Nicah the Queen Regrets Losing Dr Ofweneke

Nicah the Queen walked out on Dr Ofweneke a few years back and the split utterly devastated him. When he next surfaced publicly, it was at a Koroga festival instalment and he was as drunk as a skunk, completely beyond the point of reason.

Isn’t he a staunch Christian? Dr Ofweneke caught on camera drunk as a skunk at the Koroga Festival

Back then, it seemed like she had won. She was flourishing and a lot of men were looking to slide into her DMs and have a share in the spoils. And she made sure to flaunt that fact. Remember when she was dating a man of Nigerian extraction? She made a whole meal of that relationship.

Nicah the Queen

Meanwhile, Dr Ofweneke chose to silently rebuild. He stopped talking about his social life and instead threw himself into building his career. He sought out mentors like Jalas and then doubled down on building his legacy.

Nicah the Queen laughs off at her failed marriage with ex husband, Dr Ofweneke

Then all of a sudden he announced that he and his lady, a woman by the name Christine Tenderess, were expecting a baby together. That was when we saw a change in his exes behaviour online. She began doing the most for attention. She would share thirst traps under the guise of inviting members of the general public to her church.

Nicah the Queen

All this while, Dr Ofweneke is focused on his career and his new family. And they did indeed receive the blessing of a bundle of joy. He is living his best life. And indeed, all this joy is manifesting itself in his career.

Why Nicah is missing Dr Ofweneke and has struggled to replace him

And now he is engaged. Indeed, he wants to make an honest woman of his sweetheart. In the meantime, Nicah is no longer able to date balanced men. She only seems to attract men who want short, fun stints with her. And it isn’t hard to see why. She is a single mother of 3. Which self-respecting high-value man wants to saddle himself with 3 children?

Nicah the Queen celebrates ex husband on his engagement to Christine

And that is why she regrets losing Ofweneke. We can also tell this from how her narrative has changed. She has gone from being the angry victim of her narrative who grants more interviews about her relationship than her career. These days when she talks about him, it is to praise the man and father he is. The reason for this is her regrets.

“Yes I still love my ex!” Nicah the Queen confesses

While she was younger, Nicah the Queen was growing in options. Maybe not options for happily ever after but options nonetheless. Now she has to face the truth that she might have lost the best thing she had -Dr Ofweneke. And she has to see that very man get a do-over. That must pack a punch.

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Why Nicah is missing Dr Ofweneke and has struggled to replace him

Nicah the Queen and her ex, Dr Ofweneke are the very definition of the saying, “He who laughs last, laughs best”. And you had better believe that upon hearing about Nicah’s interview on Massawe Japani’s show on Radio Jambo, he smiled.

“Yes I still love my ex!” Nicah the Queen confesses

While being interviewed today, the lady who is celebrated more for her curvaceous self more than her gospel music career, Nicah, revealed that she misses the good times she had with her baby daddy whom she left after a rather controversial period in their relationship.

Nicah the Queen
Gospel singer Nicah the Queen

You see, back when they were a couple, Nicah was accused of being promiscuous while Dr Ofweneke was accused of being violent. You know how that cycle goes right? One is accused of stepping out on her partner who then begins to beat her to attempt to gain some semblance of control over his household.

“Even if I wear a sack, my bum will still jiggle” says Jesus gurl, Nicah the Queen

And we watched Dr Ofweneke unravel for a time, and he was even caught being drunk and disorderly in public. He has since got his life in order and he has moved on with his life.

Nicah
Nicah the Queen with her ex holding her from the back

Nicah on her part tried moving on and for a time last year she was in and around Nigeria and I assumed it was because she had a West African man but that doesn’t seem to have panned out. Before that, a photo of her in bed with gospel singer and Bahati acolyte, Weezdom and even that had fallen through.

Controversy after photos emerge of Weezdom in bed with Nicah the Queen [photos]

So why is she struggling to replace Dr Ofweneke and failing while he has since moved on to a stable relationship? Why is she now talking about missing the good times they had? Infact, Nicah is only now acknowledging she had a part to play in the breakdown of their marriage.

Nicah
Nicah who is known more for her body than her music

It is because she is struggling to find a man at his level of status and financial standing. Yes, Dr Ofweneke has since experienced an ascendancy of his career after they parted company. And now he is one of the most highly sought after event MCs and comedians.

Ofweneke's baby mama, Nicah
Ofweneke’s baby mama, Nicah

And that, gentlemen, is something you need to aspire to become. Work so hard, and become so successful that your exes start talking about missing you. Make yourself so top tier that women actually tell people they are related to you through past relationships. Dr Ofweneke did that right and as a result, Nicah cannot find anyone on his level so every man she has since dealt with is insufficient.

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