7 flirting mistakes women make

Flirting is one of the most effective ways to initiate communication and let a guy know you are into him.

However, if not done correctly, flirting may heavily backfire and turn off the man completely.

Here are flirting mistakes women should avoid when looking for a potential mate.

1. Being too clingy.

Men do not like women who are too clingy or women who get possessive quickly.

There is a difference between touching a guy’s arm while talking, and hanging on his arm while he tries to talk to his friends. 

Respect your man’s space and time especially when he is with his friends or enjoying his hobbies such as football or rugby.

Refrain from constantly watsapping him when he is watching his beloved Arsenal or Man United on Saturdays.

2. Coming on too strong.

Be mindful of what you say and how strong you come on to a guy. Do not seem to appear to be coming on too strong unless that is if you are just only looking for a hook-up.

3. Being whiny.

Men like to appear macho, helpful and to be a hero. However, do not take advantage of this and appear to be seen as whiny.

Do not also constantly appear to be needing his help and advice.

4. Playing games.

It is good to look smart and intelligent. Playing mind games may appear sexy at times but sometimes it is good to be just conservative and plain old school.

Do not play too hard to get. If you are interested in a guy, show him and tell him you are interested or he will move on.

5. Being disrespectful

Sarcasm and humor can be effective tools when flirting. Humor keeps the discussion relaxed and sarcasm can show him your feisty side.

However, be careful not to seem to be mean-spirited.

Do not to offend him or embarrass him in front of other people especially when it comes to performance in the bedroom or challenging his manhood.

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That is an extremely sensitive matter when it comes to a man.

6. Acting like you are not really into him.

Acting like you are too cool to like him could result in him wanting you more, that is true, but do you really want to be with someone who only likes you when you do not like him?

If you are into him, just act like you are into him.

7. Stalking his social media accounts

It is good to like his Facebook posts, retweet him and even double-tap on his Instagram pictures.

It shows you are interested in him.

However, do not be persistently commenting on his posts like a crazed fan. Comment once in a while and chill!