Mary Biketi Speaks Out: “There Will Be No Woman After Me”

Mary Biketi is confident, grounded, and unapologetic about her place in her partner’s life—declaring with certainty that no woman will come after her.

The 31-year-old joined Radio Jambo’s Masawe Japanni on Wednesday, April 9, to discuss a youth empowerment foundation she’s launching in Kitale, with a strong focus on Gen Z and the unique challenges they face today.

During the candid interview, Biketi opened up for the first time about her relationship with former Kakamega Governor Wycliffe Oparanya—sharing how their paths crossed in what she calls a “fateful encounter.”

“We met at Wilson Airport while traveling to Kisumu. We were on the same flight. He sat next to me, introduced himself, and that was it—the rest is history,” she recalled warmly.

Although she knew who he was at the time, she emphasized that their connection wasn’t immediate.

When asked if it was love at first sight, she laughed and said, “Next question, please.” After some nudging, she admitted, “No… it came later.”

Shared Passions and a Strong Bond

Biketi revealed that the couple shares a love for Rhumba music and that she values the quality time they spend together. She praised Oparanya as a responsible father and partner, despite public perceptions.

“He’s a good man. People judge him, especially when it comes to women, but they don’t know who he really is.”

She was also happy to confirm that they are officially married.

“He acknowledged our relationship publicly. He’s a polygamous man, and people will always talk—but that’s fine with me.”

On Being in a Polygamous Marriage

When asked how she navigates a polygamous union, Biketi’s response was calm and composed.

“As long as I’m okay and have everything I need, I don’t stress. He’s free to go, but he always comes back to me. I focus on myself—what else can I do? I’m used to it.”

However, she didn’t hold back when speaking about women who try to cross boundaries:

“I check his phone and block whoever needs to be blocked. We both have access to each other’s phones. Some girls try—sending photos, flirting. I just block them. Only current wives are allowed. After me? No one. He told me he’s content with the women he has.”

She admitted she sometimes responds to messages just to see the intentions behind them.

“They want to seduce him, meet him—but I don’t care how beautiful or educated they are. Block.”

Lessons from a Polygamous Setup

When asked what she’s learned, Biketi shared that mutual respect is key:

“Respect the other wives, and respect the children. That’s why, when our relationship became public, no one came out to complain—I’ve always been respectful.”

On whether she’d consider dating a younger man in the future, she firmly said, “No, thank you.”

A Private Love in a Public Life

When pressed on whether she’s officially married, she confirmed:

“Yes. He’s visited my family. But I don’t like discussing him too much—there are others involved, and I respect their privacy. It’s hard seeing myself trending for things I don’t even talk about.”

Despite being part of a high-profile relationship, Mary Biketi has made one thing clear—she’s secure in her place, lives life on her terms, and sets strong boundaries around what (and who) she allows into her space.