Daddy Owen still wearing his wedding ring is an admission of weakness

Daddy Owen is a simp but we already knew that. Actually, seeing his conduct makes me sympathize more with his cheating wife than him. You see, he recently revealed that though his wife is gearing up to marry her new man, a man who she reportedly cheated on him with.

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To be fair, Daddy Owen simply confirmed the story after it broke. Anyway, she was revealed to be well on her way to marrying a businessman who was even allowing her to drive his high end SUV. The lady in question, Farida Wambui is said to have had a rather caustic relationship with Daddy Owen by the time they were calling it quits.

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Lovebirds, Daddy Owen and Farida in happier days

You see, he was at one point, the hottest artists in Kenya. Nothing he released flopped and it seemed he could do no wrong. As a result, he was minting a lot of money from endorsement deals and his performance fees.

Daddy Owen explains why he still wears his wedding band despite wife dumping him

When the tough times came, his wife decided to leave. And here we find ourselves. Daddy Owen still holding onto the dying embers of his relationship because he is refusing to take off his ring and claiming it is due to the significance of the vow he took before God and man or some bullshit like that.

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Daddy Owen needs to ponder on moving on from his marriage

But him clinging to that sign of his vows when his partner has shown that she doesn’t care about them anymore is actually pathetic. I get it, he loved her and the idea of marriage. He wanted to honour his vows.

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And as more information hits us about their split and impending divorce, Daddy Owen seems to be looking like more and more of a chump and a clown. Why? Because in one of the communications Farida Wambui has passed onto Daddy Owen through her lawyers, she is insisting he delete her photos from his social media accounts. Another thing is that she is demanding back her educational and legal certificates.

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Daddy Owen had pedestalized Farida Wambui, a single mother

Let that sink in. She is being petty about the breakup to the point she is demanding he deletes her photos. That speaks to the fact that Daddy Owen is being forced to realize she wants nothing to do with him to the point where she believes he is of lower value than her and her new man.

What next for Daddy Owen? Here’s what!

Daddy Owen on the other hand is like the man clinging onto her legs and begging her not to go. He has refused to wake up to smell the coffee and see that his wife has left the union so all that hoopla about him clinging onto the ring because of his vow to God is nonsense. He is refusing to let go of the hope he has that they will reconcile and that is stupid. he is lowering his value not only in her eyes but in the eyes of Kenyans.

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Daddy Owen with small brother, Slejj who needs to step up and be a real friend

That is why we do not see women commiserating with him. Everyone who is discussing this matter is laughing at him. He is weak. if he has any friends, they should be talking to him about not just this fact but the fact that when he shows the world how weak he is, it damages his brand. And unless he has the talent to put that into a love-song that can make him some beaucoup money, he is wasting his emotions.

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And in a world as unfeeling and uncaring as ours, the weak are meat for the strong to eat. And Farida Wambui has decided to eat off the emotions Daddy Owen is throwing about in his attempt to win her back.

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What next for Daddy Owen? Here’s what!

Daddy Owen’s relationship has fallen through. Yup, like the year 2020, his marriage has gone under but what is insane is the fact that all the information is now public fodder. And as a result, he became the butt of every joke -with good reason.

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You see, when you act goofy, it is only natural that people will have some seven chuckles at your expense. And Daddy Owen had made some serious mistakes in his relationship (read marriage) that we can all learn from but that doesn’t answer the question of what comes next for him.

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Lovebirds while the love lasted: Daddy Owen and Farida

You see, for many, throwing in the towel is a viable strategy. Many would forgive Daddy Owen for becoming an angry incel who begins to have and even evangelize a bleak opinion and view of women. However, this is far from the end of his journey with ladies and love. While his marriage might be as rotten as a fish discarded at Burma market, he still has his children to look forward to and he can also start to win at love and here’s how:

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#1. Start hitting the gym.

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Daddy Owen celebrates wife, Farida on their wedding day

Daddy Owen needs to stop being a skinny fat beta cuck and start hitting the gym. This will do wonders for him by giving him some self-esteem and respect aswell as make him more attractive to members of the opposite sex. You see, we as a people delude ourselves that looks do not matter. They do. If Daddy Owen is going to get back into the dating scene he should start hitting the gym.

#2. Make more money.

“He who finds a wife, finds a good thing” Daddy Owen sweetly celebrates his wife on their 4th wedding anniversary

Men are human doings, women and children are human beings. According to the reports, Daddy Owen’s marital woes began when he started having a decline in his financial standing. He needs to start channelling his inner turmoil to his creative work. he needs to actually hit the studio and get back to really churning out hits. I get it, the Kenyan entertainment scene is brutal and it might seem like he is washed out but he really needs to really get back at releasing hits. This will make him more attractive to women.

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Daddy Owen needs to look up the “Manosphere”

#3. Start dating again.

Daddy Owen needs to get back to the playing field. I would suggest he gets a dating coach or a friend who is a lothario with the women. Why? Because being married really rusts the engine and trophies the flirtation muscles. Plus Daddy Owen is probably out of touch with the realities of what women are in the current dating economy. He needs people who can help him bey being his wingmen and also men whom he can model himself off and even learn from. He probably needs to start looking into online dating apps aswell. Howebver, he should keep things very casual. No need for him to fall head over heels for some new babe simply because he is feeling low and lonely.

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#4. Get counselling/ therapy.

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Daddy Owen and Farida Wambui on their wedding day

Daddy Owen has legit suffered a trauma. Getting rejected in the public way he was is a real problem. He was in essence weighed and found wanting and she had moved on and was engaged by the time the news was made public. This is a huge hit to the ego, it is crushing to the nuts. He needs to heal enough to realize the issue is with Farida Wambui and not him. He failed as a husband and a leader but he can rebuild himself.

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Daddy Owen’s heartbreak: Lessons Kenyan men should learn

Daddy Owen was one of the hottest stories at the start of the year (dragging on from the end of 2021). He was the happy winner of an imploding (imploded) marriage when word went around that his wife was about to get married to another man while still married to him -I believe this is called bigamy.

Daddy Owen issues official statement weeks after wife allegedly ditched him for rich tycoon

You see, Daddy Owen had married his wife, Farida Wambui. She was a single mother of one when they decided to start dating and we will get to why this is actually an important part of the equation. Anyway, Kenyans woke up to the news that she was seen riding around in a luxury 4×4 car and was infact engaged to some wealthy businessman from GilGil.

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Former lovebirds, Daddy Owen and Farida

And when Daddy Owen decided to finally address all the rumours surrounding his family, he simply said some tepid, spineless bullshit that read:

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I want to take this opportunity to issue an official statement. Thank you to all who have reached out to me in one way or another over the last few days with prayers or encouraging words of support following news circulating in the media involving me and my family.
The Word of God encourages us in all seasons to rejoice, for the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, and faithfulness. This requires us to maintain a perspective of joy in whatever we go through as we know ultimately our walk will produce perfection in God for He makes all things work out for good.
Thank you for all your encouragement and as I journey through this season, I request for time, patience and lots of prayers as you’ve always supported me in my Ministry. I appreciate you for always being there, and I remain confident God will see us through. Love conquers all and Love covers a multitude of sins. God Bless You All.

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Daddy Owen has been left pondering the meaning of love after his wife reportedly left him

This statement and everything we have since learned about Daddy Owen’s marriage is what we need to focus on so we learn from this debacle.

“He who finds a wife, finds a good thing” Daddy Owen sweetly celebrates his wife on their 4th wedding anniversary

#1. Never date or marry a single mother.

Never in a million years date a single mother seriously. Enjoy the ride and then get off when things begin to get serious. And for the love of God, do not commit and marry single mothers. These relationships usually have some major problems. First, let us start with the fact that she clearly has poor decision-making skills which led her to end up with the child of a man who didn’t want to be a father. Secondly, you will never be allowed to discipline her children as if they are your own. you will constantly be reminded they are her children.
Add to this the fact that it doesn’t benefit a man to help raise crotch-goblins not of his genetic makeup who will constantly be cheeky and remind you that you’re not their father. They will go through life with a chip on their shoulder and you will be served with dealing with the emotional damage that comes along with having been rejected by their fathers.

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Daddy Owen and Farida Wambui back when they were dating

#2. Daddy Owen is a weak man

Daddy Owen mourns the death of his close friend, Papa Dennis!

Why was he mourning and moaning about this failed relationship? He should have sucked it up and moved on. Clearly, the people within his circles are just as useless as he is because they are the source of this information about him. He needs to rethink who his friends are and to quickly move on to only trusting one or two people and only shedding tears in their presence. The rest of the world doesn’t need to know about his suffering. As a man, showing a chink in the armour is taken as weakness. That is why when word first broke about his failed marriage, Kenyans mocked him rather than sympathized and empathized with him.

#3. Just like Daddy Owen realized, men are human doings, not human beings

When he was the biggest star in Kenya, he was happily married. When he was making money, his wife, Farida was happy to make a home for them and their children. Now that he has fallen off and most of the shows have dried up, her love for him too has dried up. Men are only as valuable as what they do for their partners, their parents, siblings and society. The minute you as a man fall off, society will move on as you no longer have utility.

#4. Never pedestalize a woman

Daddy Owen set to grace and minister during the Men´s Conference 2020 edition

Daddy Owen would speak about his wife as if she were a veritable goddess. The problem with putting people up a pedestal is that they have no other way to look at and address us but by looking down at us and talking down. He used to treat her like a superstar so she treated him like a groupie. That is why she has moved on with her life so quickly; in both their minds, he is nowhere near her level. We are human beings and at the end of the day, we are flawed. He needs to go forward with his life understanding and internalizing this.

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Daddy Owen has been left to pick up the pieces pof his life.

#5. Learn to lead

According to Daddy Owen, whenever they would get into a heated argument, Farida would begin speaking in Kikuyu. This is something that shows a lack of leadership because he is incapable of even setting rules within his own home that govern their interactions. How can you not lead in your own home and not expect things to go awry? It is something as simple as letting the other party know how to deal with differences in opinions. He should have let her know that he was not the one to talk Kikuyu to and when she broke this rule, he should have walked out of the house and withdrawn attention. Instead, he kept silent about this disrespect or he ignored it.

I would also tell that Gilgil businessman to tread carefully with this one because she will define their relationship through the means she got into it -cheating. unless ofcourse, he is obtaining a third wife.

 

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Daddy Owen proves he’s not an ‘instagram dad’ and spends time with his kid: We take long drives to bond

A quick look at Instagram you’ll find younger men posting their sons and daughters almost everyday and sharing how special they are to them. Still, most of these kids’ mothers are out here calling out their men for not spending time with their children. Such men are usually refereed to as instagram fathers who only share photos but spend months before spending quality with their kids.

Gospel singer Daddy Owen, however, shed light that he doesn’t belong to this bashed category of  dads.

In an interview with Word Is, the singer said that he drops off his kid at school instead of paying for a bus.

“Fatherhood is okay. Every day I learn something new from the kids. You know being a parent helps one understand better the struggles our parents went through when we were young.Being a father also makes one understand things they could not understand before. I always drop my son to school every morning, despite the fact the school offers an option where one can pay for transport when paying school fees,” he said. 

Bonding during weekends

Another thing that Daddy Owen, who welcomed his second born with wife Farida Wambui last year June, does to connect with his son is take long drives during the weekends.

“Technology has taken over. Instead of them spending all their time in the house playing video games, we take long drives. That’s one way for us to bond and know what’s going on in his life. It’s very important to me. On weekends we also take long drives alone.” he said. 

Daddy Owen and wife organize private baby show(photos)

Gospel singer Daddy Owen and wife Farida Wambui have been married now for almost 3 years after meeting seven years ago.

The two, according to a source close to them, are now expecting their second child and even hosted a private baby shower that only close friends were invited.

Exclusive party

According to the source, Wambui had an exclusive baby shower this past weekend though she chose not share with the public.

“Hearty congratulations to @daddyowen and his beautiful wife Farida as they wait on their bundle of joy. We are so glad you enjoyed all the bitings!’’” said the source who also shared she did cratering in the event. 

Here are the photos: