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Chiki Kuruka wasnt wrong in defending her husband Bien

Posted on February 1, 2023 by Ozymandias

Why are people so upset that Chiki Kuruka did not want random women dancing with her husband and client, Bien? That’s the question of the day after a video surfaced from I went over the weekend that featured some random Fun grinding on his back and she quickly rushed in to arrest the situation.

Why Chiki Kuruka Is Insecure About Her Husband Bien

I shall start with the low-hanging fruit talk about an incident that featured a stalker and their favourite artist that ended tragically. For that one, we could always look at the Beatles frontman John Lennon, who met his tragic End at the hands of an obsessed fan.

Don’t you think that if his handlers could do anything different they would? So why would we fault Chiki Kuruka for getting involved to avoid the possibility of such an occurrence? Because although that was not the case in this instance it could very well be the case in the next instance involving Bien and a fan.

Bien lied to us! Chiki Kuruka is clearly not cool about his idea of being in an open marriage

The second reason we need to look at is the fact that no woman wants a random lady dancing on her man in a sexually suggestive manner. The common at for the given is based on the fact that he himself had at some point gone on a podcast and revealed that he was open to the idea of an open relationship with his wife if her celebrity crush ever came around town.

Vybez radio presenter and Bien’s wife, Chiki Kuruka

But there is quite a stretch because even in an open relationship, there are rules. You can’t just start sleeping with anyone at random. If indeed the relationship is open as many people are suggesting it to be, then Chiki Kuruka and Bien have probably agreed on the rules and regulations. That means they can’t just randomly pull up on anyone and attempt to sleep with them.

Chiki Kuruka responds to womb watchers asking, “When will you give Bien a child?”

What that fun did was an invasion of personal space and even sexual battery because it was clear being had not consented to dance with her. The irony of this is not lost on me as both Chiki and Bien are feminists who often use that misguided philosophy to hide their misandry. So it was funny to see a woman harassing Ben and because of his stance, his hands were tied so you couldn’t call her out and instead his wife got the backlash.

“To say I love you is not enough,” Chiki Kuruka’s open letter to renowned photographer who hooked her up with Bien

Given both aspects of what we have discussed her actions were not wrong both in her capacity as a manager (who needed to ensure the safety and comfort of her client) and in her role as a wife who was uncomfortable with the fact that another woman got to cosy and too familiar with her disinterested husband.

Let us not act as if Chiki Kuruka is envy and jealousy and natural to human beings. Let us not act as if human beings do not come with the desire to protect their loved ones.

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Bien and his vasectomy will be a disaster

Posted on July 19, 2022 by Ozymandias

Bien has revealed that he is actively seeking to have a vasectomy done on him. Why he chose to share this bit of information to the world, I will never understand. But what I do know is that he will soon be busy yelling at is fans and commenters and critics that they should never have shared their opinions as it is his body and his choice.

Why Bien is the most likely to have a Will Smith moment

So I found myself laughing like crazy when I found out he wanted to have his nads snipped. My friends and I were in a tizzy because this is truly an un-African thing. A man who deliberately wants to seal his capacity for a legacy?

But Bien and his Sauti Sol groupmates have always been progressive so this is really not shocking but he has abdicated his God-given role of being a man in his household. He would effectively become a eunuch in all but the missing nads. What a heathen.

Bien needs to stop preaching to his followers

You see, while I understand that he doesn’t want to have children today, this is one of the most difficult decisions to make because you cannot ever truly know whether you would want to change your mind in future.

Besides this, the nads are where we as men derive our spiritual and primitive energies. That is why when a man wants to harness his power, he is advised to transmute that energy. What can you transmute if your body isn’t fully functional?

The fact Bien thought of divorcing Chiki Kuruka says alot

Also, I understand that he sees Chiki Kuruka, his wife, as his forever person (he strikes me as the type to fall for the myth of the one) but what if that is not to be? And his next partner says she wants a family? I guess what I am honestly challenging is whether or not the decision was made for him or it was made on behalf of his wife and not having her take birth control.

And the timing is suspect because as you know, Bien’s wife is a rather vocal feminist. And it was only after he started dating and eventually married her that we saw him put on his petticoat and start singing feminist nonsense on social media. Now that there are the Roe vs Wade controversies in America, he comes out to say he wants a vasectomy? I mean, coincidences are a thing but timing is everything. Is he truly his own focal point anymore?

Perhaps it is also down to the fact that he has had a series of statements that were so soy and weak under the guise of being “mUh ProGgReSsiVE” but he first revealed his would be a potentially open marriage if her celebrity crush ever came to town. He also has been rather emotional on social media ranting about toxic masculinity instead of simply acknowledging that Kenya has some criminals and bad men and now this… He keeps taking on weak positions so perhaps my hind brain is recognizing weakness in Bien and I am struggling to accept this neo-male.

Ultimately, if this move works for him? Fantastic! However, should he end up revealing that he regretted making that decision, Kenyans would not just never forgive him but we would never allow him to live this down.

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Why Bien is the most likely to have a Will Smith moment

Posted on March 30, 2022March 31, 2022 by Ozymandias

Bien is one celebrity whom I believe is on that Will Smith type of time. For those of you who somehow still do not know what happened, he (Will Simp) slapped Chris Rock purportedly over a flacid joke he made about G.I Jane and Jada Pinkett being right for that role.

Bien needs to stop preaching to his followers

If you have the two brain-cells required to rub together to spark a thought, you know that Will Simp’s reaction was not about the joke that was made. What we saw was a broken man, one whose mind has been done harm by his own wife trying to show the world that he is still a man. And he did so in the way weak men do, he lashed out at the one man he felt was smaller and weaker than he and he slapped him.

However, for woke SJWs such as Bien and his inner circle, this was a brilliant display of chivalry. This is what a man must do to show his woman that she is protected by him. What Bwana Simp did was something worth emulating and while we saw clowns like KRG da Don claim he would do that to whomever disrespected his new woman, I think we all know this type of energy is actually more a Bien thing.

The fact Bien thought of divorcing Chiki Kuruka says alot

And indeed, watching him evolve into the neo-male archetype (read: simp) over the past few months as he has also increasingly championed useless social topics rather than hard hitting issues that affect the less “cool” members of society. And we already got a taste of this when we saw the “beef” between himself and Eric Omondi.

Sauti Sol’s Bien Aime speaks after testing positive for Coronavirus

Incase you’ve forgotten what I am referring to, think back to the incident at Carnivore when the Sauti Sol member was robbed. Also, I should probably add at this point that it will probably not be a comedian on the receiving end of Bien’s simp-rage, it will be some scrawny blogger who might, say, report on an impending divorce or cheating allegation (God forbid ofcourse).

Bien Accuses Eric Omondi Of Stealing His Valuables At Carnivore Concert

That is because men like him do not know how to channel their rage and disappointment at their wives. And men who marry feminists (Chiki Kuruka is the screeching feminist type) are often henpecked and emasculated. And yeah, I know you’re probably thinking, “Well, we haven’t heard a peep about any instability in their marriage” but I would counter and say, we didn’t know Bien had contemplated divorce just 8 months after marrying Chiki until he opened up and revealed it.

So at this point, it isn’t so much about suspending disbelief over the matter as it is engaging abstract thought and picturing an alternative reality where a split has occurred. Also, most relationships between feminists and men take one or another extreme end of the spectrum with the man either becoming hen-pecked or the couple divorcing. And we saw, that just like Will Simp, he too would be forgiving of his wife should she decide to sleep with her celebrity crush later in life.

Chiki Kuruka addresses rumors linking her to Makena Njeri

Can you see the parallels? And should that day come when some blogger has to break the news that the relationship is in turmoil, Bien’s rage will be visited upon him (here’s looking at you Edgar Obare) and you will be the target of his emasculation. Then we will be treated to some woke regurtitation about how it is a man’s responsibility to defend his woman and marriage.

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The fact Bien thought of divorcing Chiki Kuruka says alot

Posted on February 16, 2022 by Ozymandias

Bien, one of Sauti Sol’s most vocal members recently revealed that he was thinking about initiating a divorce from his wife, Chiki Kuruka, just 8 months after they had gotten married. He made this admission during a rather intorspective interview he had on a YouTube show called Man Talk.

What Bien Aime thinks of his wife, Chiki Kuruka

What is interesting about all this is that his interview showed a more… Intune side of the often more brash and often vocal side of the singer who is known to always talk off the cuff about anything and everything.

Perhaps it was the subject matter that made him actually introspect or perhaps it is due to the fact that he underwent counselling to him with his marriage that has made him this way on the topic but as we said at the very beginning, the 8 months he was forced to spend indoors with his wife took a toll on Bien and he found himself contemplating ending the marriage.

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I will once again say that I do not understand why celebrities like opening up their marriage for public scrutiny by discussing issues such as these and the fact that he would allow his woman to pursue intimacy with her celebrity crush -only to later turn around on the matter and blast fans and “bloggers” for daring to report verbatim on what they themselves said but here we are again.

Married couple, Bien Aime and Chiki Kuruka

Anyway, let us keep it pushing. Alot of people missed something that Bien has communicated or should I say some things that were communicated. Let us get right into it:

Cute photo of Chiki Kuruka with her father-in-law, Bien’s dad sparks controversy

#1. Kenyan youth aren’t really prepared for marriage

Your guy is a celebrity who has been touring around the world. He is currently on top of the world and his craft. He probably did not really seek any direction before he settled down. To him, this was merely the next step his relationship needed to take. The reason I say this is because from what we have seen among celebs, most of them do not really think about what exactly marriage is and what it entails.

Hubby and wife, Bien Aime Baraza and Chiki Kuruka

Have they discussed children? Has Bien discussed how they would raise those children? I mean, he told us that they have discussed her (and him) being allowed to sleep with celebrity crushes but have they discussed the mundane aspects that makeup daily married life? If spending 8 months with someone in close quarters puts a strain on the relationship then perhaps they don’t really know each other.

Chiki Kuruka addresses rumors linking her to Makena Njeri

Do they have a couple they can approach when they need to discuss their marriage? And no, I am not talking about their married friends and bandmates, I mean, can Bien reach out to a couple that has been happily married for 20+ years who aren’t his parents or Chiki’s?

#2. The strong woman trope doesn’t work in marriage

Chiki is a strong woman. That is her identity. She is a modern woman who is not willing to lose her identity for the sake of anyone… Yeah, so when we delve into statistics collected from societies that actually keep them, feministsis and Ms Independent™ do not stay married for long. And often, it is the women who opt out of the union. The unfortunate truth is that women are responsible for taking care of the relationship. That is not to say that a woman should tolerate a man who is clearly not in it to win it but that is simply the truth of how human beings are designed. Unlike men, women are the more community and communication driven sex. Men are more interested in things and concepts. Women are more interested in people and relationships.

“To the light of my world,” Bien Aime sweetly adores wife Chiki on her special day

Does that sound like a double standard? Maybe if you’re a “modern woman” but it is encoded in our genetics.

And Bien too is always championing this delusion. In truth, if marriage needed to change, it would have done so organically, not through virtue signalling. We do not care whether or not he is an “ally” because that is not what makes marriages work. And as we are seeing from the west, liberalism is not the way to go unless we want to watch marital rates plummet even further.

#3. Keep your relationship and marriage private

This is a huge one because whenever their relationship is discussed, it is always because Bien is opening up their love to public scrutiny. I have a mentor who keeps reminding me that secrecy locks the demons in but privacy keeps the demons out. His marriage deserves the privacy it takes for them to navigate their issues, find their love for each other and keep growing in that path. Stop telling us all sorts of nonsense about how last night’s date was the bestest ever or how the first 8 months of marriage were hell.

Bien needs to realise he is the captain of his ship and Chiki is his first mate. Whatever happens on the ship is between them. When they need to discuss anything, it should only be with either professionals or “safe harbours” such as an elderly couple that has an interest in seeing the couple stay happily married.

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