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¨I MISS TO BE SOMEONE´S WIFE, ENJOY IF YOU HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP!¨ Akothee pleads with women

Posted on by Gloria Katunge

Akothee did not grow up with a silver spoon in her mouth. Maybe her children are but she went through every mess life has to put out.

The mother of 5 works tirelessly to feed and take care of her 5 children and she has proven to be up to it. However, her dark pasts are what have built her to be the woman the world currently admires.

Unfortunately, despite being an inspiration to women across the board, some seem to have taken it a little too far.

Akothee and her security

A family man, identified as ¨Kwena Kwesh Kweshman¨ shared a Facebook post telling Akothee she has become a ´goddess´ to his wife.

So now, his wife wants to leave her matrimonial home and live like a single mother, just like Akothee.

Feedback

However, the black beauty sent a word of caution to women to avoid acting before they think critically because what worked for her might not work for another.

Akothee reveals she escaped death 3 times and here she is, having been through all the struggles life has to offer.

????‍♂️????‍♂️????‍♂️, I just found myself here ,through the struggles of life ,escaped death 3 times ????‍♂️, I dont even know what and how I did it ,I never had a formula or strategy.

¨I still miss a marriage life and being taken care of!¨ she opened up. She cries her heart out, admitting that being strong and at the top, only brings you more headaches.

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Madam Boss pleads with the women to realize that ´stigma upon single parenting is real, sabotage and rejection.´

It’s very sad to be strong because you still take care of people even while in bed, with very few asking how you are doing ! It’s very lonely up here ,there is no really real life ,you don’t know who is real or fake,it only takes you heart break to learn ! I wish your wife really knows what she is going for ????‍♂️, the stigma upon single parenting is real, sabotage and rejection ????‍♂️????‍♂️????‍♂️,

What you see might not be what you get – vitu kwa ground ni different. 

Before she walks out of that home , let her know that maybe what worked for me ,might not work for her ,let her organize her home and try make it there ,but If you are also giving her too much rubbish ,then I can’t tell her to leave,I will just tell her “when she leaves , she should get ready for all the takatakas of all kinds before she see some light????‍♂️????‍♂️????‍♂️, it’s all messed up kwa ground,

Regrets

Sadly for Akothee, she is not the one who left her husbands´ homes, they are the ones who left her. Sometimes she walked away for the sake of the sanity of the children.

I never left my husbands, Jared fell in love with another woman and left me ! Papa Ojwang just wanted a child with no strings attached ! I left papa Oyoo because the relationship was toxic and the fights were not good for both of us and the kids .

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At the end of the day, she misses marriage life.

But trust me I MISS TO BE SOMEONES WIFE ,ENJOY IF YOU HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP ???????????????????????????????? not all that glitters is gold ????????

¨I was thrown back to Africa because I had too many children¨ Akothee painfully recalls her dark past

Posted on by Gloria Katunge

We all have a past. A past that was not full of glam and spice. A past that gives us memories of days when all we had was our loved ones and moments to cherish.

Madam Boss Akothee has her roots too. Days she cared less about the gram and lived each day, just to see her children grow and be happy.

Sharing a flashback photo just after giving birth to her son, she opened up on the myriad grueling challenges she had to undergo at the time.

Akothee with her daughters back in the days when she had given birth to her boys

The journey

¨I have never allowed my challenges cover my beautiful smile,¨ she started. As her heartbreaking story continued:

No one knew I was thrown out of Switzerland 9 months pregnant to come back to Africa, his exact words ” go back to Africa I have no time ,energy or family to take care of you, I am not ready for a family now , you have too many children, and a man can not fall in love at 50 ????‍♂️????‍♂️????‍♂️

This was a man, whose child she bore. A man she looked up to start a family with. A man supposed to be the father to some of her kids.

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But it was like crying over spilt milk. He was 50 and wanted nothing to do with a woman with ´too many children´ let alone start a family.

It cut right through her skin and none came to her rescue.

This words penetrated deep inside my stomach , I seek advice from people I knew in Europe, but none was making sense to me.

Crazy pieces of advice she got but her brain made her think twice. Women whose hearts were made of stone and would do anything to have ´what she had´ which was not even there.

Even during this time I had women who were jealous of me ????‍♂️hated me ,thinking I was living large and better life than them????????,even went as far as sleeping with my so baby daddy ???????? no madam I was just organised.

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But their minds were clouded. They could not see the reality.

However, with pain comes strength, comes boldness, comes the courage to face the reality as it is and conquer.

Akothee did exactly that, without knowledge of those dear to her heart.

I never told anyone my journey or pain,even my own children dint know anything ????????, not even my family they only saw a strong hard working taxi driver ,who now opened a restaurant/ bar.

Now

As she recalls her painful past, she can only smile and be proud of who she has become.

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Her message however is:

what worked for me,might not work for you ,you only have one option left BE STRONG ????????????????, what doesn’t kill you ,makes you stronger !

That explains why she would choose Africa over any other continent any day, any time.

And that’s how I lost my thirst of living in Europe! I adore Afrika , it has my roots ,where my umbilical cord was buried AFRIKA AFRIKA AFRIKA , I LOVE YOUUU @@veshashaillan @rue.baby @fancy_makadia

Akothee takes us down memory lane with her first love in a long moving post

Posted on by Gloria Katunge

President of Single Mothers, Akothee comes clean on what transpired in her past after being chased away from their village with her first baby daddy.

Madam Boss shares a vintage photo with her first baby daddy and in a long post, humorously captions:

See my first love ????????, the man who broke my virginity , the father of my 3 beautiful daughters @veshashaillan@rue.baby @fancy_makadia ,

Yes the man who taught me that people kiss,????????

I always ran away with my mouth, I was wondering why I should eat somebody’s siliva????????

However daring, it was not a smooth sail after the two got chased away from their village, without a place to call home.

The support

Good thing is how supportive her first love was to her, even if he knew he was risking his education.

Apart from us breaking up , this guy had my back, we went through shit together ,

Even when his parents said no to me , he stood by me, we were thrown out together to go back in the village ,

He was still a student, so when his parents chased me away, he said he is coming with me.

The two were literally deported from home having to struggle to make ends meet and still accomplish their youthful goals.

So we Were deported from awendo to the village KANGA , where they had built us a house ,

He was still a student at moi University ,

So when schools opened he gave me 3000 ksh from his porket money , to survive with our 3 children ,

So I looked at this money and said, if I shop with this money , I dint know when I will set my eyes on the next shilling????

The growth

Like the thoughts of a mother, in order to see your children survive the test of time and still sustain yourself.

The then mother of 3 chose to reap benefits long term.

So, I decided to put up a business ,

I went to kisii daraja mbilli and bought stock of omena, tomatoes and cabbages ,

I started a grocery in our local market Kanga????????,

However, it still pained Akothee´s mother to see the fruits of her own labor, waste away due to life choices she had made.

My mum was always ashamed when she saw her learned , bright intelligent daughter selling omena yet we came from a good family,

But I had messed up and grew wings I could not fit in my mothers house anymore with a hand full of children ,

I grew wings I had to fly ,

Back to the main agenda, the International baby mama still respects her first baby daddy because it was through him that she was able to bloom.

RESPECT MAN JARO ,

My grocery grew and I rented a shop , then I expanded my business into selling cloths ,

When I was stable small , I went back to school because this was my mothers dream ,

Respect my own Jared you be my MCM ,

To top it all up, Akothee reveals how successful her first baby daddy currently is, glad that even though it never worked out, he never walked out on her.

Most of you could be wondering what he does for a living well ,

He has masters degree a senior accountant with a very stable family and 2 kids

plus mine 5 one word for jakamagambonani ????????????????????

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