Anerlisa Muigai says she is going to be more selfish revealing why her marriage failed

Anerlisa Muigai seems to have come to a point of clarity that has allowed her to see that it is time for her to be more selfish with her resources chief of which are her time and money because she feels she gives too much to her partners.

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Try and read that without laughing. Because her behaviour online is a reflection of herself and trust me when I say that she is nothing if not frugal with how she uses her resources because one of her most valuable assets is her IG page and she barely used for her partner’s benefit.

Allow me to jog your memory to a time a few years back when Anerlisa Muigai’s Instagram account was declared to be one of the most valuable accounts in Kenya and East Africa as a post from her was evaluated to be worth three hundred and fifty-two thousand back in 2019.

With all her broken relationships and marriage, Anerlisa Muigai needs therapy

Yet whenever Ben Pol had a new project, she would not really help promote her husband’s work by posting it and when she did, it was done on her stories which meant it would expire in 24 hours. And whenever they had a falling out, she would delete her husband’s pictures off social media.

That makes you wonder what she means by her being more and more selfish. She was already selfish to begin with and this was a huge issue with her relationship with Ben Pol. An aspect of this was the fact that she always ran to IG to hint at her frustrations instead of giving their marriage a chance to survive by addressing their issues privately between them.

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Anerlisa Muigi seems to only see value in the amount of money spent. That is why she has gone first to hint that selfishness is in the amount of money someone has or spends with or on you. That is also probably why Ben Pol posted something hinting at this.

You cannot enter a marriage with the individualistic notion of you getting ahead and doing the best for yourself by getting the most out of your marriage. Because marriage is hard work on both parties and any fickle understanding of what to expect leads to these abysmally short joke marriages.

Anerlisa Muigai constantly running to IG is a huge reason her marriage failed

Anerlisa Muigai did not seem to go for marital counselling and Ben Pol did not provide adequate leadership. Why else is she more focused on the amount of money invested in her marriage and not the fact that something intrinsic in her is broken enough for her to be unable to pair bond for more than two years?

And the only thing she can think of to take from her failed marriage is that she should be more selfish with her money and time? At the start of the marriage, the one thing you mustn’t be selfish with is your time. And the fact that none of her friends is willing to call her out on this bullshit notion makes me wonder whether all her friends are just scared of losing the cushy life being in her intimate circle affords them. Absolute rubbish.

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And again, I think I must reiterate that she needs therapy because if this is the only thing she can think to talk about as a lesson from her failed marriage, you can be sure she will keep repeating the same mistakes in all her subsequent relationships.

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