Tables turn! Emmy Kosgei denies publicly embarrassing Kalenjin men

Celebrated Kenyan gospel singer, Emmy Kosgei has trashed reports of having ashamed and embarrassed the Kalenjin men, early last week.

The gospel icon was quoted saying no Kalenjin man ever came to seek her hand in marriage probably because most of them are introverted.

She felt men from her community needed to brave up when asking a girl out and never shy away from professing their love for a girl they adore because time might eventually run out.

Popular vernacular gospel artiste, Emmy Kosgei

Defense

However, soon after the news went viral and men from the Kenyan community came out lashing at her, she responded by saying never in her right mind would she ever bash her own.

During a Live Facebook interview, the ‘Taunet Nelel’ hitmaker expressed:

I think I have represented my community very well, locally and internationally to take the flag of Kalenjin culture and music. It shows how much I appreciate my people and what I do.

Emmy Kosgei

Further evidencing the fact that her dad is a very well respected elder of the Kalenjin community and she is therefore well-schooled in that capacity.

Additionally admitting that her 16-year public life taught her better than belittle another person, let alone her own people.

Also being a daughter of a very great and respected leader in Kalenjin community, that would actually tell my upbringing and I am well polished. And having been on public life for over 16 years now, I believe I can never go on a Live feed or interview and talk words that demean a community, leave alone my own tribe. I mean, even Kenyans at large, I can never do that.

Bashing the news as false while urging fans and the Kenyan mass at large to first establish facts before believing reports.

Recording and performing artist, Emmy Kosgei

However, she articulated that what she said was targeted at having a positive impact and not to portray her people badly.

It’s unethical and I would urge my fans, followers and my brothers to just ignore and not be part of the gutter press and people that seek for selfish and ill motives. Let’s stay together and seek to know the facts. I think issues we were discussing were positive issues towards ourselves, my fans and the community.

Affirming:

I never said such words, I am a Christian and I am a Pastor’s kid. I could never mention such words.

Interview

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CAHaSZgAMz2/?utm_source=ig_embed

No Kalenjin man ever asked me for my hand in marriage – Emmy Kosgei’s sad confession

So sad! Kenyan gospel icon, Emmy Kosgei exposed Kalenjin men for being too shy to profess their love to women.

The popular gospel artiste said ‘I Do’ to her 62-year old Nigerian husband back in 2013 and moved in with him in the West African country.

It is sad to note that, probably why the lady went looking for love outside Kenya’s and East Africa’s borders is because men back home were too shy to approach her for courtship.

Gospel artiste, Emmy Kosgei

Revelation

During her recent online interview with Alfred Koech via his Facebook page, Ms Kosgei shamed introverted Kalenjin men for holding onto love until it is too late.

The gospel Queen from the land of mursik who is about to turn 40 years, confessed that no Kalenjin man had sought her hand in marriage.

There is no Kalenjin man who came to me and told me they want to marry me. This is why sometimes one sees something is good but fails to speak up.

Emmy Kosgei with Nigerian hubby, Mr Anselm Madubuko

Bashing:

An example is a pan, you feel like having it but you do not put it in actions and when the pain is taken away by another person, you start questioning why.

Delving further regarding men from home, Emmy revealed that Kalenjin men can spend hours beating around the bush instead of outrightly asking a girl out.

The problem we have as a community is our people being introverts. Instead of someone hitting the nail on the head, they start asking the girl whether it rained at their place and seeking more details about their home which is not necessary.

Emmy Kosgei

Too late

Unfortunately, she disclosed that a good four Kalenjin men approached her but that was well after she tied the knot with Mr Anselm Madubuko.

Emmy Kosgei with Nigerian hubby, Mr Anselm Madubuko

What saddens her most is how majority of women known to her, from her home county in Kenya have also settled with Nigerian men.

Why should you fear? I know of a number of women from my community who are happily married to Nigerian men.

Advising:

Our men also go slow if they have been rejected instead of taking into social media to launch attacks.