Annitah Raey: I Was Assaulted by a Short Man and Wondered if He Was Compensating for His Height

Media personality Annitah Akiru Raey has opened up about her life and past experiences, sharing why she avoids relationships with shorter men.

After revealing her battle with Bell’s Palsy in 2024, some individuals suggested her condition was a divine punishment for comments she made about short men during her time on radio. However, Annitah clarified that her preference stems from a traumatic incident in her past rather than prejudice or hatred.

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In a candid conversation with Oga Obinna, Annitah explained how her history has shaped her choices, revealing a deeply personal journey of healing and self-awareness.

She disclosed that her aversion to short men originates from an assault she experienced years ago. Reflecting on the ordeal, Annitah shared, “I got assaulted by a very short man, and I kept feeling like maybe he was trying to compensate for his height. I unknowingly carried that trauma and started projecting it onto others.”

Through therapy, she began to confront and understand her feelings. Her therapist helped her recognize her resentment, encouraging her to explore its roots.

“My therapist pointed out, ‘Annitah, you hate short men,’ and urged me to dig deeper into why. My baby daddy is 6’6″ and my ex-husband is around 6’4″. I just can’t be with someone I have to look down on,” she explained.

Writing her book forced Annitah to revisit painful memories, including the assault, which helped her better understand her preferences.

“Writing my book took me back there. That’s when I realized this is why I don’t like short men. People joked that God would give me a short husband as punishment, but I knew He wasn’t that cruel. Once I understood my reasons, I stopped feeling guilty about it.”

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Annitah emphasized that her aversion is not rooted in hate but in personal boundaries and coping mechanisms.

“It’s not that I hate them—it’s just not my preference. Short men don’t take anything away from me, but being in a relationship with one is a trigger for me.”

Annitah also reflected on her tumultuous journey, which includes running away from home at 13, living on the streets for two years, using and selling drugs, and being assaulted in 2005. She described herself as a rebellious child and acknowledged the pain she caused her mother, saying she owes her multiple apologies.

By speaking openly about her experiences, Annitah has found a sense of closure. She first publicly addressed her assault in 2018 and has since strengthened her faith, finding solace in her purpose and relationship with God.

Writing her book has further helped her process her past and heal from her struggles, paving the way for personal growth and self-acceptance.