a lower court ruling that allowed the registration of LGBTQ associations, has been welcomed by some LGBTQ rights groups as a victory for equality and non-discrimination.

However, the ruling has also been condemned by a section of religious groups and leaders, who argue that it is against the country’s culture and values.

The Supreme Council of Kenya Muslims (Supkem) has called the ruling “unfortunate” and said it will be announcing its next steps in the coming weeks.

The CEO of the Music Copyright Society of Kenya (MCSK), Dr Ezekiel Mutua, has also condemned the ruling, saying that homosexuality is not part of Kenyan culture.

“Our Constitution outlaws homosexuality, and in Section 11 recognises culture as ‘the cumulative civilisation of the Kenyan people.’ Homosexuality is not our culture,” Dr Mutua said.

Nyali MP Mohamed Ali has also spoken out against the ruling, saying that it threatens family structures.

“I strongly condemn the Supreme Court’s ruling and will stand by the people of Kenya to protect our values, traditions, religions and Laws that foreign players will not dictate,” Mohamed Ali said in a post on social media.

The ruling is a significant development in the fight for LGBTQ rights in Kenya. It remains to be seen how the government and society will respond to the ruling.

In the meantime, the LGBTQ community is celebrating the victory and hoping that it will pave the way for further progress in the fight for equality.

Ugandan man charged with aggravated homosexuality, which could carry the death penalty

A 20-year-old Ugandan man has been charged with aggravated homosexuality, a capital offense under a controversial law that was passed in May. This is the first time that such a charge has been reported, and it is not clear if there have been any previous prosecutions.

The man, who has not been named, was charged by a court in eastern Uganda on August 18, following allegations that he engaged in sexual relations with a 41-year-old man. It is not clear why this was considered to fall under the category of “aggravated homosexuality.”

According to the law, the “aggravated” category includes having gay sex with someone below the age of 18 or where someone is infected with a life-long illness including HIV.

Justine Balya, the defendant’s lawyer, told Reuters that Uganda has charged four other people under the anti-homosexuality law, but her client is the first to be prosecuted under this punitive category.

The World Bank said earlier this month that it was halting new loans to Uganda because the anti-homosexuality law contradicts its core values.

The law has been widely condemned by human rights groups, who say it is discriminatory and could lead to violence against LGBTQ people.

The Ugandan government has defended the law, saying it is necessary to protect the country’s “traditional values.”

The case against the 20-year-old man is still ongoing, and it is not clear what the outcome will be. However, the charge against him is a reminder of the challenges that LGBTQ people face in Uganda.

Museveni tells World Bank to go shove their loans!

Yoweri Museveni, the president of Uganda, retaliated against the World Bank when it cut off assistance due to the Anti-Homosexuality Act.

Museveni stated on Wednesday via his X account that Uganda doesn’t require outside pressure to figure out how to address societal issues.

“Ugandans will develop with or without loans. It is therefore unfortunate that the World Bank and other actors dare to want to coerce us into abandoning our faith, culture, principles and sovereignty, using money,”

The World Bank and Uganda are still in talks, according to Museveni, “so that they and we avoid this diversion if possible.”

The World Bank stated on Wednesday that the Anti-Homosexuality Act goes against its values and hinders the bank’s efforts to promote inclusivity.

“Uganda’s Anti-Homosexuality Act fundamentally contradicts the World Bank Group’s values. We believe our vision to eradicate poverty on a liveable planet can only succeed if it includes everyone irrespective of race, gender, or sexuality. 

“This law undermines those efforts. Inclusion and non-discrimination sit at the heart of our work around the world. – World Bank”

The protection of sexual and gender minorities from prejudice and exclusion in projects they finance is the World Bank’s stated objective.

It stated that as soon as the law was passed, a team was sent to Uganda to assess their portfolio in light of the new regulations.

The evaluation found that further steps are required to guarantee that projects are carried out in accordance with the environmental and social requirements of the bank.

US To Withdraw Aid In Uganda Over Anti-Gay Law

The United States has announced plans to withdraw key services and aid offered to Uganda after the signing of an anti-gay bill into law on Monday.

In a statement, US President Joe Biden condemned the move, calling it a “gross violation of human rights” and calling for the law to be repealed.

“I join with people around the world—including many in Uganda—in calling for its immediate repeal,” Biden said. “This act is a threat to the people of Uganda, including U.S. citizens.”

Biden said he has directed the National Security Council to evaluate some of the key aids the US is offering to Uganda, including the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR).

“As such, I have directed my National Security Council to evaluate the implications of this law on all aspects of U.S. engagement with Uganda, including our ability to safely deliver services under the U.S. President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief (PEPFAR) and other forms of assistance and investments,” he said.

“My Administration will also incorporate the impacts of the law into our review of Uganda’s eligibility for the African Growth and Opportunity Act (AGOA),” he added.

Biden further said his administration was deliberating the application of sanctions and restriction of entry into the US.

The anti-gay law, which was signed by Ugandan President Yoweri Museveni, imposes a life sentence on anyone convicted of “aggravated homosexuality.” The law has been widely condemned by human rights groups, who say it is discriminatory and will lead to increased violence and discrimination against LGBTQ people in Uganda.

The US is not the only country to have condemned the law. The United Kingdom, Canada, and Norway have also expressed their opposition to the law and have called for its repeal.

The Ugandan government has defended the law, saying it is necessary to protect the country’s “moral fabric.” However, human rights groups say the law is nothing more than a way to persecute LGBTQ people.

The signing of the anti-gay law is a major setback for LGBTQ rights in Uganda. The law is likely to have a chilling effect on the lives of LGBTQ people in Uganda, and it is possible that it will lead to an increase in violence and discrimination against them.

Lynda Nyangweso comes out as bi-sexual

Former Kiss 100 radio personality and podcaster Lynda Nyangweso has come out as a bi-sexual woman despite the fact she is married to a man, her husband, Lance.

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The media personality did so as she also voiced her support for the LGBTQ movement in Kenya saying theirs is a human rights issue and not one dealing with sexuality as every human being has a right to exist.

Lynda Nyangweso went on to show her support for the homosexuals and queers living in Uganda after their parliament passed the Anti-Homosexuality Act which seeks to criminalize the identity and lifestyle.

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She went on to say that seeing what we as the East African Community have witnessed go down in Uganda should scare Kenyans. According to her, homophobia is the one issue that is bi-partisan; uniting all the different political factions (Kenya Kwanza and Azimio) and as a result, it is naive to think we won’t see a push in Kenya to follow in Uganda’s footsteps.

Do you agree with Lynda Nyangweso that Kenya could follow Uganda and ban homosexuality? Or do you agree that we need to do so?

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Daddy Owen attacked by homosexual fan over LGBTQ stance

Daddy Owen has been very vocal, campaigning against what he describes as the “gay agenda” and this has clearly rubbed a lot of people the wrong way least of all members of the LGBTQ community.

In a recent Ghafla post, he spoke up against Lil Nas X being invited to Kenya as in the tweet referenced, Lil Nas X said he’s coming to Africa to visit with the homosexuals of the continent.

A Ghafla fan who also happens to be a member of the LGBTQ brigade voiced harsh opposition to Daddy Owen’s message, and even got personal bringing up the gospel singer’s ex-wife who as you all know left him for an affluent businessman.

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Daddy Owen responded and clarified that the public is still in the dark as to how that situation played itself out and we only know what was sensationalized. Which is a fair point he’s made.

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The back and forth concluded with the gay rights activists in our comment saying everyone should be free to live their lives as they see fit and Daddy Owen acquiesced to not continuing the argument because he realised the fan might have been clout chasing.

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    @daddyowen ndio sababu ulipokonywa bibi na tycoon ???????????????????? fagia kwako bro and stop judging people life wewe sio mungu

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    @3rd_eye_migz old joke. Any other joke? U don’t even know the real story???? I laugh when people write things that they don’t even know what’s the truth. ????

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    @daddyowen venye ulikuwa walia apa IG ????????????????????????????bibi ameenda na mwanaume ako pesa ????????????????,before you deport Lil Nas go sue mwenye alikubebea bibi ???????? ???? ???? ????, stop judging gay and lesbian you’re not God to judge them.

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    @3rd_eye_migz Tafuta bibi kwanza, wait! Ama pia wewe ni gay. If you don’t like his comment stop replying

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    @3rd_eye_migz wapi?? Stop lying ???????????? we call out liars and homosexual sympathisers like u????????????????

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    @_.musyimi tunawajua hao.. hatuwaogopi with thr cheap trolls????

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    @daddyowen bro tafuta bibi wachana na lgbtq ????️‍????,kila mtu ako na haki ya kuishi venye anataka.#freedomoflive @lgbtq_nairobi_kenya @lgbt @lgbtq_nairobi_kenya ????????????#pride .love is love

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The LGBTQ Question- Celebrities Who Strongly Rebuke The Community From Being Legalized In Kenya

The colloquy on the LGBTQ community has been paramount for the last couple of months. And most people who have openly come out to give their sentiments have further ignited the discussion.

A couple of celebrities are in strong dis-agreement against the legalization of the LGBTQ. Below is a list of some of them who shared their sentiments;

Daddy Owen

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Vanity hitmaker Daddy Owen vowed to not relent in the campaign against the LGBTQ movement, just days after the Supreme court of Kenya gave a go-ahead for the registration of the movement as a non-governmental organization in the country.

The singer had earlier made a post that condemned the LGBTQ movement but the post was pulled down by Instagram for being hateful.

“My post has been flagged and REMOVED by INSTAGRAM!! Ths are the measures they take to threaten, intimidate and browbeat people! I will not RELENT! Next is they will take away my social media accounts & handles! I will NOT RELENT! After they will create and start propaganda and agitprop upon my brand, I WILL NOT RELENT!… I am not desperate for thr VISA!
I repeat, we SHOULDN’T allow ths agenda in our society, we have our own ethos and correctness. LET’S PROTECT OUR POSTERITY.But don’t be afraid of those who threaten you. For the time is coming when everything that is covered will be revealed, and all that is secret will be made known to all.”
Matthew 10:26, “he wrote.

DJ Mo

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Like Daddy Owen, DJ Mo did not tolerate the Supreme Court’s decision. The gospel spin master called on Kenyans to stop sugarcoating the matter, reiterating that he does not support it.

He went ahead to quote a Bible verse Leviticus 20:13, which talks about sexual relations between two men.

DJ Mo further said he knows what is best for his children and will not change his stand.

“Maoni yangu haya- let’s stop sugarcoating this thing – haiwezi…I have kids…najua Society/environment safe kwao to grow in and I know what the Bible says. Leviticus 20:13

Francis Atwoli

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Central Organisation of Trade Unions (COTU) boss Francis Atwoli has strongly disagreed with the Supreme Court of Kenya. Francis Atwoli, who spoke during a funeral in Kakamega county, said there is no way the Kenyan courts can allow same-sex marriage According to the COTU boss, in neighbouring Uganda, President Yoweri Museveni has also banned the vice, same case with Tanzania.

 

LGBTQ Or Not, No Kind Of Relationship Is Safe

Stereotypically, the rainbow peeps are often seen as peculiar in the community. Some of it’s members have come out to publicly confess that they’re gay; while others decide to keep their sexual orientation under wraps. Either way, there’s no turning back for those who are already in the public space for their orientation.

Recently, celebrated model and LGBTQ activist Edwin Chiloba was brutally murdered; reportedly by his ‘best friend’ Jackton Odhiambo. The talented photographer told the police he murdered the LGBTQ activist for cheating on him.

Jackton is suspected to have had the help of his two other friends in the murder, before stashing the body in a metallic box and later dumping the decomposing body along Kapsaret-Kipkenyo road.

Jackton is said to have been in a relationship with Chiloba, his close friend, but “felt betrayed” after ending the relationship.

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The Kenya LGBTQ Feminist Forum in western Kenya, where Chiloba lived, said he had used “fashion to deconstruct gender and advocate for the rights of the marginalised group”.

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Nowhere To Run

While some people revert into gayism as an option after breaking up, it’s needless to say that the relationships are proving to be the same either way. In regular relationships, cheating is not new; and the same has manifested itself when it comes to Rainbow love. Similarly, violent partners are found in both kinds of relationships. The only possible solution is finding a reasonable & loving partner.