Sarah Kabu: Cheating Men Often Still Love Their Wives
Image: Mrs Sarah KabuSarah Kabu, Managing Director of Bonfire Adventures, has sparked fresh debate on social media with her controversial views on infidelity in marriage.
In a candid discussion on the *Hey Girl* podcast hosted by Eve Mungai, Sarah argued that many men who cheat still deeply love their wives and rarely leave them for mistresses.
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“Most married men genuinely love their wives. If he put a ring on your finger, made vows, and hasn’t chased you away despite cheating, just know he truly loves you and plans to spend his life with you,” she said.
Sarah used examples of politicians entangled in love triangles to illustrate her point, asserting that, despite their affairs, married men prioritize their wives. “They don’t leave their wives, and deep down, they love them. They even register investments under their wives’ names, not the mistresses’,” she added.
When asked about the reasons behind infidelity, Sarah attributed it to curiosity and desire, saying, “They’re just exploring. For some, it’s a fetish—they want to experience something different.”
Her comments follow a previous episode of the podcast where infidelity was also a hot topic. Host Eve Mungai and co-host Liz Jackson challenged Sarah’s views, labeling them outdated.
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Eve and Liz highlighted a shift in modern attitudes, emphasizing that today’s women are less likely to tolerate infidelity. They dismissed Sarah’s suggestion that women should endure cheating husbands, arguing that relationships should prioritize happiness and mutual respect.
Eve shared a personal story to underline this shift: “My mom used to say, ‘Just endure a little, stay calm.’ But I’ve helped her see it’s not about enduring—it’s about being happy in marriage.”
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Public Reactions
Sarah’s remarks have ignited a heated debate online. Some agree with her belief that strong marriages can survive infidelity, while others support Eve and Liz’s modern stance, advocating for self-worth and fidelity as cornerstones of a healthy relationship.
