Reasons why women avoid dating younger men

Zari Hassan is making it seem so easy to date younger guys right? I mean – she made it work with Diamond Platnumz, then moved on to GK Choppa who she dated for a while and now is seeing King K – who we all believe is barely 25 years.

Although the hot couple is making it work, despite the stigma around older women being seen with younger men; i have come up with a list of things women should always have in mind when considering before bagging a junior…not literally under 18 years….hope you know what i mean.

Anyway here we go;

Men want to smash but not to settle

A young man is good when it comes to getting downn in the sack but at the end of the day, he will never see a future with you. Why? Because he is young and has so much exploring do before ge gets to your age….and you want him to gibe that up? Never going to happen no matter how much you spend on him or upgrade his life, he will always want a younger version of you.

They are immature

I can only imagine how a 41 year old talks to a 23 year old boyfriend. I mean, apart from fashion (maybe), shopping and fun – what knowledge can a 23 year old man have to impress a 41 year old woman with? So basically you find most feeling like they are babysitting or worse raising a man who can be your son’s age.

They are broke

Eeeh. Here is where the road meets rubber. Most young men between ages 23 to 29 years are often on that discovery phase of their lives where they’re trying to hustle their way up. So yea, they not only dont have money but are like toddlers who you have to keep sending pocket money to…..yet you know by the time he will be stable enough maybe to afford a proper date night, youll probably not be in his life or the picture – so why invest?

They are inexperienced and nervous in bed

Although not all, I hear younger men can be all over when it comes to bedroom matters. They’re the type to visit a certain hub learn a few tricks and you in your late 30’s or 40’s are forced to try some of things hence leaving you very uncomfortable. Also for them sex is a snack, every now and then….believe me you’ll end up with blood pressure medication if you try to keep up.

They have jobs that are weird to older people

Imagine a CEO of a top company settling for a TikTok dancer,  betting Guru. I am not saying that they don’t get paid well – but imagine a whole mama telling her friends or relatives my man dances to make money on TikTok, they’ll never understand because to them  these are things kids should be doing….which is why maybe women should avoid putting them is such situations before embarrassing themselves.

But then again, I agree that age is nothing but a number and sometimes we fall for who we fall for.