10 Things Men Hate Hearing From Their ‘Women’

Sustaining a healthy relationship is quite a herculean task as there are many ups and downs which may run into serious issues sometimes. Men do things which females don’t like and women unintentionally say things which their partner would hate hearing. Even little arguments often lead to big fights because of this habit. Women are noted to be very emotional and this is no exception even in marriage. But one thing that should be noted is that in as much as women are very emotional, men as well have feelings and they do get hurt or are angered sometimes by some words.

So here are some things which men hate hearing  from their women. Let me be alone
Husbands hate hearing this kind of excuses. Sharing your feeling with him won’t do any harm.

1.”Let me be alone”

Men hate hearing this kind of excuses. Most of the time, women become reserved after quarrels and won’t open up to their husbands even when they’re asked to do so. Also, women become very snobbish especially during that time of the month but if your man is with you even during that time, then you should you that it’s because he cares about you. Sharing your feeling with him won’t do any harm.Remember that he wouldn’t be asking if he didn’t care so just relax, control your anger and pains and share what you’re feeling with him.

2. “Never Mind, I’ll do it myself”

Instead of telling him,“Never mind, I’ll just do it myself” when probably he didn’t hear you ask him for a favor the first time does put them off.
When you have asked him to do something, let him do it.  Men hate this habit when you make faces and say “never mind, I’ll do it myself”.

3. “We Need to talk.”

Telling your man this really puts him in a discomforting situation. He becomes less concentrated even at work and thinks only of whatever it is you want to talk to him about.
Be open and straight to the point about things. That’s how men prefer doing a conversation. Saying “we need to talk” leads to a stressful situation.

4. “You should have known.”

C’mon, men are also humans just like you. They are not supposed to know everything. There are things which, he may not know and it’s up to you the wife to tell him things you want him to know especially those concerning you. Remember, men don’t usually take note of this as women do. Their mindset is quite different from yours. So hey, it’s ok, if he doesn’t know something you expect him to know.

5. “You’re going out with the guys again?”
Remember his gesture when you first asked him this question? Some space in a relationship is important and hanging out with guys is not a big deal. Allow your husband to have some time for his friends as well. There are some ‘boys boys stuffs’ that he can discuss only with his friends. Give him a break because he also needs to have fun with his friends despite being married. Being over protective will only drive him away from you.

6. “Do you think she’s hot?”
He is very well aware of what you are trying to do. You asking him this obviously shows that you are walking on the jealousy path. Even if he thinks “she is hot”, he cares about you and loves you. So, don’t do this to him. You tend to put him in a very discomfort situation with that kind of question. You have to know that you may be ‘hot’ but there’s someone definitely ‘hotter’ than you just like someone may be more handsome than him yet you are still with him. What for? Of course, not only because of looks but there are other factors as well. That’s why he also chose you in the first place. No need to brood in jealousy.

7. “Why do you have to be friends with her if you don’t have feelings for her anymore?”

Well, many people have problems with their partners being friends with their pasts. But hey, why  can’t  they just be friends? Big deal?

8. “Pick up after yourself. I’m not your mother.”
He is very well aware of the fact that you are not her mother. Even if you are annoyed, say it in a better way, though. Otherwise, it’s surely going to affect your relationship.

9.“Man up.”
Really?, never forget that ego hurts. Saying this to your man is just a ‘no no’. Imagine how you will feel if your man should tell you you are not pretty. Hurts right?. Then it’s a mutual feeling then. Men are not known for showing weakness, but when he does, remember, he’s human too. He’s got feelings.

10. “Don’t you know what today is?”
NO, as always. Please just don’t ask him this. If he’s able to forget his own birthday, then there’s actually no big deal with him forgetting yours.