“It hurts to love someone & not be loved in return”- deep post from Jblessing leaves many wondering if he’s talking about Avril 

Producer Jblessing has been in the headlines several times following Avril’s pregnancy almost two years ago.

According to rumors, Blessing is the farther of Avril’s kid though the two have never really denied or agreed. A recent post from JBlessing had many trying to decode it wondering if it was directed to Avril.

In the long post, JBlessing confessed how love going wrong can be a tormenting thing. He urged his followers to go for someone who makes them smile and everything else might just fall in place.

Here’s the long letter:

“It hurts to love someone & not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone & never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful of that gift.

“Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion & the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you and later to find out in the end it was never meant to be & you just have to let go.When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one that has been opened for us.

“The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word & then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.It is true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we loose it but its also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours.

“There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from.
But don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from their heart.

“Never say good bye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say you don’t love a person anymore, if you cant let go.Love comes to those who still hope although they have been disappointed, to those who still believe although they have been betrayed, to those who still need to love although they have been hurt before & to those who have the courage & faith to build trust again.It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget about someone.

“Don’t go for looks, they can deceive, don’t go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile…because it takes only smile to make a dark day seem bright..