Bernice Saroni puts Karen Nyamu in her place

Bernice Saroni, the woman who is currently hosting Samidoh’s wife Edday Nderitu, has advised women to walk away from relationships where they are being disrespected.

She said that women should not allow their body insecurities to make them feel like they deserve to be treated poorly by a man or his side chick. She also said that women should remember that their children need them more than anything else, and that they should not stay in a relationship that is harmful to their children.

Saroni’s advice is a reminder that women should value themselves and their worth. They should not allow themselves to be treated as less than by anyone, including their partners. If a man is disrespecting you, it is time to walk away. You deserve better.

“Always choose yourself, no matter how the situation is. No woman is more special than another woman. We are all the same. We have all the body parts. But always choose yourself. Never allow the side chick to make you feel bad because you have added weight.

Just because you are from giving birth, or that she has more money than you.

Never allow a man to disrespect you with another woman. Never. Juu ya nini? Status? Never. Never allow another woman to be brought into your life by your husband akulilishe machozi, akufanye you feel less of a woman, remember you have kids. 

Your kids need you more than anyone else, wacha nikuambie, utakufa, uzikwe, huyu dem atakuja matanga yako and guess what, atatesa watoto wako (you will dies, get buried and the side chick will come for the funeral and mistreat your children) and there’s nothing you could have done, but if you choose yourself, you will take care of your kids,”