Kamene Goro Responds to Criticism Over Her Dating Advice to Young Women

Kamene Goro has addressed the wave of criticism sparked by her recent comments encouraging young women to date multiple partners before settling down.

Speaking during a live radio broadcast, Kamene shared her thoughts on love, self-discovery, and relationships in youth—views that later stirred online backlash and, in her opinion, were widely misinterpreted.

Kamene’s Original Message: Date to Discover Yourself

In her initial remarks, Kamene urged young women not to limit themselves to just one romantic partner while still exploring life and love.

“How are you going to know what you like if you’ve only kissed one frog?” she asked.
“Don’t limit yourself to one person. Allow your youth to be full of experiences, because experiences teach you. Life is the best teacher.”

She went on to clarify that her message was not about promiscuity, but about self-discovery—encouraging young women to date various people simultaneously to better understand their preferences and relationship needs.

“Date them at the same time. Not to be reckless, but to learn. How else will you know if you like movie nights or staying in? A bad boy or someone more spiritual? Explore, learn, grow.”

Challenging Early Commitment

Kamene also questioned the pressure to commit too early in life, suggesting that doing so could deprive young women of the full range of emotional experiences that come with dating.

“When you’re young, you can fall in love multiple times. Why deny yourself the chance to fully experience love by tying yourself to just one person?”

She emphasized that dating in one’s youth should be about understanding what kind of partner—and life—you truly want.

Public Backlash and Misinterpretation

After a clip of her remarks went viral, Kamene faced a flood of criticism. Detractors accused her of promoting a reckless lifestyle and undermining values like commitment and stability.

In response, Kamene called out those who, she said, had taken her comments out of context.

“Everyone is out here wilding over my ‘baby girl moment,’ but have you actually watched the full video?”
“It’s being blown way out of proportion.”

Clarifying Her Message: Responsible Dating, Not Promiscuity

Kamene reiterated that her advice was rooted in responsibility and self-awareness—not irresponsibility.

“I said this should all be done within the scope of responsibility. I didn’t say go out and sleep with everyone. I said go on dates.”

She stressed the difference between dating and being sexually active with multiple partners—something she believes many critics overlooked.

“I never said go have sex with four men at the same time. I said date. That means get to know people, not sleep with everyone.”

Encouraging Thoughtful Exploration

Kamene’s clarification aimed to shift the narrative away from moral panic and toward healthy self-discovery.

“It’s important for young women to explore and figure out what they want. That doesn’t mean being reckless—it means being intentional and informed.”

Though her message has sparked debate, Kamene stands firm in her belief that young women should have the freedom to explore love and relationships on their own terms—so long as it’s done mindfully.

“Let’s stop making it seem like I’m telling young girls to be irresponsible. No. Can we all just calm down?”

While reactions remain divided, Kamene Goro continues to champion open, honest conversations around modern dating—especially for women seeking to define their own paths in love and life.