TikTok Star Hannah Benta Blames Women for 90% of Male Cheating

TikTok personality Hannah Benta has sparked diverse reactions after expressing her openness to becoming a second wife and disclosing her history of dating married men.

Experiences with Married Men

In a conversation with Morin, Benta shared:

“I have always dated married men. My first love lasted for three years, and it was with a married man. It was the best. I was given the best life ever.”

Respect for the Primary Wife

Benta emphasized the importance of a man’s treatment of his wife:

“If I am dating a married man and you disrespect your wife, I walk away. This is because the same way you disrespected your wife is how you will disrespect me because of another woman.”

Openness to Polygamy

When questioned about the prospect of marrying a married man, she responded:

“If he marries me, I am OK, I do not mind.”

Views on Women’s Role in Infidelity

Benta criticized women for not making sufficient efforts to prevent their partners from straying:

“We, as women, are the ones who push men to cheat on us 90% of the time. A man comes to the house, finds you rocking stockings, and sees that you are not making an effort to be spicy. Yet when he comes to me, things are different.”

Public Reactions

Her statements have elicited a range of responses:

• Anderson Muriithi: “She is the reason why the men she dates leave their wives. She has become a walking alter.”
• Felister Wamae: “She should give her life to Jesus; he will solve all her problems.”
• Micky Saajy: “And she thinks it’s an achievement.”
• Brian Sande Lusichi: “Dear ladies, don’t waste your time and energy chasing out men. Remember, ladies grow old faster than men. Use your youth to get someone who truly loves you with or without anything. Start life together, bear children, and grow with them together.”
• Charlie Ezekiel: “That’s a person who doesn’t have anything to lose and is out to cause damage to families.”
• Faith Musembi: “Better to be a side chick to a married man than being loyal to a cheating husband. Dating married men is sweet but not from experience.”
• Lynett Brenda: “You are being tormented by the altar of divorce! Pray for deliverance to marry your own husband with respect.”
• Malo Benjitto: “And then if she gets pregnant and is abandoned, she’ll start saying only ‘real men’ can marry a single mother. Or if she marries a husband who has side chicks, you’ll see her contemplating suicide with the children.”

Benta’s revelations have ignited a broader conversation about relationships, fidelity, and societal norms.