Kenyan music promoter Bernice Saroni, who lives in the US, is here to warn women about forced polygamy.
In a two-part video series, Bernice, Samidoh’s US publicist, discussed her profound views on polygamy and adultery.
On her social media sites, the stunning Saroni frequently gives romance advice while pleading with her followers to practice their religion.
She contemplates relationships while sitting in a car in one of her most recent videos. She was thinking about polygamy and how males compel spouses into such relationships without much thought.
Bernice gave her thoughts on the situation along with some consoling encouragement.
“To all young mothers, you should not be forced into polygamy”
And from there things keep going against Samidoh:
“This is for ladies, young mothers like me if a man leaves you, the father of your children, na akwambie you’re not gonna make it just because he wants you in a polygamy marriage and you don’t want to be in a polygamy marriage, Coz let me tell you baby girl, polygamy is a decision. I have to love it for me to be in it.
And if you feel you cannot be in it, do not allow anybody to force you into a polygamist marriage. Love yourself, choose yourself, look straight into his eyes, and tell him, You know what, you are God, you are not the giver of life, and kneel and tell God, God this is the beginning of my singlehood journey. God, I want you to bless the work of my hands. I want you to renew my strength every day for me to be able to take care of my children.
God is gonna hear your prayer and God is gonna heal you”
Bernice also shared her opinions on cheating partners who don’t take their husbands’ sentiments into account.
“I also ask myself, when you go cheat, when you start a relationship and you are married, do you ever think about your partner? Do you ever think how you are gonna end up hurting this other person or you are just selfish? I find it to be very inhuman coz you already have someone in a relationship or you are already married to someone else, and then how do you feel how the other person feels? Do you ever at any time think about that other person? “
And she then turned the tables around saying,
“Ebu turn the coin the other way round. If it were you, how would you feel if your partner goes and cheats? it hurts right? Very deep, especially men, If your wife cheats, you cannot forgive them, right? So how do you think us women feel when you cheat? it hurts sindiyo, huwezi forgive, yet you expect her to forgive you? There are things that can’t happen like that, noo..”