Marya Okoth, YY Comedian’s Ex, Reflects on Fame and Moving Forward
YY Comedian’s former partner, Marya Okoth, recently shared insights into her life in the spotlight. Speaking to Nairobi News, the mother of one reflected on the opportunities and challenges that come with fame.
On Social Media and Fame
“Social media has transformed my life in ways I never expected. What started as a casual activity turned into a source of income and a career path. It has brought me fame I couldn’t have imagined,” she said. However, she noted that being in the public eye comes with added pressure. “You have to carry yourself in a certain way because people are always watching. You’re not just living for yourself anymore—you become a role model for young girls, mothers, and others who follow you online.”
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Building a Brand
Marya stressed the importance of being deliberate about how one presents themselves.
“One key lesson I’ve learned is that you can’t control how others perceive you. People will always form their own opinions. The only thing you can truly control is how you perceive yourself and the way you behave.”
On Regrets and Life Lessons
When asked about regrets, Marya explained she embraces her experiences.
“Every event in life, whether positive or negative, is a learning opportunity. I wouldn’t erase anything from my journey because each moment has contributed to the person I’ve become.”
The Trade-offs of Public Life
She acknowledged the sacrifices that fame demands, including her personal privacy.
“Sharing your life online means giving up a certain level of privacy. Social media expects you to share more, and that can feel invasive at times. There’s also constant pressure to maintain a perfect image, which can be overwhelming when people are quick to judge mistakes.”
Financial Challenges of Content Creation
Marya highlighted the financial investment required to thrive as an influencer.
“Producing high-quality content is expensive. From equipment to wardrobe, it all adds up. People judge you by your output, and if it doesn’t meet their expectations, they move on.”
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Advice for Aspiring Influencers
Her advice to newcomers in the space is to stay consistent and authentic.
“The competition is stiff, with some influencers working with entire teams. You have to remain unique. Also, learning early on that you can’t control public opinion will save you a lot of stress.”
Parenting in the Public Eye
Marya also opened up about the challenges of raising a child under public scrutiny.
“When my baby was younger, there were delays in certain milestones, and people compared my child to others in the limelight. It was frustrating. While I don’t regret sharing parts of my parenting journey, there are moments I wish I had kept private.”
Balancing Openness with Opportunity
Despite the challenges, Marya acknowledged the benefits of her transparency.
“Being open has allowed me to collaborate with brands and earn an income, which has its perks. However, it also invites constant scrutiny of your parenting and inevitable comparisons, which can be tough if you dwell on the negatives.”
Through her journey, Marya continues to embrace both the rewards and challenges that come with her unique position.
