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Kawira’s (Papa Shirandula) ex opens up about sinking into alcoholism after she left him

Posted on by Ozymandias

Ephantus Safari, the ex-husband of Kenyan actress Kawira Mzizi, has opened up about the reasons behind his marriage failure. In an interview with Presenter Ali, Safari said that communication problems, financial difficulties, and infidelity all played a role in the breakdown of his relationship.

Safari said that he and his wife were not able to talk to each other openly and honestly about their problems, which led to resentment and anger. He also said that financial difficulties put a strain on their relationship, and that he admitted to being unfaithful to his wife.

Safari said that he is now remorseful for his actions and that he is committed to being a better man and father. He also said that he hopes to one day reunite with his wife.

“We met in 2013 at the time I had attended an event at St Andrews, NairobiI wanted an MC who would be related well with kids.

I loved how she was behaving behind the stage. After the show, we offered her a ride home. What made me attracted to her was when she refused  to let us know about her house.

It made me feel like she was a woman with principles.

The next day I told my colleagues that I would make her the mother to my kids.

Maybe that was my first mistake, I did not say I wanted a wife.”

Actress Kawira with hubby

“After that, I started pursuing her, and at some point, we had our huge wedding.

We planned to stay for two years without kids.

It wasn’t easy because people assumed we couldn’t bear kids. We had our first pregnancy but it was a blighted ovum the doctor suggested a termination.

We later conceived triplets, one of them died at six months.

Challenges started after the babies went home because she requested her mum to come live with us.

In our culture, the mother-in-law should just visit instead of living with us.

We talked and agreed our mother-in-law would go back to her place and we would support her from there.”

“One day I came home from the gym and she and the kids were not at home.

She had prepared my clothes and even made me breakfast.

Our home had CCTV but on this day I could not access it, I thought there was no power.”

“It was such a waste” Actress Kawira regrets losing her purity to ex husband

Posted on by Pauline Syombua

Former Papa Shirandula actress Kawira is still bitter with her ex husband, a man she met in church, fell in love, got married and lost her virginity to…..and months later had twins.

Sounds like the perfect woman especially in this generation where sex is considered more of an entertainment ‘gig’ and unlike back in the day – these days there is no attachment and last i checked…I heard everyone is responsible for their enjoyment, so if you dont get there blame yourself, kwani akili ilikuwa wapi.

Former Papa Shirandula actress – Kawira

Okay – not proud of it but iris whar iris. Anyway unfortunately for Kawira who grew up back in the village and had parents who passed on the teachings they receibed from their parents; but when she came to Nairobi, the capital school of Character development – she learnt the hard way and still regrets her choices.

Regrets losing virginity

Well, speaking recently about her ex husband – one thing she was clear about is that losing her virginity to him was a waste. Actually she said;

I wish it was with someone else and not that person. It was such a waste

Actress Kawira with ex hubby

Adding;

I did holy matrimony for real. I never slept at his place and I wish I did that, I was a virgin. He was violent and yet he was a pastor

Okay…i understand breakups are tough but then again – they make you stronger in that – once bitten twice shy. But for Kawira it seems she cannot let her past go and being 2 years since she walked on the guy…I just feel that maybe she shouldn’t be discussing him every now and then.

However thanks to him, Kawira now says;

Nikiskia the word marriage kichwa yangu inasikia baridi.

Joy and sadness! Husband of Papa Shirandula’s Kawira speaks after they lost one of their triplets

Posted on by Martin Oduor

Papa Shirandula’s Kawira recently gave birth to triplets. The Citizen TV actress however lost one of her three babies after delivery.

Kawira (whose real name is Joy Furaha) and her husband Pastor Ephantus Wahome became parents for the first time late last year.

The two solemnized their love affair at the Kenya Forestry Research Institute (KEFRI) in a colorful ceremony in November 2014.

Triplets after three years

Kawira and Pastor Ephantus were blessed with three babies after three years of marriage. The couple however lost one of their babies after delivery.

Pastor Ephantus remains grateful to God for the two surviving babies. He expressed his joy for being a parent for the first time in a post on social media.

“I just wanna be that dad that my children would love to emulate, would strive to b a role model, mentor, and a loving daddy. I love and cherish every second with my wife Kawira Joy their mother. By the grace of God we are and shall be a strong couple that will raise them in a godly way,” Pastor Ephantus Wahome posted.

 

 

We are pregnant! Papa Shirandula’s actress Kawira flaunts her grown baby bump in new stunning photos

Posted on by Pauline Syombua

Popular actress Kawira from Papa Shirandula is happy to announce that she is with child. The lady popularly known to rock her bald look has left fans admiring her pregnancy glow moments after sharing her photos.

Kawira who is married to Pastor Ephantus Wahome Safari has managed to keep her pregnancy on the low until the last minute. Judging from her new photos the lady might be in her 3rd trimester – meaning the baby is almost here.

Also read: “I have a new baby” Betty Kyallo announces

The actress however did not say much about her pregnancy but was keen on noting that marriage is not a walk in the park. She thanked her spiritual mother for having guided her all through enabling her to become a better woman. Kawira wrote saying:

It’s been 3yrs. Three years since My tender heart was stolen by an handsome robber who has taken good care of it.. Truly these are 3yrs of God’s faithfulness. I must agree that it has not been all rosy and smooth. Good news is that My Spiritual Mum @revkathykiuna once told me that you don’t enter Marriage with your own rules. Be ready to give it your ALL. And SUBMIT to the Man of your dreams aka spouse.Enough said,
To My Dearest Husband, Thank you for being understanding, loving, awesome and above all caring.
Happy Anniversary Bae. Cheers to us. My Super Mentor. @ephysaf

Kawira’s husband speaks

The soon to be dad through his Instagram page appreciate his wife in a message where he wrote saying:

Prov 19:14 NLT
Fathers can give their sons an inheritance of houses and wealth, but only the LORD can give an understanding wife.

Glory be to God,
It’s been 3 years of love, love, love and laughter. It’s just like yesterday, when i engaged you and accepted to walk with me down the isle and exchanged vows before our parents, friends, colleagues and our spiritual fathers. Your charisma, grace, modesty,dignity and beauty is something that i dreamt of. Its now a reality. We will sing this song forever and if anything would still love to hold your hand in eternity.
I will forever be grateful to God for this awesome gift. Now, our family is growing, I just wanna wish you grace, strength and more grace as you are transiting to motherhood. I will be there for you and our children. I will be the priest, the father, the husband, the security and the role model.
Mmmmmm live long my shebebee… Love you so much! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY to us.

Papa Shirandula’s Kawira explains how she survived a storm that almost tore her marriage a few days after her colorful wedding

Posted on by Martin Oduor

Eunice Njeri ditched her husband a day after their wedding and people couldn’t understand what caused the speedy breakup; Kawira went through a turbulent time in her first days in marriage but she survived and came out stronger.

Kawira, whose real name is Joy Karambu, exchanged vows with pastor-cum-gospel singer Ephantus Wahome in November 2014.

Ephantus Wahome and Kawira during their wedding

Their marriage almost crumbled in the first few days as both parties failed to cope with each other’s demand and expectations. In an interview with eDaily, Kawira and Ephantus explained how they survived the first few days of their marriage.

“Joy and I really struggled, we could not agree on anything. I am that guy who is a hardliner and I expected my principles to be followed, I thought a woman’s place is the kitchen. I expected her to submit fully and I wasn’t willing to change. The good thing is that Joy and I had gone through very educative pre-marital lessons. It is in those sessions I realized there is a theory part in marriage.

Kawira and her husband Ephantus Wahome looking all happy

“The institution of marriage requires commitment and sacrifice. You come together two adults from different backgrounds with different ideologies. In fact, it is easy to break up the first night and if you manage to come out of the honeymoon, then be ready to fight the giants the first five months. Being selfless and determination is the drive factor in the first few months,” Ephantus Wahome said.

On her part, Kawira said she learnt to be submissive, she explained that being submissive made her husband do everything she asked for.

“It was hard! I have not been raised by a man and with boys around. So, I was wondering why my husband was telling me what to do; why we should go to church together, why I couldn’t go to my mum’s place the way I wanted, why I couldn’t hook up with my friends the way I used to, basically why were things changing.  At my parents’ house, I wasn’t cooking since I was the last born – so I was thrown into a world where I had to cook every day. He had issues with that but I learnt to submit. Submission doesn’t hurt at all, if a woman does so the husband often fulfills everything she asks for,” said Kawira.