Where Jimal Roho Safi went wrong in managing a polygamous family

Jimal Roho Safi, for those of you who might not be familiar with him, is a socialite and successful trollop Amberay’s new husband. The couple has been trying to segue from being clandestine lovers into becoming a successful polygamous family without success.

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You see, Jimal Roho Safi, also known as Jamal Marlow, was already married when he began having a dalliance with Amberay. His wife is a lady called Amira and she is not amused about the open disrespect her husband has showered her in.

So understandably, Jimal’s family is crumbling and he and his new femme fatale, Amberay, are oblivious to the fact. A reason for this as one of my mentors pointed out is like the story of Solomon and the two mothers who fought over the baby, only the real mother was unwilling to have her baby torn asunder.

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What that essentially means is that Jimal Roho Safi needs to realise that the fact Amberay is perfectly at peace with tearing his world asunder to have a piece of him tells him she is not the Stepford wife he believes her to be but rather a succubus…

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Anyway, right from the get-go, he did a terrible job of setting himself up for a polygamous marriage and we are going to delve into why I have made that assertion and will be sticking to it -other than the fact that I am right:

#1. He was not honest and upfront

No woman would agree to you changing the terms of your engaging with her midway through your marriage. Jimal Roho Safi is an example of why men who know they would eventually like to pursue polygamous marriages or relationships need to be upfront about that fact. If the lady you’re pursuing decides to leave when you tell her your intention, let her go. It is her prerogative.
Far too often we see men who have zero cojones and have a scarcity mindset instead opt to lie and cheat on their partner rather than be direct, preferring this approach so they do not lose the girl. And this always ends badly. As we can tell from Amira’s reaction.

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#2. He vetted poorly

Why would any man decide to marry a well-known trollop who was formerly married in a similar polygamous union but nearly burnt that household down to the ground with her pettiness? Jimal Roho Safi is a clown for accepting to pursue a marriage with Amberay rather than keep their affair secret.
For starters, she is not the type of woman you can pull up with where other high-value men are and expect to be respected for your choice of a partner. Secondly, she is a known agent of entropy. She already failed spectacularly at being a wife, why give her a second go?

#3. Jimal has a scarcity mindset

Jimal has never known abundance when it comes to women. That is why when the first hot woman (let’s be honest here, Amberay is still attractive despite having hit the wall and her attractiveness having diminished somewhat due to her weight gain) he could seduce who agreed to be with him is who he is currently destroying his marriage for. He doesn’t believe there will be others and he is too scared of rejection to keep exploring. He has no idea that he could get a younger, hotter more submissive and cooperative wife who would come sans bastards and baggage from previous relationships.

#4. Jimal Roho Safi lacks game

You see, when you’re poor, game gets you the girls. When you’re wealthy, game protects you from damage from women. My mentor pointed out that when you have nothing to offer a woman’s hypergamy, game is what gets you the wet crevices. When you have wealth, all the women you deal with are out to sate their hypergamous instinct. Game is what keeps them in line and in check to avoid you getting ripped off by gold diggers or even divorce and alimony.

#5. Jamal Marlow has no mentors

How else can we explain away the fact that no one was around to guide this man through the pitfalls that the rest of us onlookers can see so clearly in his failed attempt at establishing a polygamous marriage? Where are those same uncles of his who came to sanction this union? Either Jimal chooses to surround himself with clowns as all clowns do or he only wants yes men around him who can fondle his ego. What he really needs are men who have successfully established polygamous unions to guide him but instead, he has Instagram fans.

#6. Jimal Roho Safi is not seeking to improve as a man

If our boy were really seeking to improve as a man, his women would realize he is above their petty drama and actually try to give him peace because at any one point he would tire of the banalities of their fights and chase both women away and start again. Can you imagine a Jimal Roho Safi who is working to improve his mind, his body and his business? he would be the captain of his ship and his first mate and first officer would be trying to make things easy for him to steer the ship. Instead, we have a Jamal Marlow who…

#7. Involves himself in female fights

I do not understand why Jimal Roho Safi keeps involving himself in his women’s fights. He should be above the pettiness. Instead, he is on Instagram like a petty socialite showing the world how he lacks control over his domain.

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