Bernice Saroni shares a crucial lesson from her failed marriage

Bernice Saroni recently shared a profound insight about marriage that could shape her approach to future relationships.

In a recent TikTok post, Bernice discussed how her role as a breadwinner has given her a new perspective on marriage dynamics, similar to what many men experience.

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“Some women may not take this well,” she began, acknowledging how her experience as a provider has changed her view on marriage.

“Now that I understand what men go through, it would guide me if I ever marry again.”

Reflecting on her past marriage, she recalled how her husband would ask for peace at home, feeling overwhelmed by work stress and financial burdens.

“When my husband would say, ‘I don’t want noise; I’m stressed from paying the mortgage and school fees, and I just want peace,’ I didn’t fully understand,” Bernice admitted.

As a single mother now managing these responsibilities herself, she has come to appreciate her ex-husband’s perspective.

“Single moms, remember when your husband said he didn’t want any noise? Now you understand, right? I get it now,” she said.

Bernice emphasized that if she were to remarry, she would prioritize her partner’s need for peace.

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“If I marry again, I’ll keep quiet until he’s rested, as long as he’s the breadwinner,” she said, mimicking zipping her mouth. “I’d address any issues after he’s had time to relax.”

She described the challenges of being the breadwinner and juggling multiple responsibilities, such as mortgage payments and school fees.

“These days, I’m exhausted. When I come home and my kids are loud, I think, ‘Can we talk about this tomorrow? My head is spinning.’”

Bernice also commended single parents for managing their households, recognizing how tough it can be.

“To single moms and dads holding it down, I salute you. It’s not easy running a household.”

Her experiences have shaped her relationship values. “It’s difficult to come home to a place with no peace. I’d rather sign those divorce papers and find peace elsewhere. Life is too hard to stay where there’s no tranquility.”

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Bernice Saroni, also known as Mamake Boyz, recently shared a provocative tip for women. The Kenyan promoter, who resides in the US and is reportedly a cousin to Mugithi singer Samidoh, often engages her online followers in discussions about relationships. These conversations frequently draw hundreds of comments from women sharing their own experiences.

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In her latest piece of advice, Bernice addressed ‘goat wives,’ a term referring to a man’s first wife—the woman of his youth.

“Goat wife, sign the divorce papers, peace is paramount, then come back. The best revenge is being a side chick to your ex-husband. Then the game becomes a draw,” she told her audience.

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Bernice is notably close to Samidoh’s wife, Edday, who also lives in the US. Samidoh recently visited his family there to celebrate the graduation of his first daughter, Shirleen. Their family moments warmed the hearts of netizens, sparking speculation about a possible reconciliation between Edday and Samidoh, despite Edday’s repeated denials.

Bernice’s controversial advice prompted various reactions from women who shared their experiences:

  • Tash 👑: “My best revenge was buying his favorite car after I heard it was auctioned 🤣🤣🤣 and attending a ruracio I knew he was attending. I can’t forget the look.”
  • Emmah Favored: “Learn to move on from places that almost caused you your life, places that took God’s grace to see you through. Wish people well and ask God to take you to higher heights than before.”
  • Lucie Zk: “😂😂😂 And make sure that as the side chick, you are not obedient 💯. Let him listen to you or aende.”

Bernice’s comments reflect a blend of humor and real-life strategies that resonate with her audience, sparking lively discussions on unconventional ways to handle past relationships.

Samidoh and Bernice’s recent actions raise doubts regarding their alleged familial connection

Kenyan music promoter based in the U.S., Bernice Saroni, and popular singer Samidoh Muchoki have stirred up social media with a recent photo they shared.

The picture, capturing Bernice Saroni comfortably nestled in Samidoh’s arms, accompanied by a cryptic caption from the singer, has sparked a range of reactions from fans.

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Shared on Samidoh’s Instagram account on May 14, the photo depicts the two smiling and seemingly enjoying each other’s company.

However, it was Samidoh’s caption that piqued the most interest and speculation among fans.

He wrote, “If we ever did something wrong together and the holy spirit touches you to confess one day… please confess your part only and don’t feature me in your nonsense! Again I say Please.”

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This enigmatic message left fans and followers pondering the nature of Samidoh and Bernice’s relationship, as well as the context behind the photograph.

The comments section of Samidoh’s post quickly filled with fans and curious onlookers attempting to decipher the potential implications of the photo and its caption.

While some expressed amusement, others voiced concern, and many speculated about the dynamics between the two individuals.

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She emphasized her ethical stance against dating married men and deemed the idea of being romantically involved with someone she considers family as taboo.

Bernice also commented on the tendency of the public to assume a romantic relationship whenever a man and woman are seen together.

Amid rumors suggesting Bernice’s involvement in the alleged separation between Samidoh and his wife, Edday Nderitu, she clarified that she had no role in their marital issues.

She expressed her respect and fondness for Edday, highlighting their close bond and her concern for Edday’s happiness and well-being.

Additionally, she dismissed any ongoing conflict with Karen Nyamu, another individual entangled in Samidoh’s complex personal life, stating that there is no animosity between them.

Samidoh’s relative vehemently denies dating Oga Obinna

Samidoh’s alleged cousin, Bernice Saroni, has vehemently denied rumors of a romantic relationship with musician Oga Obinna. The businesswoman expressed her disappointment in the spread of such unfounded claims.

One fan questioned Saroni’s stance against dating married men, given the alleged relationship with Obinna. “So she said she does not date married men, and this what?” the fan commented.

Saroni responded with frustration, stating, “Woiee, inauma sana (it hurts so much). My friend, I do not share.”

The rumors originated from a video Saroni shared on her TikTok account, showing her with an unidentified dark-skinned man. Sharp-eyed internet users noticed that the man was wearing a black watch and ring strikingly similar to Obinna’s.

Further fueling the speculation, Saroni posted a picture of herself and the mystery man enjoying breakfast, accompanied by a love ballad playing in the background.

In response to the growing buzz, Obinna took to his social media page to share a photo of his accessories, captioned “vitu hufanana” (they resemble each other).

Saroni’s denial and Obinna’s attempt to clarify the matter have done little to quell the persistent rumors. Despite their efforts to dispel the claims, the speculation continues to circulate online.

Samidoh’s in-law reveals she could not stomach her cheating husband

Kenyan music promoter Bernice Saroni, who is residing in the US, recently shared information on what she did after learning of her ex-husband’s adultery.
In an open discussion about her views on adultery, Saroni spoke with media personality Oga Obinna. “After you treat me disrespectfully, what’s to lose? It’s impossible to miss someone who has harmed you. Cheating is not something I tolerate,” she said.
Saroni described the emotional upheaval she went through following the event and revealed that it led to her falling into depression. She went through an excruciating time, but her kids also suffered as a result.

After the betrayal, Saroni moved to the United States to recover her life. But at this period of adjustment, she decided to spend six months away from her kids in Kenya.

The shift was severe and difficult for them when she finally brought them to the US. “They were very shocked when they came,” she recalled. They were leaving a five-bedroom house, while I was living in a two-bedroom apartment. They did not enjoy living in the United States, and the adjustment was difficult.

 “I had so many things I had to work on, my kids, myself. I have worked so much on my healing so I get to decide this is the man whom I will do life with.  It took me three years to heal so much that when I thought about my ex I was not getting bitter.”

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Bernice Saroni, a US-based Kenyan music promoter, has advised mothers to maintain a drama-free relationship with their children’s fathers.

In a TikTok video, Saroni stressed the importance of mothers fulfilling their responsibilities and allowing fathers to play an active role in their children’s lives. She also urged mothers to focus on their own path and avoid insulting the other woman or the child’s father.

“There are so many women who wish their baby daddies were responsible and involved in their children’s lives,

Saroni pointed out that using derogatory language or pressing the child for information about their father only brings more pain to oneself. She added that even if the father is not a good husband or partner, he may still be a great dad.

“Since your ex-partner wants to meet his child(ren), you start drama-fighting him for moving on and dating someone else. There is a difference between being together and splitting. If it is the latter, stop wanting to know what he is doing or whom he is dating.

You do not have to insult the other woman. You call him, and he does not pick up. It does not have to be a case. It is not a must he picks up your call. He could be busy or in with his lover.”

In recent years, male celebrities have suggested that their baby mamas are stumbling blocks in their relationship with their children. These situations often become embroiled in legal disputes, and the celebrities vent their frustrations on social media.

“He is your ex but still the father of your child. He may not love you anymore, but he loves his child. May not be a good husband or partner, but is a great dad. Learn to differentiate between the two things. Fighting the child not to be with the father will not make you two reunite,”

Overall, Saroni’s advice is to put the needs of the child first and avoid creating unnecessary drama.