Ben Pol vs Ommy Dimpoz: The type of friends every man should avoid

Ben Pol and Anerlisa Muigai are a divorced couple and we know this as word from Tanzania revealed that he has filed for divorce from his immensely loaded wife and wouldn’t you know it, word going round reveals that she has already moved on.

Per person sharing? Anerlisa Muigai allegedly involved with Governor Hassan Joho’s close friend after breaking up with Ben Pol

Yes, Anerlisa Muigai is rumoured to be involved with Joho’s friend, Ommy Dimpoz and from her ex-husband’s reaction, you can tell he is hot and bothered at what he is hearing as he said as much. For argument’s sake, we will move forward with the assumption that this allegation has some merit behind it given it came directly from Bwana Pol.

The issue now is that to most people, they assume that he is upset at Anerlisa for moving on and seeing someone shortly after they split but I am here to argue that Ben Pol is actually upset at the man whom he thought was his friend only for him to betray him.

Anerlisa Muigai hinting why husband Ben Pol filed for a divorce?

And therein lies the real issue here: the insidious nature of men who dirty mac. Incase you don’t know what that means, allow me to tell you a story that will help you better understand where Ben Pol is coming from:

Boy meets girl and they start dating. Everything goes well and they end up in a relationship. Naturally, she is introduced to his side of life which includes his friends, acquaintances and co-workers. Eventually, these guys get married but things do not work out and they end up divorced. From that point going forth, this girl starts dating her ex-husband’s acquaintance.

Ben Pol filing for divorce from Anerlisa Muigai surprises no one

First of all, that would indicate that this man is not his friend. Ommy Dimpoz probably had his eyes on his friend’s wife from the jump. And he has shown a disgraceful disregard for the almighty bro-code.

As a man, you do not ever want to be in a situation in which a guy within your sphere of influence has been praying on the end of your relationship or marriage so that he can now have a go with your partner. Why? Because there are 7 billion human beings on earth and of this number, about half are women. So rather than go after a woman whom you know will cause you and your friend to have a falling out over, why not simply go for the many other available women?

Anerlisa Muigai and Ben Pol’s relationship shows us what to expect out of modern marriages

At the end of the day, Anerlisa Muigai is immaterial to this entire scenario. She is just a place holder. It could have been any woman. The issue is that Ben Pol also probably knows that the woman he used to love enough to commit his future to is busy making nice with a man who sees her as little more than a jump-off. That is an entirely different level of disrespect.

But because I cannot tell the future, I will hold my tongue and say that time will tell what Ommy Dimpoz intentions are if indeed he is going after Anerlisa Muigai. And I would wager that if he is genuinely after a relationship, then Ben Pol will mellow his opinion on the matter but again, only time will tell.

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