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I Was Told My Boobs Were Too Small – Leila Djansi

After Lydia Forson told her tale of how a producer wanted to feel her breasts before given her a role; other people have come out to talk about the sexual harassment they have also gone through.

One such person is Leila Djansi. She has started writing about her own sexual harassment stories and experiences on Facebook.

She has taken to Facebook for a weeklong storytelling of how she has been sexually harassed both in Ghana and America.

She tells a story on how she was not paid her salary because she refused to kiss her boss. Some of the stories are below:

I’ll share my sexual harassment stories all week. In Ghana and in America.”

Ghana: When I started out, a TV station owed me money. I met with the head for my payment and he asked me to kiss him first. I said no. Went home without pay. Spent another week without food. My dad was down with stroke so there was no way I was asking my parents for money. Thanks to friends who invited me to their meals.

“America: My previous attorney who ended up robbing me. He said my boobs were too small, industry men will not find me attractive enough to give me deals. His advice was to get a partner with big boobs who’d use her sexuality to get me into rooms.” 

These stories are heartbreaking and show a bigger picture of how insidious sexual harassment is in the fabric of society.

As a society we should not stand for it and must speak up at every point.

Sexual Harassment In The Movie Industry Is Real – Lydia Forson

Award-winning actress, Lydia Forson has spoken about the sexual advances and power play that goes on behind the scenes in  the movie industry. She spoke about how as a young and upcoming actress, she was once accosted by a producer. She said the producer demanded to see her breasts during an audition in order to get a role.

She made these statements during an interview on BBC. She said, “Earlier in my career just once, small-time producer who asked to see my breast for a role I was auditioning for and I said no, and walked out.”

Forson’s views were sought in the wake of the sexual scandal involving Harvey Weinstein, heavyweight Hollywood producer. He faces accusations from an increasing number of actresses, younger associates and interns.

Lydia Forson said she stormed out when the producer made that demand on her body. She continued by saying that sexual harassments are common in other professions; and many women face unrequited sexual advances from men in powerful positions.

She stated, “It’s unfortunate that it’s very common but it cuts across everywhere. Women are subjected to unwanted sexual advances from men in powerful positions especially who want to take advantage of their vulnerability. Especially in Africa where there’s a lot of poverty and people are looking for jobs, they know how to feed on peoples desperation.”

Additionally, she spoke about an experience a young lady shared with her about harassment.

“Just last week, an actress walked up to me and said she’s been trying to break up into the industry for several years but every producer wants to sleep with her and they named dropped some big actresses that they slept with before giving them roles. They threaten them, blackball them in the industry if they refuse to cooperate.”

She ended by saying that the abuse in the industry has to end. However, the people who speak up about the abuse are the ones with the means to stop them.