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“The son I sneaked into Switzerland illegally to try fight and for…” Akothee’s long, emotional letter to eldest son as he turns 11

Posted on by Gloria Katunge

Kenyan singer, Akothee marked her son’s 11th birthday, recounting how much she suffered, carrying a pregnancy that was rejected.

Akothee recalled how she met her ‘heartbeat’ – Prince Ojwang’s father back in 2008 at her restaurant in Shanzu THE STOMP 196, we they became friends before falling in love.

The mother of 5 was then invited over to Switzerland where she conceived Prince Ojwang, to her then lover, aged 48 years old.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY SON ❤️
We both made a decision of having you my son. Back in 2008, I met your handsome dad , my heartbeat , my coro ????‍♂️????‍♂️ and my onion ????????????????‍♂️, at my restaurant in shanzu THE STOMP 196. We became friends/ lovers and later he invited me to Switzerland, we both agreed to have you @princeojwang .

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang and his dad

The news of her pregnancy was received with jubilation, as the couple went out for dinner in preparation for parenthood.

We looked for you day and night in Switzerland, both of us were happy to have a baby boy. Your dad was 48 years old then, when I finally announced that the period went missing. ????????your handsome dad took me for dinner ,and we went into a new life of parenting

Unfortunately, 5 months later, tables turned and Akothee with her pregnancy, were no longer welcome into Switzerland and in her man’s heart.

until hell broke loose????‍♂️????‍♂️ when we were 5 months pregnant. I sneaked into Switzerland illegally to try fight for your space ,but all was in vein. Being afraid of being deported once they found out I had no correct documents to stick around in Switzerland. I had a schengen visa, and Switzerland was not schengen then ????‍♂️????‍♂️????‍♂️

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang

Aftermath

Since that very day, Akothee went through hell and back, just to see her son live and survive the storm.

I have continously chopped onions day in day out, I have gone days without food and sleepless nights ,asking myself several questions , yes love dies ,or maybe he got bored , it took me time to accept that papa has nothing anymore to do with me, I kept hurting myself by sticking around thinking he would change and have us live as a family ????????????‍♂️ ????????????????,

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang

It took her time to understand what exactly had happened to the man who had been so loving to her, only later to realize he needed his own space and the time to explore.

The black beauty then resorted to finding a new home, a new man to keep her mind sane and her heart warm.

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang and his dad

Baby daddies

That is how, she ended up with two ‘white’ baby daddies – Papa and dad.

No ,I was wrong, papa was right ,Papa loves us yes,but he needed his space, papa was still young and needed to explore life, I understood this very late.so I had to find another Dad since life had to continue ????????????????, And that’s how we ended up with 2 fathers Papa & Dad

That is how Akothee’s two sons, Oyoo the Prince and Prince Ojwang hail from different fathers.

Akothee with her two sons, Prince Ojwang and Oyoo the Prince

Urging Prince Ojwang – the elder son – to just understand how he has a small brother – Oyoo the Prince, whom he needs to handle with care.

I love them equally , you see now you have a brother @oyootheprice even if he gives you headaches he is your younger brother handle him with care ????????????????❤, we still have our house in Switzerland, papa is taking care ,after Corona, we are going to stay with papa abit ,I guess he is missing us , we miss him too ????????????????,

Aww! as she closed off, her sweet message read:

take care of Dad, you and your brother be nice to Dad ????????????????may God protect all my baby daddies who made me a great mom
HAPPYBIRTHDAY ALFONS MARKUS MEYER OJWANG @princeojwang

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang

¨I was thrown back to Africa because I had too many children¨ Akothee painfully recalls her dark past

Posted on by Gloria Katunge

We all have a past. A past that was not full of glam and spice. A past that gives us memories of days when all we had was our loved ones and moments to cherish.

Madam Boss Akothee has her roots too. Days she cared less about the gram and lived each day, just to see her children grow and be happy.

Sharing a flashback photo just after giving birth to her son, she opened up on the myriad grueling challenges she had to undergo at the time.

Akothee with her daughters back in the days when she had given birth to her boys

The journey

¨I have never allowed my challenges cover my beautiful smile,¨ she started. As her heartbreaking story continued:

No one knew I was thrown out of Switzerland 9 months pregnant to come back to Africa, his exact words ” go back to Africa I have no time ,energy or family to take care of you, I am not ready for a family now , you have too many children, and a man can not fall in love at 50 ????‍♂️????‍♂️????‍♂️

This was a man, whose child she bore. A man she looked up to start a family with. A man supposed to be the father to some of her kids.

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But it was like crying over spilt milk. He was 50 and wanted nothing to do with a woman with ´too many children´ let alone start a family.

It cut right through her skin and none came to her rescue.

This words penetrated deep inside my stomach , I seek advice from people I knew in Europe, but none was making sense to me.

Crazy pieces of advice she got but her brain made her think twice. Women whose hearts were made of stone and would do anything to have ´what she had´ which was not even there.

Even during this time I had women who were jealous of me ????‍♂️hated me ,thinking I was living large and better life than them????????,even went as far as sleeping with my so baby daddy ???????? no madam I was just organised.

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But their minds were clouded. They could not see the reality.

However, with pain comes strength, comes boldness, comes the courage to face the reality as it is and conquer.

Akothee did exactly that, without knowledge of those dear to her heart.

I never told anyone my journey or pain,even my own children dint know anything ????????, not even my family they only saw a strong hard working taxi driver ,who now opened a restaurant/ bar.

Now

As she recalls her painful past, she can only smile and be proud of who she has become.

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Her message however is:

what worked for me,might not work for you ,you only have one option left BE STRONG ????????????????, what doesn’t kill you ,makes you stronger !

That explains why she would choose Africa over any other continent any day, any time.

And that’s how I lost my thirst of living in Europe! I adore Afrika , it has my roots ,where my umbilical cord was buried AFRIKA AFRIKA AFRIKA , I LOVE YOUUU @@veshashaillan @rue.baby @fancy_makadia