Maandy: Men Find Me Intimidating, But I’m Actually a Soft Girl
Maandy’s rising fame hasn’t translated to success in her love life, largely due to public misconceptions about her demeanor. Her serious nature was often mistaken for hostility, which created a barrier between her and potential romantic partners. “I unintentionally intimidated people, especially men. But I’m really a soft girl,” she explained, reflecting on the challenges of dating while in the public eye. This has kept Maandy single for a long time, as many men have been too intimidated to approach her.
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However, over time, she has learned to strike a balance between her strong persona and vulnerability, using her music to showcase her softer side. Recently, she addressed rumors about her relationship with fellow artist Breeder LW, firmly denying any romantic involvement. During an Instagram Q&A, Maandy clarified that her decade-long friendship with Breeder is purely platonic and supportive, even humorously acknowledging his reputation as a “ladies’ man.”
On her musical journey, Maandy shared that she started as a DJ before becoming a rapper. Known as Kabaya, her story began in the bustling neighborhoods of Dagoretti, where she split her time between Waithaka and Ngong. “I grew up between Waithaka and Ngong, but most of my friends were from Ngong,” she recalled.
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Her early passion for music led her to organize entertainment events in high school. After graduating, Kabaya pursued DJing, quickly making a name for herself and securing a residency while still a student. “I used to DJ every Saturday and earned Sh 35,000 a month, which was great,” she reminisced. But fate had other plans. During a studio session, producer Jay Blink noticed her talent for freestyling and told her, “You’re doing the wrong thing. You need to rap.”
Though initially unsure, Kabaya’s natural talent for rap was undeniable, marking the start of her transformation from DJ to rapper.
