Nicah the Queen shares tips to successfully coparent with an ex

Having to raise a child with an ex needs a lot of patience and…prayers. And although y’all don’t have to be best friends after the breakup – truth is as parents you’ll need to work as a collaborative team for the sake of the child.

Well, Gospel singer Nicah the Queen who is Dr Ofweneke’s ex has opened up about coparenting with comedian – and from what she says – looks like this was the best decision she ever made.

Nicah talked about this through her gram where she shared photos from her daughter’s graduation and among the people on the photo is ex Dr Ofweneke who remains a good friend despite breakup. Captioning the new photos, the mother of two wrote;

Co parenting ain’t hard if you let go of your ego, pride and bitterness. Put your child/children first and remember to them all they see is their dad and Mum and not whatever you are picturing in your mind. To them their dad is their hero and so is their mom! Be bold enough to put your baby first. drofweneke we have done well!

Supportive spouses

Another secret of coparenting is having supportive spouses who are sometimes caught in between coparenting parents; but through their patience, understanding and advice – coparenting becomes a success.

For this reason Nicah thanked her boyfriend Slahver Deejay and Dr Ofweneke’s current wife Christine saying;

Congratulations Debbie on your graduation we are super proud of you. Thank you to our amazing and loving spouses @slahverdeejay and @christinetenderess for making it easier and always supporting us. Cheers to us! #jesusgurl #thequeenfromtheeast