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Why Diamond Platnumz sisters cannot seem to remain married

Posted on June 9, 2021 by Ozymandias

Diamond Platnumz and his sister have been unable to sustain any relationship they have gotten involved in for longer than 18 months. Usually, in Mondi’s case, he sticks around only long enough for the child to be scarred by the end of its parent’s union.

Haraka aje? Diamond Platnumz sister dumped by husband after reuniting with 1st wife

The exception to that scenario was with Tiffah, his eldest child by Zari Hassan. As for his sisters, Queen Darleen and Esma Platnumz, they managed to get married only for their marriages to implode because they had walked into polygamous settings without properly preparing for the role of the second wife.

Ideally, this piece should be a celebration of the fact that I have been proven right yet again following a piece I did foretelling the end of all these marriages and the fact that these people are suffering the brunt of what their mother and father socialized into them:

Diamond Platnumz’ relationship problems are all his mother’s fault

At the end of the day, given the fact that Diamond’s father was nowhere to be seen as he grew up, we cannot put any blame on him for the faulty manner in which Diamond Platnumz learnt to love. That is to say, outside of the abandonment issues he saddled his son with. The other issues Diamond Platnumz displays in his relationships are down to what he learnt from his mother.

The fact that he sees no reason to be upfront with his lasses, instead of sneaking around behind their backs and then surprising them with a love-child is something that we can only assume he picked up from mummy dearest. That is why even his sisters have issues that see them compete for and then marry men already married. They then go ahead to insult their co-wives rather than try to create a harmonious familial background for themselves and their children.

From Zari to Tanasha, all of Diamond Platnumz’ exes are competing for his mother

And make no mistake about it, I am not going to blame Abdul Naseeb for anything because he is not the father of Diamond Platnumz. He was sensationally humiliated when this was blasted across social media by Kendra Michaels aka Sanura Kaseem aka Sanura Michaels.

And that was something that her children learnt too. her daughters, Mondi’s sisters also learnt to be fickle with their love. they were taught to be cantankerous. So when they enter marriage as a second wife, they immediately start to rock the bought.

TANASHA CONFESSED SHE HAD BEEN LYING ABOUT DIAMOND PLATNUMZ BEING A DEADBEAT DAD

Not only were they socialized this way, but Mama Diamond Platnumz doesn’t later try to step in and ask them to calm down and let cooler heads prevail. You see, they are Muslims. And in Islam, a man is allowed up to four wives and Muslim women grow up with this truth being a possible reality for them.

Queen Darleen delightedly weds the love of her life

So why is it Sanura did not teach Queen Darleen or Esma about this being a possibility and how to deal with it? This is entirely her fault.

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Why Esma Platnumz will never be able to sustain a marriage

Posted on January 13, 2021 by Ozymandias

Diamond Platnumz and his sisters Esma Platnumz and Queen Darleen seem incapable of naturing and maintaining their relationships and marriages. And this is something we have all seen though perhaps not all of us have taken note as to why it is and what it says about them.

“Tumeachana!” Mama Diamond Platnumz responds after fans ask about her husband’s whereabouts

That is how I had begun a previously done article. It would seem that these words were prophetic because now more than ever, Esma Platnumz has made them so. She, like her brother, has seen her most recent relationship go belly up like some dead fish -I am craving Tilapia.

Anyway, Esma Platnumz, on her part, got married recently and less than two years on, her marriage is said to be in the toilet along with what’s left of my hangover bowel movements. Hers is a marriage that is a dire warning to women who believe that merely getting the ring is the end all and be all of life. The type of woman who pursued the wedding day as a societal trophy. Her husband and the union they shall have is secondary to the satisfaction of saying her vows. And as a result, Esma Platnumz and women like her make two mistakes.

Wueh! Esma Platnumz ex-husband throwing shade after successfully reuniting with 1st wife

That is why even as the details of the break up are being revealed, all she cares to do is save face by refuting the fact that she was dumped by her husband in preference of his first wife, and instead was the one who walked away. One would have thought that she would rather be fighting for her marriage and their love by going to counsellors and therapists.

Instead, Esma Platnumz is busy throwing shade at her ex-husband and he is retaliating in kind. Clearly, this was not a marriage meant to amount to more than a photo-op. This was a publicity stunt. For Esma Platnumz, a stable relationship was not a requirement. She just wanted to be able to say she had a husband, rubbing this fact in her haters’ faces.

“Ata bure simtaki ” Esma Platnumz facing same fate as her former ‘sisters in law’

Where does all this stem from? I would argue that this is something they witnessed growing up from their absent deadbeat father and the relationships their mother, Kendra Sanura subsequently got involved in. Both Diamond and Esma Platnumz were socialized into their distorted and malformed view of relationships. They might actually be interested in making their relationships work but they simply don’t know how.

Or they could simply not know how to choose partners for healthy relationships because all they were socialized to like was damaged souls who match their broken selves. So they go for all the broken men they saw their mother date or they go for the behaviours those men had in the assumption that women love that sort of mess. And perhaps they are right but it translates for poor relationships that always end with a string of broken hearts and damaged children.

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Why Diamond Platnumz and Esma Platnumz cannot sustain marriages

Posted on November 16, 2020 by Ozymandias

Esma Platnumz allegedly walks out on new husband barely 6 months after grand wedding

Diamond Platnumz has had several high profile romances that have all ended up in heartbreak with most of the women (save Wema Sepetu) have ended up pregnant by him. And while the going was great, they all built castles in the sky. From Zari to Hamisa Mobetto to Tanasha Donna, they all went around claiming they had tamed Simba only for them to realize he was never the guy who was one to settle down. He is a property of the streets.

Esma Platnumz on her part got married recently and less than two years on, her marriage is said to be in the toilet along with what’s left of my hangover bowel movements. Hers is a marriage that is a dire warning to women who believe that merely getting the ring is the end all and be all of life. The type of woman who pursued the wedding day as a societal trophy. Her husband and the union they shall have is secondary to the satisfaction of saying her vows. And as a result, Esma Platnumz and women like her make two mistakes.

Esma Platnumz reconciles with husband after strange fall out, barely 3 months into their marriage

You see, when all you’re concerned with is the wedding, you do no care about the type of man who gets to walk you down the aisle so you do not vet him thoroughly. And should your family see something they would normally object to, they have to be silent to allow your delusions to run unchecked for fear of the ramifications you will visit on them. Esma Platnumz is this type of female.

But where does all this stem from? I would argue that this is something they witnessed growing up from their absent deadbeat father and the relationships their mother, Kendra Sanura subsequently got involved in. Both Diamond and Esma Platnumz were socialized into their distorted and malformed view of relationships. They might actually be interested in making their relationships work but they simply don’t know how.

Esma Platnumz parades expensive white gold diamond wedding ring days after lavish ceremony (Photos)

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