Daddy Owen opens up about his issues with his wife that led her to leaving
Gospel singer Daddy Owen has opened up about the lessons he learned from his previous marriage, which ended in 2020.
In an interview with Iko Nini, Owen said that the breakup was a difficult time for him mentally. “Ilikuwa kuna wakati mentally akili zangu hazi work. 2020 was the worst time in my life,” he said.
However, Owen said that he has since learned a lot from his experience and is now in a better place. He said that one of the biggest lessons he learned is about hypergamy, which is the tendency for women to marry men who are of a higher social or economic status.
“Women will always marry higher, and hypergamy is real bro, most of the time machali ukisha kuwa na dame ukisha mchonga kidogo, ama apate job, ata kusare aendee mwingine,” Owen said.
He explained that this is because women are attracted to power and status, and that men who are seen as being successful are more likely to attract women.
Owen also said that he has learned about the importance of emotional intelligence in a relationship. He said that it is important for couples to be able to communicate effectively and to be able to understand each other’s emotional needs.
“A lady comes home from work and the guy has spent the whole day inside the house yet he wants to discuss issues with his CEO girlfriend. What will you discuss? Your intelligence level is not the same,” Owen said.
He added that it is important for couples to be on the same level intellectually and emotionally in order to have a successful relationship.
Owen’s interview has sparked a debate on social media, with some people agreeing with his assessment of hypergamy and others disagreeing. However, Owen’s story is a reminder that relationships are complex and that there is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question of what makes a successful marriage.