“So why cry and deny your own daughter?” Reactions to Kabi Wa Jesus’ confession on bedding his cousins

Kabi wa Jesus confession about how his relatives molested him is not only heartbreaking; but a lesson to new age parents on the importance of understanding who you leave your child with; and why communication is important with kids…no matter how young they are.

Imagine him getting molested at the age of 4 and not knowing how to explain himself or just the fear or what his parents would have done to him. Anyway with the silence – he slowly grew into it and now blames his relations with his female cousins on the child abuse.

However what Netizens are mainly concerned about is the fact that he came out confessing that his cousin baby mama isn’t the only female relative he had slept with. According to Kabi wa Jesus who shared the information while speaking to a church congregation; he had been with a couple and from how he put it – seems like he wasn’t remorseful at all.

Why deny daughter?

Actually with the new information many could not understand why he then denied having a daughter with his cousin; I mean, he went to publicly post a video denying sleeping with his own cousin – an excuse which would explain why he is not responsible for the alleged daughter.

So – what is he really saying? Or rather what should her believe, was he molested or not….did he sleep with many of his cousins or was it a strategy to justify that no sin is greater than the other? Actually – what was the testimony about is what many Kenyans on social media continue to ask.

Well, blow are just a few comments from netizens who feel Kabi should have maintained his silence; or should have found a more strategic way to deal with the scandal.

But then again – the devil is a liar right? Below are a few comments from fans urging him to learn the importance of kujifunza Kunyamaza because clearly he clearly denied his child to protect his own image. And it backfired.

“They took turns to molest me” Kabi wa Jesus on horrifying experience with relatives as a child

It has taken about a year for Kabi wa Jesus to explain his relationship with his family and why he had a child with one of his cousins knowing very well many would call him out for incest. Okay, cousins do marry (huko mbali…) but in our African culture this is forbidden at all costs.

However years ago Kabi wa Jesus got intimate with one of his favorite cousins – a relationship that resulted into parenthood. He however managed to keep this secret from the public until one of his many cousins living abroad exposed him for child neglect – hence the uncle daddy story.

What we didn’t know is that at the time Kabi alleges he was not aware of this is wrong. This is simply because he grew up seeing his relatives do it and who is he to act like a goat among the sheep? So he joined the bandwagon.

It was news that this guy had slept with his cousin and the reason for me before I got born again is it was not an issue. She is not the first one I had slept with so many others.

How it all started

Well having been bashed, lost deals and branded a deadbeat – Kabi wa Jesus says some of these things he is not to blame. This is because no one knows his childhood and how some mistakes came to be.

Kabi wa Jesus worship time

According to him, it started when he was around 4 years with relatives giving him alcohol, then it graduated to child molestation – something many were shocked to hear. Speaking about those who molested him as a child, Kabi wa Jesus said;

They would molest me taking turns. I would be left by my parents then hao wasee come and molest me. Something happened between my parents and I had to go back to ushago and when I went again some of my relatives took turns molesting me.

Adding that some of these people were at the age of 30 years – they knew what they were doing and being a child he didn’t really have much of a choice than to obey…..but again, didn’t his parents teach to tell on people?

(Growing up I remember my mum insisting “mtu sishike hapa (Vagina) Ama hapa (booty)” the warning was so strict that you’d be cautious at all times)

Anyway he went on to add;

So unajua yaani nikilala na mtu flani inahappen. Imagine a young child. Some of the relatives are at the age of 30. And I grew up in that and I know that if not all most of you know what happened last year. There was an incident of a cousin of mine coming out and saying we slept together and so many of you were like, ‘Eh yaani amelala na cousin yake?’ This man is bad.

Mmmh – well we all have stories to tell right? But damn that was a bombshell from Kabi.

Kabi Wa Jesus refuses to undergo DNA test to prove if he fathered cousin’s 7 year old daughter

Kabi Wa Jesus is said to have fathered his cousin’s 7 year old daughter; but now that the public knows what he allegedly did in the past – the man of God has refused to undergo a DNA test.

According to sources close to blogger Edgar Obare – The Wa Jesus family man claims that he cannot afford a paternity test; when it only costs Ksh 20,000 – which of course Kabi can raise even with the help of friends.

Kabi wa Jesus with daughter and baby mama cum cousin

However, refusing to undergo the paternity test only proves that he could be hiding something; but after Edgar mentioned that Kabi’s son looks like Abby- then it’s only fair to conclude that the allegations are true.

Child support

From what we have learnt is that the DNA test was to determine whether Kabi; should pay for child support or not.

Kabi wa Jesus

And now that the court wants to help clear his name; Mr Dihoro has refused to comply with the court orders. Below are a few screenshots shared by Edgar Obare showing his conversation with Kabi’s other cousin living abroad.

 

 

It just got real! Kabi ‘Wa Jesus’ to appear in court over child support in March

Kabi Wajesus has not been at peace thanks to his cousin who recently revealed that the man of God fathered a daughter ‘Abby’ with another cousin (Shiro.)

According to the cousin who outed the story; Kabi has been neglecting the young girl for years and since she turns 7 years soon – then it was time for the society to learn the truth about the ‘Wajesus family.’

Also read: “He fathered the child with his cousin” Kabi’s relative reveals

Kabi WaJesus

As shocking as the story sounds there seems to be some truth to the allegations made; but the good thing is despite refuting the story through their YouTube page – the truth finally came out leaving Kabi and wife looking like clowns. Sorry to say.

Also read: Kabi wa Jesus speaks his truth, says he is not Abby’s father!

Court date issued

However thanks to the children’s court which has issued a hearing date; the truth about Abby’s paternity will finally be revealed by the court who have demanded for a DNA test.

Although anything is possible with money in Kenya; we cannot really tell how things will go.  But thanks dzendere (US cousin) Mama Abby (her cousin Shiko) has been granted a hearing that may bring justice.

Through her IG, the US based cousin wrote;


In another post she wrote;

Abby’s case will be heard in court March 1st from there we will know the proceedings for DNA testing. Thanks for all the kind hearted people who are supporting and who continue to support the cause!!

Let us see how far the case will go; but, would a father deny his own child?