We all have that one sibling that gets on our nerves every now and then – but because they’re family – you can’t get rid of them or create more tension and I’m guessing this is what Akothee and Cebbie’s relationship looks like.
The two made this clear after their private affairs came to light…thanks to Akothee who outed her beef with Cebbie during a live session – a move she now regrets especially since it was done while angry.
From the live it seemed that Cebbie and her mum had ganged up against Akothee…who on the other hand couldn’t shut up on how she has helped her family – yet they still pick on her…but again – helping someone doesn’t necessarily mean you own them, to a point where you boss them around, forgetting they two have feelings. Right?
Cebbie accepts Akothee’s apology shingo upande
Well after the whole scandal guess who finally decided to eat the humble pie….yes Akothee who aplogized to her sister Cebbie for the drama….reminding her that they are blood but judging from the response she got – I don’t think this relationship will ever be the same.
You see, there is a way you can tell a person’s feelings from they express themselves on paper or word of mouth. And in this case to have Cebbie reply to anapology with;
Good morning.
Lemme put this here, I’m unable to reply to all the messages.
1. I appreciate your efforts of reaching out to me.
2. I also acknowledge with lots of Grace and humility that you genuinely pray for me and my family.
I thank everyone who takes their time to pray for my union. Marriage is sacred and fragile. I don’t take it for granted
Proves that indeed she is either fed up with her sisters shannigans or isn’t about to allow negative energy around her again.
But…. what’s better than choosing your own piece of mind? Nothing.
Again….seeing Akothee is now beefing with bloggers for writing negative stories about her – it only shows that she never takes blame for her actions….might be same…same case to thst of Cebbie.
Social media parenting is one tough job and last i checked – there are parents who support publicizing their kids online while others dont….but one thing they all agree to is parents using captions like “my mummy this….my daddy that…”
Okay maybe because it’s just obvious that newborns or toddlers can’t say such or even write at their young age but also because its just creepy. Creepy in that, it paves way for critics to attack a child without remembering – si yeye…its the parents.
Speaking of this, Bahati a while back shared a photo holding his newborn and on the caption he wrote;
I wanted to show my face But Daddy would not allow me ???? Who do you think Won this; Daddy or Mummy? ????
Yes a grown man or woman decided wacha leo niwabebe baby cause hamuwezi tell difference.
Critics come after Malaika
With the economy so hard and life just pissing everyone off…Malaika Bahati’s fans decided to pick on her following daddy’s caption on one of her photos.
Responding to Malaika Bahati…one fan sarcastically asked;
Haka kashaanza kula kavagara ni kakubwa
While another….
Haka kataanza kutu advice kuhusu maisha na insecurity ya Nairobi
And i am thinking wow….Bahati just gave critics something to keep them busy – but problem is, the child being refered to as hakaata hana ubaya.
But again, just like her brothers and sisters…Malaika Bahati also needs to start making for herself and what better way than to start online.
Breakups are tough nut believe it or not – divorce is worse and I say this judging from what i have personally seen from – my divorced relatives, friends and from celebrities on social media.
So yea, I totally understand that comedian Nasra is currently having rough after parting ways with the love of her Rashid Abdi; who she had exposed for moving on with another woman – shortly after Nasra suffered a miscarriage.
Okay, having him move on so fast painted Rashid Abdi like the villain and of course – Nasra’s fan base threw stones and sticks at him; but then again – no one is perfect right?
Plus – having not heard Rashid’s side of the story means there is more to the story than what Nasra has been sharing on social media….and until we learn the real story – I have come up with 5 tips to help the new divorcee move on and focus on herself…..just like Rashid is.
Practice acceptance
You see, when getting married one never thinks ‘we will get divorced someday’ right? But it happens to some couples and whether you like it or not – the moment the other party feels uninterested you cant force them back. So yea, youre allowed to hurt and feel betrayed….but in the end you have to remember is that acceptance is a bridge that leads to peace.
Embrace the many mixed feelings
Youre allowed to feel everything at once. The pain, betrayal, heartbroken and the fact that he never loved you like you wanted.
The moment you tell yourself its okay…or it will be okay – those feelings start to slowly slip off and before you know it – you’ll be happy again. Like I said…embrace them inorder to work on them as time moves on. Remember you owe yourself some happiness!
Cut communication
Okay by now i am sure both Nasra and Rashid have had heated conversations on text and if i am not wrong – even thrown some insults around. It happens, but at this age – its better to cut off communication to protect your peace. I mean, there are no kids involved right? So why deny yourself some peace by ghosting?
Reach out to loved ones
Although relatives sometimes tend to take sides…find one to you can connect with, one that understands your pain – but again remember not to over-share; or paint your ex as an evil being cause mambo huenda yakabadilika (by reconnecting again) and i am sure – you wouldn’t want your family looking at him in a certain way…..simply because you shared too much unnecessary information on him.
Go out
Having Nasra discuss her ex husband online means she’s still cooked up in the house wallowing about the breakup; but again this won’t help. So how about stepping out for coffee? Night out with friends? Call it a short term distruction from reality…but it works.
Reconnect with yourself
There’s no denying that marriages change people and you only realize you’re not the same person you used to be after getting dumped or lose a partner.
So how about some soul searching to help find yourself? What you like, your goals and what you left pending before you found your better half?
I know applying this in your life is harder than we can imagine…but think about it this way……you’re a catch and atleast you tried and didn’t work out. So it’s time to put the same effort on yourself.
Pastor Ezekiel Odera of New Life Church in Mombasa city has been the talk of town since saturday thanks to his crisades that saw kenyans travel from different parts of the country all in the name of ‘kurudishiwa Nyota walio Nyang’anywa na adui’ and judging from the photos…..seems like many kenyans feel that someone ‘bewitched them’ which explains why they turned up for prayers.
Saturday prayers
My sources tell me that on Saturday – the preacher spoke on broken marriages and mpango wa kando that has many women and men living in pain. From his prophesies….the preacher spoke destruction that is ‘women who have stolen other peoples husbands and are expecting children out of wedlock should die’ and i am thinking…..okay wait…
The God from my Bible isn’t one of vengeance and as a human or rather a vessel of God…(no matter how many miracles you’ve performed…..as human, on whose authority are you passing judgement?)
But again…the said pastor has ‘restored‘ marriages etc….amd having his church service air on National TV means many kenyans have witnessed him perform miracles; and having faced difficukt time since Covid-19….most have turned to God for breakthroughs.
Sunday prayers
Well…i know some of the readers probably follow him or actually believe in him – but remember this is my opinion on the services preacher Ezekiel Odero held during his visit to Nairobi.
Okay apart from those seeking prayers for broken families….I also learnt that there are those who had their ailing relatives discharged from hospital and taken to Kasarani for prayers….only for them to be returned back to the same hospitals they’d been discharged – hoping the pastor would heal them.
Well, not that i am here to attack men or women of God….but of you ask those who attended or even watched the service live on TV… chances are that youll learn vitu kwa ground ni different and just as you were born alone….in this life, it’s you and your God.
Remember back when Churchill show was one of the biggest local televised show in Kenya? For once we had something we all took pride in that is – original content from comedians who delivered jokes we could all relate with….but for some reason we no longer hear anything about the show like we used to.
Okay – we can blame that on growth or maybe cable TV since everybody seems to have moved to the netflix and chill….but again we also blame Daniel Ndambuka for terminating his contract with Nation Media and moving on to TV47….a TV network that is slowly growing with a lot of potential.
Churchill losing audience
However – as much as the TV station is showing potential, there are many who feel that Churchill made a bad move by relocating his show to network that many haven’t yet discovered.
I mean, his audience – (that is from kids to grandparents) always knew what station airs the show and what time….but if you ask them now, most probably dont even know the show still airs.
Well without his old audience – I guess Churchill is now targeting people who watch local TV or rather people from mashinani….but truth is, with how everything is changing…chances are that he either adjusts to the Gen Z style or allows a younger comedian to fill in his shoes because mmmmh, time to catch up is running out.
Relationships are hard but nothing beats what married people face in their marriages. There are those that get mistreated, abused and unfortunately those who cheat – an area our local married celebrities have perfected in.
Okay, for real – apart from Nameless and Wahu who have maintained ‘a healthy marriage’ for years tell me of another married couple who have done the same? Yes maybe you can name one or two but i have a list of about 6 male celebrities who have publicly embarrassed their wives after getting caught with mpango wa kando.
Well with so many fish in the sea, these fishermen kept fishing even after scoring whales….and by Whales i mean hardworking women with potential to bag any man of their choice….but kwa hii Nairobi – afadhali you stick to the devil you know than an angel youve just met or have been seeing around.
Husbands taken back after cheating scandals
DJ Mo
Despite being a man of God, one who many admired for the love he shared with his wife preacher Size 8, the devil still got to DJ Mo who was said to have several affairs in Nairobi not forgetting the kenyan girl with a big booty in Bahrain he had been having online phone entertainemnt with. And although he was caught red handed with photos included….Size 8 took her husband back and blamed his cheating ways on the devil.
Jalango
If you can remember the boys club scandal then i guess you know that Jalango was linked to several young women he had allaegedly been seeing on the side despite having a wife. However after this, Jalango for some reason became more family oriented and even started parading his wife online – a stunt i believe convinced her to take him back; and today guess what – she’s a happy wife to the Langata MP.
Terence and wife
For Terence, I want to believe he likes them young because the last time he was exposed for cheating on his wife – he was linked to a 19 year old (then) Soina who admitted to have had an affair with the comedian. She also revealed how unhappy Terence was in his marriage, but after the scandal, the comedian reunited with his wife Milly Chebby; and from the online pages – i guess they worked their issues out and continue to live as man and wife.
Kabi wa Jesus
From what we have heard is that Kabi Wa Jesus cheated on his current wife Milly wa Jesus back when she was still a girlfriend. As the story goes is that he had a baby with one of cousins and even took Milly to see the child – not knowing she was about to meet her man’s first child since he had mentioned about his (Kabi’s) cousin having welcomed a baby.
And even after learning the truth….she still chose him.
Mr Seed
As i write the list, i am realizing the christian couples are the ones stepping out of their marriages compared to the so called sinners. Ona, gospel singer Mr Seed who had an affair with a somali babe and even had a son with him. The scandal even put Nimo Gachuiri in the picture as she allegedly met the Somali babe her man was seeing at the time and even after learning the truth…..hakubanduka! Still happily married.
King Kaka
Weuh. This one is complicated for sure since we know about Sage Chemutai….but other rumors claim he had his youngest son with his nanny – a topic I personally consider sensitive but looking at his two boys wacha we say maybe iko kitu but either way wifey Nana Owiti still stands by her man’s side.
DK Kwenye Beat
Remember back in 2019 when Hope Kid was exposed for allagedly forcing himself on a certain lady? Well, DK kwenye Beat was among those listed by the young girl who even accused DK Kwenye Beat of infecting her with HPV STI. But like the rest, the story died and DK Kwenye Beat stuck to his wife since then.
Eric Wainaina and wife
A few years back, Veteran Kenyan singer and songwriter Eric Wainaina admitted to cheating on his wife Sheba Hirst with Valarie Kimani. Unlike most men who would deny until proven guilty, Eric Wainaina took the blame, asked his wife for forgiveness and last he spoke of the affair, Eric said;
I learnt a lot of lessons about faithfulness. We live in a society where men have been raised to imagine that it is ok to have multiple partners and that your friends will keep your secrets for you.
Eric Omondi has so many roles in this life of sin…from the president of comedy, comedian, friend and brother but none beats the title of dad. Out of all of them, i can say that he less appreciates his role as a dad that is judging from what Jacque Maribe about him not supporting the young boy.
Well a few months back, Eric Omondi got involved in an online fight with Jacque Maribe – allowing a huge audience into their private lives….and as soon as the heat went up – Eric Omondi mentioned he had requested for a DNA test – meaning he had doubts about being the boy’s father.
Okay….we can’t blame him for this since he also mentioned Jacque maribe was seeing people on the side and the fact that shes denied him a DNA test shows iko kitu. Tafadhali watu wa kupima DNA na macho, msishout.
Eric Omondi as a dad-uncle
Okay back to my point….you see ever since Jahari was born weve never seen a daddy son relationship between the two. I guess the only time the 3 stepped out as a family was at Jahari’s school and that time Bonfire adventures took them on a family vacation – to help market the travel and tour company.
But apart from that, I guess Eric continues to live his life like a man with no kids….a lonely life and now that his girlfriend suffered a miscarriage please dont shout Karma because Eric really wanted another baby……but then again – if he cant take care of the one he had with Maribe – what makes us think he can take care of others?
Anyway his life, his choice…..but before I conclude this…..ever noticed that Eric Omondi has never had any baby mama, pregnancy scandal his entire career (well apart from Maribe) – ama nizime laptop?
Sammy Boy who is popularly known for making his money through Forex trader has been setting standards for young men with his lavish lifestyle and i can tell you many admired him and kept following his every word, advise – until a controversial video of him surfaced online.
Well, well – they say kujituma na working hard will get to where Sammy Boy is… which is not a lie because you can imagine that before getting to where he is today, the Forex trader once sold his body online to make quick cash.
Yes, as seen on the video – Sammy boy is seen naked in the company of another man and in others he is seen with females….something that has now left kenyans online assuming he is gay and also ‘prostituting’ online. Okay that was obvious and he admitted….but then again blamed it on poverty.
Men judging women on prostitution
However now that he has made it….or let me generalize all men. Okay, you see when such men get money and are stable enough to live lavish lifestyles….you find them judging women who sell their bodies to strangers for a living.
For some reason, if this was a woman i.e the former socialites that gave us sleepless nights for years….wait, did I hear someone say Huddah and Vera Sidika in the back? No sir – we are not naming names today but my point is – these women continue to be judged and hated by society for doing the same thing Sammy Boy did.
Whats worse is that maybe….just maybe – this scandal will last for a few days before they forget about it; but if it were a woman – youd never hear the end of it right?
So yea….some of these businessmen you see online or influencers living lavish lives didn’t necessarily need to work hard for their success…but smart. However you choose to look at it is upto you – but truth is, even women do it to get out of poverty. So why judge?
Nikita Kering has everyone talking after using a rainbow emoji to caption one of her latest posts; and as soon as it uploaded on Twitter…KoT could not keep calm as they pointed fingers “another one….we found another one” as if they are alien species on earth.
Well, for starters we cannot confirm whether or not Ms Kering is gay, bisexual or super straight – but someone once said all women have a bi-sexual trait hidden somewhere inside them….and i am thinking this could be true – I mean, look at Anita Nderu who came out using the rainbow emoji (just like Nikita kering did) and later on married a caucasian man.
Mmmh wondering why? Well – i hear caucasians dont judge their bisexual wives, its actually a way to strengthen the marriage.
Kering in the rainbow society?
Well as you have probably already seen on social, seems like everybody is now asking about Nikita’s sexuality – now that she hinted to be gay.
Come to think of it, Nikita has never been linked to any male celebrity or been spotted in the company of a guy we’d say is romantically involved with her….so what are the chances?
Anyway whether gay or not – I guess we are living at a time when the LGBTQ community is slowly getting accepted in the community; and whether you like it or not – they too are human, with human needs and as much as different as they are from yours….this doesnt make them any less special.
Singer Diamond Platnumz has been trying to convince us that he has a romantic relationship with Zuchu….but ubaya ni he doesnt understand weve also evolved after the pandemic period – and unlike back then when he would lie and pull stunts on her, this time around were woke….. And can see through his stunts.
So with that, all I am saying is that we Diamond Platnumz is single and has been on his own for a while now – and this is because most women he seems to approach tend to dislike his meddling mum who cant keep her nose off his private life.
I mean, Wema Sepetu complained aboit her and so did Zari Hassan, Official Lyyn, Hamisa Mobetto and so did Tanasha Donna…actually it was worse for both Hamisa and Tanasha who were forced to give back gifts they’d been given by Simba.
From what Tanasha Donna said is that her new Prado was given to Mama Diamond Platnumz after she ‘walked away’ and for Hamisa Mobetto….well her son got rejected from the Nyange family as mama Diamond Platnumz felt he was a ba$t*rd son to simba.
Diamond Platnumz mum will make son a single for life
Although i know we all feel that Diamond Platnumz should keep his mum off his relationships – we also have to understand that the two share an unbreakable bond of single mum and her son.
I mean, all sons get attached to their mums especially after they’re abandoned by their dads….which explains Diamond Platnumz situation but again – he seems to have given his mum too much power that she gets a say in whoever he dates or wants to marry.
However – we can’t say mama Dangote is that bad towards all her sons girlfriends – I mean, she liked Tanasha Donna and now likes Zuchu….which mean chances are that she knows whats best for her son.
Again – we’ve also established that Diamond Platnumz always goes through his mum and so will all his women….meaning a mama’s boy will always be a mama’s boy.
Mr Ikonya from Maragua town must be one depressed man after losing 700k in 7days….yaani 7 days and he has nothing left ata fare ya 10bob hana all thanks to a woman he allegedly met in his home town.
Okay from thw stories making headlines on social media is that Ikonya met a woman out of his league….I’m thinking wale madem wa ocha wamechanuka ama mama tu alikuwa amekula shida alafu pap! Runs into a jackpot.
Anyway after meeting this woman, the old man must have used his money as a pickup line; and im telling you – from then the woman fell deeply in love and must have treated him like a King – and being one who had not been used to that kind of life…..Ikonya akafall.
Adam and Solomon from the Bible = same WhatsApp group as Ikonya
We cant blame him right? Even Adam knew he wasnt supposed to eat the forbidden fruit and he still did…..alafu pia look at Samson’s case – after keeping the secret behind his strength for years, he met Delilah akafall pia and he outed his secret too. Looking at the pattern, it’s like when men fall in love, they stop reasoning.
Anyway about Ikonya, seems like the lady used her charm (Sijasema kurogwa) she seduced him; pretended to be interested in his future plans of investing in ‘boiled meat business’ Ikonya not knowing he was handing her all his cards.
As the story goes…she then became the broker that eventually left him broke with a balance of 8 shillings from 700k….and now the man is crying at a police station while dem ananunua shamba mahali ama amefungua biz….
It might seem funny….but again it’s also heartbreaking to see a man his age suffer character development and in a week he loses 700k…its like pushing him closer to his grace. Anyway they say no bad deed goes unpunished…so kila nyani na siku yake.
Okay – before anything else, did you know that apart from being Kiss FM’s radio host Obinna is actually a comedian and wait for it….an artist! However dont ask me what type of music he makes because just like you and I….cant say i even know one.
But from what i have heard is that the comedian is a singer who has been in the game for the longest time; and although he has a few fans here and there – his music isnt just getting sufficient air play even at Kiss FM – where he works.
So far I have also learnt that Obinna recently released a number of songs that would would make an album or two….and the bitter part is – his target audience remains unbothered yet he is dropping a new song everyday week.
Channel his money to kids upkeep
Well having also noticed that almost all artists in the game are struggling with their music….one would have assumed that Obinna would channel his money towards child support since he has several baby mamas out here.
But again…everyone is different and this is why Obinna is using his new money from Kiss FM to shoot expensive music videos; that you’ll either get to watch kwa mix flani ya DJ ama kwa club when everything else sounds good when intoxicated.
Mmmh lastly….could Obinna be using his music to clean…..ama wacha tu, ill end up giving you a good example like KRG….then watasema tunahate.
Tanasha Donna is very attractive and I can tell that when she enters a room – her presences is noticed immediately but even with all that fineness; Diamond Platnumz couldn’t find a reason to chase her after she decided to come back to Kenya.
From what I remember is that Diamond Platnumz moved on as if nothing happened; and Tanasha having left his home made her feel like she had dumped the WCB CEO who we all know likes to trigger his women into leaving by starting affairs around.
Rumor had it back then that just like Wema Sepetu, Zari Hassan and Hamisa Mobetto – Diamond Platnumz handled Tanasha Donna the same way by replacing her with Patricia Aika Matthyse who is producer ‘P Funk’ Majani’s daughter.
Well, with the photo shared above – i guess its only fair to see that inorder for Dimaond Platnumz to get rid of Tanasha – he had to cheat with someone of her caliber (in terms of looks) and Tanasha being one with a big ego….she left in such a mess that her Prado was repossessed by Diamond Platnumz.
Polygamist
Again we also heard that Tanasha Donna was ready to marry Diamond Platnumz to a point she converted into Islam (Bi Aisha) but the funny bit is that she wasn’t ready to share him – knowing very well that Muslim men are allowed to marry upto 4 wives.
And Diamond Platnumz having bagged another finer girlfriend to the picture….is the reason our Kenyan girl continues to feel like she left Diamond Platnumz hurting but her case is no different with….if you can’t take the heat, then get out of the kitchen.
I know Eric Omondi has been pushing for Kenyan music to get efficient air play but problem is….is he sure that is what Kenyans want to listen to?
First of all, majority have been complaining about the content in most local songs… something Eric Omondi should have first addressed before launching his campaign where he wants 75% of local music to be played on radio and TV.
But everyone is in business which explains why most kenyan music don’t get as much airplay as we would hope. Playing them is basically chasing the listeners away simply because some of the lyrics carry no relevant meaning and the fact that there is no growth….(I mean the younger generation ‘gengetone’ tried coming up but were shut down) means its time to up their game.
Why Nigerians are making it big
Well, not that the kenyan music is so bad – i mean we have Sauti Sol, Otile Brown, Nyashinski among others, problem is lately their is no connection with their fans since Covid happened and unlike their fans – these artists are finding it hard to adjust to the new wave.
Look at Nigerians, the likes of Wizkid and Davido who were running the industry before the pandemic have stepped aside allowing new age artists i.e Ruger, Asake and others to take over – but in Kenya bado wasanii wanangangania titles yet….times have changed.
Okay if you don’t believe me then name one song from Otile Browns latest songs or even KRG the Don….wait better…one from Obinna’s songs since joining kiss FM. You see…ata wewe huna habari that Obinna is an artist.
Anyway if anything we dont blame the artists that are currently in the industry but dont you think adjusting to the current times is important? Nigerians are and that is why they continue to run the game because they understand change is enivertable….
However down here in Kenya, we have retired gospel artists trying to venture into secular music after realizing there no money left in the gospel industry. So yea….in the end you realize the artists themselves are not even passionate about the career, but want to make money- hence the crappy songs Eric Omondi is fighting to get 75% air play. Not worth it at all.
Have you ever witnessed a blind man get his sight back after prayers? Or seen a cripple walk again after miracle prayers? Can’t say i have but don’t get me wrong I have seen miracles in breakthroughs, prayers answered maybe because of my small faith – but honestly – I am yet to see a pastor raise the dead or perform some of these said stunts we are now seeing with pastors.
Okay having said that, we all know that preachor Size 8 is currently trending following the miracles she has been perfoimg at her church. Before i get into the story, I want you to know that I understand what 1st Chronicles 16:22 says and that is;
“Touch not mine anointed and do my prophets no harm”.
A scripture that has been misused by many preachers claiming God forbids us from critizing men of God. From my understanding after reading the whole scripture is that it applies where the anointed are in the pursuit of their inheritance within the covenant of God; and are opressed because they are few and weaker than those around them.
But in Size 8’s case…were talking about miracles….blind men seeing, cripples walking etc….you know them all. And not her being forbidden to spread the gospel.
Biashara ni Biashara
Well having started her only ministry that has attracted a huge following – we now hear Size 8 is casting demons and healing the sick. Okay okay…she is a Christian, woman of God and all – but a miracle worker?
I am in no position to say she performs or she does not perform these miracles….but after pastors started preaching about panda mbegu, annoiting oil, stickers, candles – and other things, i really find it hard to believe that the church is the only place these “miracles” are happening.
Again, I dont want to suggest that actors are getting paid to play such roles….but we all want something solid (Even Thomas doubted Jesus for a minute, right?) like how about visit the sick at KNH or other hospitals and perform these miracles?
Remember, even Jesus had to cross the sea of Galilee to go see Jairus’ daughter on her death bed – where raised her from the dead.
So why must it be that these preachers only perform miracles at their churches? Is that where faith is fully connected to God?
Alot has been said following Diana B’s video where she confessed to having different men cover her bills; and knowing how these men in the streets operate – it means for every bill paid, she gave herself away….something many term as prostitution.
Okay, if I am wrong correct me – but what do you call a person that exchanges sex with favors? Yes…a prostitute and unfortunately what Diana B thought was a testimony has now left her looking like a professional sex worker using her body and looks to get what she wants.
But then again….i am not here to look down on her or any other person (male or female) in the same line of business. Prostitution has been there from time immemorial…. and maybe just maybe – they should finally legalize it as a legit business…yes?
I mean, if it pays your bills then why not, right? People will talk whether good or bad but bottom line is…opinions don’t come in currencies.
No doubt that Diana B is fully committed to Bahati
Anyway while at it, I have realized through Diana B Marua that the said prostitutes actually tend to make good wives when they find a responsible man to settle down with.
And I am thinking this is because unlike most of you who have had it easy, the likes of Diana Marua have had to struggle through life, dealing with different partners just to makes ends meet; sometimes having to deal with empty promises and getting used by older men – which might also explain why she opted to settle down the moment she saw potential in Bahati.
I known there are those who say Diana B could have done better (considering that she was linked to Wanyama and other big names) chances are that by the time she ran into Bahati…she must have seen it all and having seen the ugly side of life and rich men – what she can now do is remain a good wife, a good mother and partner to Bahati who in-return pampers her and doesn’t have to force her into weird sexual acts just so she can make some money.
Now tell me what woman wouldn’t want that kind of life after years of dealing with different men – who I also hear tend to pass you to their friends just because they can.
There is something about the new age celebrities in that, no matter how hot or handsome you are – you cannot survive in the entertainment industry without good content to attract an audience. If not, you become more of a one hit wonder and just like that you’re forgotten….doubt me? Ebu ask Shakilla.
You see the last time we talked about her – word had it that she had beaten up one of her Nigerian boyfriends after he dumped her for someone knew. With that, its only fair to assume she lost a number of fans…i mean who wants follow a toxic person when life is already hard as it is.
Anyway the said socialite then disappeared for a while until this past weekend when she decided to unveil an old DM she once received from Kibe – who by the way….sorry to say had no shame hitting on a teenager (Shakilla was 18 at the time)…talking about a pantiles situation.
Shakilla back with the clout
Well having sent the DM in 2020, Shakilla recently made it seek like Kibe just hit her DM as she shared the screenahot online saying;
Yall are Simpson this the same guy talking trash about me on YouTube but wanna hit my DM
But like the swahili say – Njia ya muongo ni fupi and just like that….instead of fans attackinf Kibe they turned against Shakilla calling her out for picking a fight with the content creator over a weak moment he had back in 2020 when thanks to her tweaking videos.
Whats actually worse is that many are pretty sure Andrew Kibe isnt the only man that left a thirsty DM at the time; because if you remember well – Shakilla was parading her body on social media like her life depended on it….then 2 years later she reacts to a mess she created? They say respect is earned and however you carry yourself is how you be carried by everyone you associate with.
Anyway below are a few comments from fans reacting to Shakilla’s post.
Kennedy Rapudo who is popularly known as Amber Ray’s boyfriend is proud to have bagged himself a woman like her. She not only caught his attention but captivated his heart to a point he decided to make their union official and as far as we know is that theyll soon be walking down the aisle as man and wife.
However before that i guess they will use the time the now have to know each other better and hopefully by the time things will manage to stay the same but again…life is no fairytale and we all know that.
Anyway having proposed a few weeks ago during a birthday getaway – Kennedy Rapudo has shared a few photos from their engagement night; and from his caption – the fella poured out his heart to Amber Ray as he referred to her as his soulmate in a post he wrote saying;
We must have been soulmates in the past for we just clicked so easily to be engaged so fast. Heres to love and friendship.
Enagement photos
Well, having his fiance reveal the reason she will not be wearing her engagement ring around and having Rapudo also share photos from their engagement means the two had missed the attention and like the rest…..they had to give fans somethig to talk about.
Anwyay below are just a few intimate photos from their big night.
Catherine Kamau is among the few celebrities that have opened up about their struggle.with weightloss to a point they opted for an easy way out that is – gastric bypass surgery or rather swallowing a ballon to lose weight.
Well having had her second baby 13 years since her first born – of course her body wasnt ready for the many changes that came with the pregnancy hence her struggle to shed off the baby fat. And again, being a celebrity especially an actress – one can imagine the pressure she was putting up with in terms of image.
I told them (the hospital), I wanted to lose weight but not this much coz I still want to be a curvy girl.
For this reason she went in for weightloss journey and barely 6 months into it and Catherine Kamau has called it quits. Speaking about this, you’ll be surprised to hear that the surgery worked so good for her – to a point she felt she was shedding off wanted weight hence quit.
Catherine Kamau weight loss
Speaking about this for the first time – the actress says her main reason for intragastric balloon placement procedure is because she wanted to attain a certain figure for a role she had just landed in an acting gig.
However with time, she started losing more than she hoped hence having the ballon removed for good and replaced that with gym work out sessions to help tone and sculpt her body.
I realised that my body would shrink and I might not look like the same person. I would not look nice. I talked to them and they told me after a month they would incorporate movement and change my diet so I don’t end up losing so much and look saggy.
Word making rounds on social media is that KRG the Don…call him Bughaa is no longer a single man nor is he searching for love since he already bagged himself a new wife after his divorce with Linah who is the mother of his two known sons.
From what we heard is that Linah Kiruthi decided to walk away from her marriage following unresolved issues between her and Bughaa….and just like she bacame a single mum of two and her friendship with the guy also went out of window as soon as she exited the relationship.
Anyway having divorced for less than 6 months, Bughaa is said to have remarried….new informtaion from his PA who went on to claim that:
Najua mambo ambayo public haijui, Mzee ana bibi ameoa ako na bibi nyumbani, Sitasema anaitwa nani kwa sasa, because of her own security.
Clout?
Well having his PA ‘dish out’ such personal information only means two things….either its a clout chasing stunt or Bughaa might have to change the people around him since they cant seem to keep his personal information on the low…..but again cant say hatuoni handwritting ya Bughaa mahali.
Anyway, if indeed he is married, then it must be the petite lady he stepped out with a while back just after his breakup with Linah…..and again – chances are that the lady had been in the picture all along right? I mean who marries someone you’ve dated less than 2 months?
If you’re 23 years and above im pretty sure Esther Wahome is not new to you. Well this is because she was a big deal back in the day before the new age gospel artists took over. Her songs i.e Kuna Dawa aired on all radio stations from gospel to secular and even clubs played the song just to sooth their customers hearts.
Well, I believe they still do and so far we all know hatuna mtu anapenda mungu kushinda mlevi....and if you doubt me – then maybe you haven’t hit the right clubs….okay not necessary clubs but i am sure you understand what i am saying.
Anyway having been in the gospel industry for 2 decades one thing Esther Wahome has managed to do is keep her private life off the media….or maybe – back then bloggers didnt dig into peoples personal lives like they do now. But as time changes, Ghafla recently came across an IG account that belongs to Michelle Wang’ondu who is the biological daughter of the veteran gospel singer.
Esther Wahome introduces daughter
Well cant say it was hard to find the young lady on social media since her mum, Esther Wahome shared a photo introducing her to fans on her graduation day and to caption, she wrote:
Congratulating and celebrating my biological daughter Michelle Wang’ondu for completion of her university studies at United States international university Africa with excellence.
Looking at the comment section, most of the fans couldn’t help but point out how alike they are – while others mentioned one can mistake the mother daughter duo for sisters. Well, maybe we should ‘blame’ it on the singers strong genes; but I also hear most first-born daughters end up looking their mums and from the photo shared below…..maybe the theory is true?
Anerlisa Muigai recently got back with her bae, Melvin Ibrahim after a short break that almost left us convinced that she may not be cut out for serious romantic relationships.
I mean, she has not only dated a couple of guys but went as far as getting married to Ben Pol before calling quits less than 6 months after their private wedding.
After her divorce she then moved on the Melvin Ibrahim who for some reason almost ended up in her blacklist following a few personal issues….and having overreacted she wrote;
The worst feeling is going into a relationship thinking you will be better than the last partner then end up being the worst,And then you are forced to go and start your life all over again…. what a waste!
Planning a family together?
Anyway just like every other relationship faces problems, so do they but from the things are moving between the two chances are that theyre headed for marriage.
With that said, Anerlisa Muigai has now left many wondering whether she has a bun in the oven – that is after she stepped out in a body hugging dress that left her tummy protruding out – hence sparking pregnancy rumors.
This was also noticed by fans who couldnt help but congratulate her in the comment section for the baby on board. I guess the only reason they felt she is pregnant is becausr she has always had a small waist since her weightloss surgery procedure….so yea, having a big belly only means a baby is on board.
Well – though we cant confirm this, below are a few comments from fans.
Fridah Kajala is not about to let haters drag her daughter Paula Kajala’s name in mud and although the said daughter is past the age of 18 years….mama still wants to protect her in the best possible way because at the end of the day, a child will always remain a child to their parents.
Well, from what we know is that rumor has it that Paula Kajala is pregnant with Juma Jux’ baby….barely 5 months after breakup with Rayvanny who decided to get back with his baby mama Fayvanny. The rumors not only surprised many but paved way for judgemental critics who are now abusing the youngin.
Apart from just these rumors, word also has it that Paula may have already terminated the pregnancy due to unknown reasons….but according to gossip monger Mwijaku, its because Paula might end up raising it alone…and since she is broke….there is no other option.
Kajala steps in for daughter
Well, former actress Kajala has now come out telling off those spreading the rumors…and from what she says is that these people are way worse than witches.
Uko kwetu machawa wapo tena wakingata wanakutoa vipele…
Adding;
Sio Machawa wa mjini adi mtoto wakike wanamuonea gele!!!
She went on to add another post on her IG story, Kajala made it known that no one is perfect and making mistakes is part of growth…a statement that may have confirmed the rumors. She wrote;
Usiogope kukosea maisha hayajaja na maelekezo.
The mother of one also added that instead of looking back and regretting your actions….one should use that as a learning or rather teachable experience- and with that comes growth.
Mmmh….having seen some of the comments made by fans about Paula Kajala…let’s just say this won’t be an easy scandal to get away from…mostly because they’ve already branded her home wrecker.
If you thought Nairobi was one big bedroom then i guess you dont keep up with Tz news. Well you see down there, everyone in the entertainment industry ends up sharing an ex or a partner….like you see Diamond had Wema Sepetu then Hamisa Mobetto and word has it that both ladies also dated Fred Vunja bei….a wealthy tycoon in the entertainment industry.
Then there was Harmonize who is now engaged to Fridah Kajala, mother to Paula Kajala who is also said to have datee Harmonize before moving on to Rayvanny..…yaani its just a mess. But then again – who are we to judge when they all seem to be enjoying their lives?
Anyway thanks to the same sharing – rumor has had it for days that Paula Kajala is pregnant…..which takes us back to that video Harmonize had shared flaunting a grown bump claiming ‘he’s gonna be a daddy’ more of like a step grandad to Paula Kajala’s and wait for it…..Juma Jux baby.
Okay hold on….Jux? I bet Vanessa Mdee’s fans can only think Karma is at work. Right?
Abortion rumors
With blogs talking and gossip tabloids reporting on the alleged pregnancy – Popular Gossip monger Mwijaku also reported that the pregnancy had already been terminated since Juma Jux did not want any of that.
But wait….didnt Paula Kajala and Rayvanny breakup just the other day? And now she is or was pregnant for someone new? Anyway through his IG, Mwijaku wrote:
Tayari dada yet ameenda kutoa unaudited. Ameona wanapo elekea ni uneconomic freedom kwa familia.
Unfortunately we can’t really confirm how true the rumors are….but chances are that there is some truth to the circulating rumor.
Pritty Vishy might have gone MIA for a minute but your favorite upcoming socialite is back and this time around she is not joking about career and money – that is judging from her rate card.
Well, from what she revealed during an IG live is that her brand is worth 300k and went on to break it down saying that she will be charging ksh 100 for every club event she graces within Nairobi and ksh 80,000 for every graduation and birthday parties she gets to host.
Also, musicians or companies looking to feature her on their videos adverts will have to cough ksh 40,000 for video adverts without posting and Ksh 70,000 posting included.
Levels
Well with a 800k plus rate card, Vishy definitely knew there would people complaining, so addressing them through her IG live the young lady said;
I mean people are so funny… You meet a business persona that wants an influencer and they are like examples ‘Come to my restaurant you advertise my hotel or something then we will give you food and drinks, convert that food and drink to money and pay me off! It doesn’t matter if we or I came to the industry as a socialite or kienyeji both parts needs consistency and maintenance.
Anyway to continue on her rate card….she went on to reveal that social media adverts will cost you Ksh 15,000….that is Instagram stories and TikTok stories. Posts on her Instagram and TikTok timeline will cost Ksh 35,000 each and Ksh 60,000 for both.
Well with the economy so bad…..Kenyans on social media decided to do what they do best…troll…and this is how most reacted to the rate card.
Harmonize has left many asking whether its true fiance, Kajala is expecting their second child and to answer this – he unveiled a new video parading what looks like a grown baby bump and judging from the hand petting the belly – we can confirm it is indeed Kajala.
This however comes as a big surprise considering that Kajala only has one daughter – one that she had while still a teenager and from the stories online….word has it that she closed the chapter following ugly experince with the man responsible for the pregnancy.
Harmonize on the other hand has been said to be sterile, a rumor sparked by his ex wife Sarah Michelloti who allegedly went as far as seeking medical help to conceive for the singer; but despite the treatment – they could still not have a child.
Baby bump video
Anyway we can’t say the video is fake especially since Harmonize has been trying to wife Kajala – and judging from the way she carries herself, clearly she is not the type to entertain publicity stunts which explains her low lifestyle.
But again….looking Kajala’s gym footage shared on her Instagram- there are no signs of any baby bump….but we also have to remember that having worked out for years, it might take a while before the bump pops out.