BRIAN CHIRA’S GRANNY AND OBIDAN’S RELATIONSHIP SPARKS CONTROVERSY
A year after TikToker Brian Chira’s passing, his name continues to dominate conversations, frequently trending on TikTok—the platform that made him a household name in Kenya and beyond.
However, the focus has shifted beyond Chira. His 65-year-old grandmother, Esther, has unexpectedly become an internet sensation, proving that age is just a number. From engaging with TikTok users to discussing selling the house built in Chira’s memory, and even seeking financial advice from followers, she has kept netizens intrigued. At the center of it all is Obidan Dela.
With all the speculation and controversy, one question remains: What exactly is going on between Shosho wa Chira and Obidan Dela? And is it really worth all the drama?
An Unusual ‘Friendship’
For months, rumors have swirled that Shosho and Obidan’s relationship might be more than just platonic. While Kenyans enjoy a good story, Obidan’s responses to inquiries about their bond have done little to put the speculation to rest.
Speaking to Oga Obinna—just a day after treating Shosho to a Valentine’s outing—Obidan shared that their friendship dates back to before Chira’s passing. He mentioned supporting Chira during his legal battle with Azziad Nasenya and later stepping in to offer companionship to Shosho.
Obidan even revealed that he had lived with her for five months because she was lonely, casually remarking, “Shosho ni msichana wa 65 years. Msichana ni msichana, ni vile tu alizaliwa mapema.” Whether said in jest or not, Kenyans have run with it.
The Valentine’s Day Pampering
Obidan went all out for Shosho on Valentine’s Day, treating her to a spa day that included a massage, pedicure, manicure, and waxing. He then took her shopping for new clothes and shoes, leaving her looking sharp and stylish.
However, the situation took an unexpected twist when Obidan claimed that following the makeover, Shosho’s inbox was flooded with messages from men. He even warned them to stop, joking that they might end up cursed. Whether this was a genuine concern or just another content stunt remains unclear.
Shosho wa Chira’s Outburst
Shortly after Valentine’s Day, tensions emerged. Shosho expressed frustration over Obidan recording and sharing aspects of her life without her consent.
“Tumetoka mbali naye. Ilikuwa nikimpigia simu anapatikana, nikitaka kuenda mahali popote. Hata watoto walikuwa wanampenda sana. Lakini kunianika ameniandika ni vibaya sana. Amenianika kama suruali.”
She emphasized that her anger wasn’t about money or material things but rather about feeling exposed online. She even suggested that her refusal to attend an interview with Obinna may have contributed to Obidan sharing her private moments.
“Nimekuwa na uchungu sana. Naskia roho yangu ikitetemeka. Hadi akaongea mambo ati sijui simu yangu ilijawa sijui na wanaume.”
Obidan’s Response
Unfazed by the backlash, Obidan downplayed the situation, claiming Shosho was simply misled into getting upset.
“Alikuwa anafurahia lakini akadanganywa akasirike ndio pesa ikuje… Aafu sometimes watu wamependana, mkiona wanashikana mkono kwa barabara msisikie vibaya… Mi pale niko. Shosho mwenyewe ananipenda sana.”
Is This Just for Content?
At this point, two possibilities remain:
- It’s all a publicity stunt. Kenyan content creators have been known to push boundaries for engagement. Could this be another scripted drama to stay relevant?
- There’s more to the story. Perhaps the rumors hold some truth, and the public has yet to see the full picture.
Either way, the internet is watching.
The Impact of Social Media
Social media can be both a blessing and a curse. While it has given Shosho and Obidan a platform, the scrutiny and criticism could take an emotional toll—especially on Shosho, given her age.
For Obidan, the constant speculation about his motives could tarnish his reputation. If his intentions are genuine, the negativity might overshadow his efforts. If it’s all for content, the internet’s memory may be short-lived, but its judgment isn’t always forgiving.
At some point, they must ask themselves whether the attention is worth it—because when the tide turns, the same audience that built them up can just as easily tear them down.
